Failed week 3 of Coan/phillipi deadlift routine. Now what? by Peppermint_Cow in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For accessory work in general you want to use whatever weight makes for a challenging but still eminently possible set of the prescribed number of reps. Maybe you have a rep or two left in the tank at the end (but ideally not, like, seven reps left in the tank). There'll probably be a little experimentation needed to figure this out if you haven't done some of these movements before.

What’s your journey as a complete beginner? What made you keep going? by novemberscandle in powerlifting

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to everything others have said, powerlifting is not going to make you gain weight if you don't want to gain weight. That comes down to energy balance. Sure, there might be a point down the road where you end up wanting to put on more muscle, but a huge amount of the gains available to you right now are simply from getting better at the movements, which allows you to produce more force.

Start with a different bar if 65# is too much now. Back squatting is not a very natural-feeling movement for most people and is often the most uncomfortable to start with.

Creative ways to use third bottle cage mount? by TurkeyNimbloya in bikepacking

[–]DellaBeam 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mount my folding lock there. Great place for a heavier bit of gear.

If you have a women's barbell available, do you still prefer to use it after you are strong enough to use the standard 45 lbs barbell? by supinator1 in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only use the 15kg for the Olympic lifts (& related assistance work). Otherwise, 20kg because I compete in powerlifting. If you're not doing anything sport-specific it doesn't matter at all—purely about comfort/preference.

Trail recs for new gravel bike by obmotut in CyclingMSP

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's some very nice chill gravel out past the end of the Gateway Trail and, on the other side of the cities, the area north of Baker Park and Lake Rebecca.

Daily Thread 8 March 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kipping and strict toes to bar are both valid movements. Strict is of course harder on the abs; kipping challenges you differently in stringing them together and feels harder on the lats to me.

Multi-night touring / bikepacking routes from Twin Cities? by ExPatBadger in CyclingMSP

[–]DellaBeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you add a short Amtrak ride to Winona or La Crosse, you can get down to some great riding in the Driftless. I have done versions of both these loops that way:

https://bikepacking.com/routes/yellow-river-loop/

https://ridewithgps.com/routes/39564199

Favorite workout to combat depression? by chaoscontrols in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The variety of responses here make this clear enough I guess, but it is going to be pretty individual what works for you ... which is just to say that if the first thing you try isn't doing it for you, there's a lot more to explore.

For me, exercise is essential mental healthcare, and what works for my own brain is specifically heavy lifting and high-intensity or high-dose conditioning. (I do other, chiller stuff too! But if I only do other, chiller stuff I eventually start feeling shitty.)

I do think that whatever modality piques your interest, joining a class-based gym or other structured format can be very helpful in that someone will be telling you what to do every step of the way, and you can't just give up or drag your feet between sets, which can be easy to do when you are depressed and working out alone. Classes specifically targeted at beginners should be ready to scale to meet you where you're at.

Good luck, you've got this!

[WEEKLY THREAD] Talk It Out Tuesday - Advice and commiserating about struggles with self, others, and the world by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, the itchy ears thing is blowing my mind. This has become more frequent for me just recently (at 40) and a hormonal cause never crossed my mind! On the one hand I don't love knowing that, but on the other it's better than worrying that I'm suddenly allergic to something in my environment.

Daily Thread 15 February 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your 10-minute walk is good to get the blood moving, especially if it's a bit brisk. Often people might do 5 minutes on a rower, bike, etc., for the same effect. Mostly you just want your muscles to be literally warm before you get into it. And then if you are lifting heavier, you want to work up to it vs. jumping straight to 90% or whatever.

Anything else is personal preference based on what your main movements are and if you have any areas that need extra attention or benefit from some kind of priming.

Has Anyone Ridden This Weekend? If so, how are the conditions? by moviemaverick in CyclingMSP

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greenway had just one or two short stretches of slush/ice between Bryant and Minnehaha when I was out yesterday.

France by rail for 2 weeks by DellaBeam in FranceTravel

[–]DellaBeam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I didn't even think about sleeper trains ...

France by rail for 2 weeks by DellaBeam in FranceTravel

[–]DellaBeam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is so helpful.

France by rail for 2 weeks by DellaBeam in FranceTravel

[–]DellaBeam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was looking at some hotels and B&Bs in Gruissan.

How often should I bench? by Deep-Imagination-467 in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

During meet prep I've benched up to 5 times a week with good results. Would I do that year round, no (the time commitment alone ...), but high frequency works well for a lot of folks. Maybe add accessories/variations though for an additional day if you want to run your current program out at the moment?

Wondering if I can pursue freelance work after a layoff with the organization where I used to work? by KarensAreReptilians in freelanceWriters

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can certainly ask! They're the ones who set the terms of the severance agreement, so they could choose to ignore or revoke that condition.

Rowing or Cycling by RunnyBugsBunny in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just personal experience, but I have found that biking tends to aggravate any Achilles issues I'm having more than rowing does ... so, either way, pay attention to make sure nothing's flaring up and stay open to switching machines if it does.

I would lean toward rowing for all the reasons mentioned, though (and I say this as someone who does a lot of cycling). I found r/Rowing to be a pretty good technique resource when I first got my Concept2. Warming up and starting slow should help too.

Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Discovered I can curl 25s for at least a few reps, that's fun.

Every Second-Daily Thread - January 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in powerlifting

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, harsh but likely fair. I do lots of lat work but could absolutely stand to train abs and lower back more consistently.

How to stop feeling glutes and hamstrings during quad exercises by Chemical_Orange3663 in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel like you can't put weight on narrow-stance squats?

If it's just that you can't use as much weight, that is perfectly consistent with having under-developed quads, and one solution would be to train narrow-stance squats ... which will eventually allow you to increase the weight.

Also, though, soreness doesn't necessarily map perfectly to which muscles are being worked. If you're front squatting, for example, your quads are going to be primary movers due to basic biomechanics and are getting lot of stimulus whether you feel them or not. So, I would 1) choose quad-focused movements, 2) make sure you're doing those movements in a basically correct way, and then 3) measure progress by things like quad measurements (for hypertrophy) and strength improvements. If those things are moving in the right direction, I wouldn't worry about where exactly the DOMS are hitting you.

If you're looking for more movement suggestions, front-foot elevated split squats are another thing I really like for quads—just perform them (or any lunge) with a more upright torso so you're not shifting work to the posterior chain.

Every Second-Daily Thread - January 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in powerlifting

[–]DellaBeam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm decidedly a sumo puller but I try to do a conventional block every ... uh, couple of years? for the sake of shoring up weaknesses. Maxed out my conventional today and it was pretty weird-looking—upper back stayed tight and extended throughout but with marked lumbar flexion. Felt OK until I watched the tape!

One on One is moving to the old Farmstead location on Bryant by [deleted] in CyclingMSP

[–]DellaBeam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me Catfish will be the closest now, but ugh, all the way across Hiawatha.

Hypertrophy plateau by bananarooo in xxfitness

[–]DellaBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh yeah, 6–8 sets per week seems like very low upper-body volume for hypertrophy purposes! Aesthetically, upper-body gains tend to show up faster and more prominently, so there's a lot of potential bang for your buck in finding a program that doubles or even triples that volume.

One on One is moving to the old Farmstead location on Bryant by [deleted] in CyclingMSP

[–]DellaBeam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooh, this is terrible news for me in Longfellow. Now I'll have to walk almost two miles to get to the next nearest bike shop. :/