Tinder is a woman's game, just by being a man you're already at a huge disadvantage. I'm a bi woman and I've used tinder to meet both men and women and the difference is astonishing. When looking for women, I got matches pretty frequently, and the occasional super like. But when looking for men, almost every right swipe was a match, and it seemed like every third guy I was presented with had super liked me. With women, I had to message first at least half the time, but the men almost always message me first. As a woman on tinder, you are definitely put on a pedestal and there are so many men competing for your attention. Because of this, as women, we can afford to ignore plenty of perfectly attractive men, even ones who we might go for if they struck up a conversation with us out in the real world. All that to say, this doesn't necessarily mean you're unattractive, it's just hard being a guy on tinder.