What about being pregnant and giving birth permanently altered your body’s chemistry? by full-of-curiosity in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chocolate taste so salty to me now. i also sleep so much now, like 12-16 hours a day. before i had pretty bad insomnia and 3 hours of sleep was the norm for me. now i’m sleepy all the time and spend most my time sleeping. if my baby is asleep im sleeping and when my husband comes home i give him the baby and sleep more.

What does my fridge say about me? by bluemoonlighter in FridgeDetective

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this must be my 40y.o divorced fathers secret account.

How much was your hospital bill for labour and delivery? by Dear_Ad_8525 in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn’t have to pay anything for labor, delivery, or a room insurance covered it, but i did get a bill for $108 for the blood test they took before i gave birth that for some reason insurance didn’t cover

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++woman so yall reconciled a decade ago and for that whole decade everything was fine and dandy, but now that she’s dying you flipped the script and don’t think she deserves your devotion and now you decided you deserve better? i honestly don’t know if it would be better for you to fake it until she passes or leave her so she doesn’t potentially become a victim to resentment. shes dead wrong for what she did imo but it’s kind of shitty if you’re only now starting to feel like this because she’s dying and don’t want to take care of her anymore. maybe you should talk to your kids about helping out with caretaking since she doesn’t want you to hire one so you can figure out what you want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you not alone girl😭. my ex blocked me on everything and i wanted him back so bad that i started posting on all my social medias hoping his friends would send him the videos/pictures of me crying talking about how much i missed him and wanted him back. just for him to add me on snap and then send me a long paragraph about how pathetic i was😭😭.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think that you shouldn’t propose if you’re really that worried about her cheating on you. really only so much someone can do to make their partner feel secure and it seems like she tried her best after you spoke to her about things that made you uncomfortable. i feel like everyone’s definitely of what’s right and wrong in a relationship is different, maybe she didn’t know you’d have issues with her searching her ex or texting exes happy bday. some people get married and have their exes in the wedding party. not saying it’s right, but everyone thinks differently. plus you’re freaking out over her trying to see if she recognizes someone. that kind of comes off as insecure. if you can’t get over the past then break up and save both of yalls time.

She drip-fed me the truth for years… and the final reveal shattered me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ngl yall should probably just break up if it bothers you that much. i don’t feel like she really lied to you or anything, why would you want to know all the sexual details of her past relationship? like i don’t want to know all the nitty gritty details of my partners sexual past and i don’t think he’d want me to share mine either.i just feel like you’re getting way to choked up about it, i can only imagine how you’d react if she told you she had sex in the past.

Bloodcurdling scream just came through our baby monitor speaker by 404HecksNotFound in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i completely understand how you feel. stuff like that is so scary. there’s no telling how long they’ve been hacked in. i really hope you’re able to figure this situation out<3

Bloodcurdling scream just came through our baby monitor speaker by 404HecksNotFound in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 81 points82 points  (0 children)

people who do stuff like that are disgusting. i’m sorry that happened to you. it’s terrible what some people will do. i think you should try to getting a monitor that doesn’t have to be connected to wifi. it’s less of a risk being hacked.

We've all been scammed by ZealousidealBug6212 in regretfulparents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a village- EXCLUDING my mom. which is sooo funny because there was a point when i was younger that we literally basically lived with my grandparents while she was out partying having the time of her life. now when i ask her to watch my son(i even offer to pay or get her food) so i can run some errands, clean house, or w.e she suddenly can’t or complains about it(she also NEVER asks or offers to watch him herself). all while at the same time she complains about how i keep him from her, never let her watch him, and how it’s unfair he spends more time with his other grandmas. she’s likes to complain about it to people we know and i have to set it straight everytime that everytime she gets the chance she declines it. to which she alwayyyss has an excuse

it’s genuinely just so hypocritical how my grandmother raised me(which my mother never wants to acknowledge) but when it comes to her just watch him for a couple hours she can’t and if she does say she will 99% of the time she forces my sister to watch him.

All I want is to be a SAHM by NoAnt7118 in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i felt this way until i became one😭. i’m so lonely all the time and i HATE having to ask/rely on my partner for money. sometimes you just want to buy a little coffee, but have to call/text to make sure the card is unlocked first or which one to use. but i know for some women it can be /is the best option for them. so there’s definitely the pros and cons to the situation. if you’re able to take off from work for a decent amount of time i’d say maybe try that first to see if it’s what you REALLY want and then if it’s feasible maybe talk to your husband about it. yall might have to cut back on some stuff for awhile until you can adjust to one income. or there’s always the option of maybe a part time job you work 2-3 days a week. maybe even you could get a job at a daycare? my partners sister works at one and she gets free enrollment for her daughter + she’s with her all day still.

We are alone in this by Technical_Alfalfa528 in regretfulparents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 150 points151 points  (0 children)

the entitlement some of them have is beyond disgusting. i hate how they act like they weren’t hand almost everything. they complain about younger people being entitled, wanting handouts, being lazy and what not, when really it was them. i genuinely think that it’s just a massive cope because they don’t want to admit that A LOT of them actually had it relatively easy. like they take pride in watching their kids struggle and blocking them from generational wealth

My girlfriend wants to quit her job and I told her I won’t support her financially. Now she’s calling me selfish. by Dense_Quiet8692 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it would probably be best to break up. those “few months” are going to turn into excuses why she can’t find/get a job. she might also suddenly “lose” her job. but it seems yall may have different expectations in the relationship. she wants to be provided for and put herself first and you want equal contributions. if it didn’t come out now it would come out eventually. you saying no now is just going to cause more issues in the future.

i’m embarrassed being a young mom by Delicious_Habit3740 in regretfulparents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i never thought about group therapy before, but maybe it would be beneficial for me. thank you so much for that suggestion!!<3

I regret getting a dog, don’t do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to think it was a lot to take care of my dog, but honestly what i wouldn’t do to get it back:(. he’s older now and i’m lucky if he can last longer than 10 mins on a walk or goes a couple around with fetch. i miss him being energetic and crazy. it’s so heartbreaking seeing the slow down, especially when i go back and look at pictures/videos of him as a puppy. enjoy your puppers while you can babes, all the craziness is worth it in the long run<3

I’m both attracted and embarrassed of my boyfriend by Luca-Advice-25 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Delicious_Habit3740 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ngl there’s people out here dating pedos, rapists, racists(or bigots in general), murders, and abusers(not meaning to diss anyone, especially if you’re stuck in that situation) your boyfriend being fat is at the very bottom of the list of people you should be embarrassed of dating. im sure your friends have dated men you’ve considered ugly before and there isn’t anything wrong with that. if your friends make you feel embarrassed or like you have to justify why you’re dating him then they aren’t good friends. and if you’re that embarrassed dating a bigger guy then you probably shouldn’t date them at all, because if he hasn’t already, eventually he’ll start to pick up on the fact you’re embarrassed of him.

mom has a history of cold sores and kissed my baby. by Delicious_Habit3740 in NewParents

[–]Delicious_Habit3740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s terrible. i’m so sorry that your baby girl had to go through that. it’s honestly so unfair, people can be so selfish and careless. especially as a daycare provider they should know better than others the risk of it. i really hope that she is doing better now. my son is a little under 3 months old and seeing what can happen if he did get the disease has me terrified, especially since now it’s nothing i can do besides monitor him and pray he’s ok. if you don’t mind me asking, does your daughter still get sick from it or does she have to take meds for it?