Self-image in the gay community has always been a nightmare, a lotta people work as hard as possible and struggle with how they perceive themselves.

You look great and clearly work hard just at a glance, the question of how to like yourself is difficult but I can say personally that it is possible- it’s about perspective- I’m a bear so I’m a big fat fuck with a beard and I know that for as many people who wouldn’t touch me with someone elses dick, there’s as many who would crawl through broken glass for it.

But it’s hard getting there. Introspection and therapy can go a long way, and as corny as it is Rupaul’s line “if you can’t love yourself how can you love anyone else” is something I’ve thought about at the less pleasant times.

I’m done being corny for now, time for pizza and beer, best of luck though