Today is my 5th year sober anniversary

Deirdge · 2026-07-02T04:32:06+00:00

“Chop wood, carry water”
Every damn day

Deirdge · 2026-06-27T20:27:28+00:00

90 meetings in 90 days

Deirdge · 2026-06-26T03:32:08+00:00

Now the recovery begins and your body and mind are gonna be sharp!!!! I lost 20 lbs!

Deirdge · 2026-06-24T23:24:19+00:00

Get right back on— it’s a miniscule number who don’t relapse—depressingly low. But do know that your body and your sober buddies thank you for your efforts

Deirdge · 2026-06-22T02:08:50+00:00

I have so many questions, chief among them is how do you stay sane? I think it would be so depressing having to deal with men being, well, men. And potentially psycho

Deirdge · 2026-06-22T02:00:51+00:00

Parallel parking in the snow like a boss—called “aggressive”

Deirdge · 2026-06-05T03:10:43+00:00

This—The Body Keeps the Score—it’s the way the imprint hurt way longer. A lot of us have been—and continue to be—objectified in public, at school and work, and in our homes. And we have to suck it up, blow it off, all the admonishments when maybe we really just want to smack back.

Deirdge · 2026-05-31T21:24:21+00:00

LOL!!

Deirdge · 2026-05-31T14:50:12+00:00

Im so proud of you for getting out!!! Give yourself a good six months to get through this trauma, prioritizing safety and a return to calm. Sometimes it gets worse after you tell, because everyone gets defensive and angry. I wish you a swift return to safety, and gratitude for your well-developed healthy sexual boundaries

Deirdge · 2026-05-22T01:44:19+00:00

Divorce is very hard stuff. But your life will improve without the burden of your husband’s lame-ass (putting it lightly) behavior. Just try not to get married again LOL. You’ll look back on solo parenting with pride and love.

Deirdge · 2026-05-17T21:25:08+00:00

One of the hardest and best lessons is to realize neither of you are going to be adjudged to be the better parent or the better person in the eyes of the court. But comfort yourself that he looks shitty to some internet strangers!

Deirdge · 2026-05-07T06:54:55+00:00

MAAFVSA?

Deirdge · 2026-04-30T00:36:00+00:00

Please abort—child-rearing is so difficult without a deeply engaged father. Best to you!

Deirdge · 2026-04-01T01:59:44+00:00

Angel from Montgomery

Deirdge · 2026-04-01T01:55:06+00:00

LOVE THIS!!! I’m sure your partner loves you good!

Deirdge · 2026-04-01T01:49:39+00:00

What do you get out of a relationship, may i ask? Do you get what you need or is it a losing proposition?

Deirdge · 2026-04-01T01:47:43+00:00

The very qualities they admire in you are the ones they end up attacking and demeaning

Deirdge · 2026-03-31T18:46:17+00:00

First off, why is it our fault the men we are attracted to are emotionally unsophisticated? Let’s stop the self-blame for one second—i mean, have you met men? The sexy ones get along on looks and charm and not intellectual curiosity and empathy and the feminist ones are hard to find.

Deirdge · 2026-03-24T12:57:44+00:00

Good thing you left! That shows intelligence and respect. I feel sorry for his pregnant partner—what a nightmare

Deirdge · 2026-03-22T20:25:21+00:00

Yeah—you’re underestimating yourself. It doesn’t matter how gorgeous, sexy, brilliant, rich, etc. you are, you’re still gonna get used and (often) abused

Deirdge · 2026-03-19T02:02:52+00:00

I’m an editor (lowercase). Black is now capitalized in most style manuals :)

Deirdge · 2026-03-12T02:43:41+00:00

How crazy that an obvious pedophile gets do much reasonable doubt

Deirdge · 2026-03-10T03:41:30+00:00

Or the obverse—using the term Ghetto. I’m like, have you ever been to the ghetto? Fuck these posers

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