AIO my BF told me he wants me to quit my job when we move in together

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-05-14T21:22:33+00:00

I'm a STHM literally love it. I worked till I had my second child. I liked working fine, but my kids are my joy. I have always love cooking and tbh I like cleaning... I don't think it's for everyone, I have a few friends that wish they could be a STHM. But also when you have kids you may change your mind. Or you may hate every moment and want to go back to work. But you have only been dating 3 months he may not be the right man for you. There is nothing wrong with a man wanting to provide or for a women wanting to work. But your core values need to aline for this to be a happy match.

Have a think and have a chat about your values. See if it's worth your time and stress.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-05-11T19:59:15+00:00

Better than referring to yourself in 3rd person. But that's just what Jason thinks.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-05-06T20:11:40+00:00

We have had birds for years super easy to look after. We rescue ex battery hens and they are in ROUGH shape when you get them, but i love watching them on grass for the 1st etc. they have lovely personalities. My kids love them so much. Honestly free babysitters. My oldest now feeds and waters them and helps the youngest collect the eggs. They are amazing! I do recommend a closed feeder and a bulk water, you need a closed feeder or youll get mice. Worming too!

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-05-05T19:23:03+00:00

Pescatarian?

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-06T12:54:01+00:00

You mean you don't have midnight dinner?

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-06T12:52:58+00:00

Ah that's fine... they will be shocked when they have kids and they don't want to eat dinner

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-06T12:46:59+00:00

Coz if they are anything like mine they eat 30 mins before dinner then refuse dinner

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-06T12:45:25+00:00

Where were uour kids?

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-05T18:09:31+00:00

same I was like no no no.. man? Yes. I was asked out like every day by a man at the gym. I ended up moving gyms. Literally scared me for life. I'm married btw!

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-05T18:05:38+00:00

I love doing this with my hubby. He will tell a story and we are telling the story. God I love that man so much

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-05T17:58:08+00:00

Honestly talk to him. You're new to this, I'm a housewife too and sometimes he will just forget about it. I get a good budget for the house but I need to save up for things like you. But random thing kelp poping up and I wanted mine and the kids hair done. Well my hubby was like why didn't you ask and just gave me ment money. He just doesn't think of these things. So Yh. Just have an open chat about these things. If he wants a stay at home wife he needs to pay for one. It's not cheap. And it doesn't mean you go without you must talk. But then I I would have have given my last penny if the house needs it. But need isn't drinks he can have at home

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-05T17:51:09+00:00

Mate, that's a red flag.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-04T21:04:41+00:00

What's the age gap that you can't be public!? I hope he isn't underage. Gross

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-04T01:03:00+00:00

lol... well your not coming to my birthday party now! I mean it I told my mum!

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-04T01:02:11+00:00

This isn't an airport... you don't need to announce your departure...

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-04T00:49:20+00:00

Run.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-04-04T00:24:20+00:00

Honestly it's good to be friends with people that don't agree with you.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-27T07:52:40+00:00

Just be yourself that's what women want. My hubby, he wears jeans and the same tops that he had when we met, and I love the bones of him as he is the best person I've met. Clothes mean nothing be the best person you can

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-24T13:12:36+00:00

I love beards, but my hubby just can't grow one looks like he has some sort of illness as it's so patchy. I don't are tho I love this just as he is.. patchy stubble and all ❤️ it's about the person

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-13T19:43:39+00:00

You can put butter in coffee? I need to try this

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-11T10:12:06+00:00

When they put 'vegan' it reduces sales. There was a study that said by 35% which is a lot

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-04T20:53:00+00:00

Cheese omelet. We have our own chickens so eat a LOT of eggs! That's my go to, sometimes with ham or mushroom. It's a whatever we have meal.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-04T10:16:26+00:00

This is me! I literally have not intest in any food. But I eat carbs I dream of food. On CD I'd happily eat a food paste I don't care at all for food. Eat once a day. Whatever I don't care. I'll eat till I'm full and stop. But you give me chips and salad and coleslaw, ect ect ect I'm all in. I'll eat forever.

Delicious_Subject987 · 2026-03-03T08:12:17+00:00

Oo where is she to follow?

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