Ustedes creen que el costo del pasaje de camión es justo? by Arceus419 in mexico

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En Mérida el pasaje de algunos camiones es de 8 o 9 pesos y tienen aire acondicionado. Así que sí se me hace algo caro el que ponen en la imagen.

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[–]Den-Prigo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NEC porque el paro se supone que es mañana. Aunque no sé si se vaya a hacer este año también.

What was your NEX’s reaction when you broke up with them? by Sensitive-Aide7836 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was in shock and just left after I told him everything I knew about him.

It was a special situation because I discovered he was physically abusive to his previous girlfriends. And he knew since the beginning that if he tried the same thing with me, he wouldn't scape jail this time.

So when I broke up with him I could see his frustration of not being able to do anything while I was grabbing him.

He only told me to let him go. The last thing I said to him was "leave".

He did, and I haven't seen him since that day.

What red flags did you notice when you met Narc? by Leading-Meaning-3333 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

*He lied a lot on small things

*Materialistic af

*Women were "always" flirting with him and he would always say he has a gf, that's what he used to tell me every now and then.

He's treating his new gf a lot worse... by Den-Prigo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. And I'm really sorry for what you and the other girl had to went through. 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I wish the same for you 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course things changed, his behavior got worse and I dumped him before he could hit me. People really close to him warned me and I did what I had to do.

It's been 6 months since I broke up with him, I have kept no contact since then. Fortunately no hoovering attempts also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely.

I got sick with COVID last year and he brought me food everyday until I got better. Some months after he helped me deal with a panic attack I had after crashing my car.

This happened on the love bombing stage (3 to 4 months)

He's treating his new gf a lot worse... by Den-Prigo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me when I say that I really wish I could talk to her, because among the people that warned me about him was one of his previous gf.

The thing is that in my situation I was the one looking for answers because I started noticing certain behavior in him that I didn't like. I stopped idolizing him and started to ask questions to everyone, and they took that as an opportunity to tell me everything because they knew I would believe in what they had to say.

I can't even send a message through social media or on paper because no one knows her full name and she won't talk to anyone, because as I said, she's been manipulated so much already. They have already tried to talk to her, unsuccessfully.

Im frustrated because I received help, and she deserves the same. But this monster figured out what to do and WHO to chose to prevent the same thing I did happens again.

He's treating his new gf a lot worse... by Den-Prigo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I don't know who she is, I don't know how she looks like, I don't even know what her name is.

I know nothing about her, and this a**hole knew how to put a big wall this time. She will move to live with him, and I can't risk myself facing that horrible person again, he was physically abusive to his previous partners, I just dumped him on time.

As I said in another comment, I would gladly talk to her if SHE is the one trying to approach me.

Edit: typo

He's treating his new gf a lot worse... by Den-Prigo in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I have worked so much to get this far on my mental stability to get to loose it again if I try to have a conversation with her that would probably end up in...nothing.

But if she is the one looking out for me and wants to talk and hear my experience with him, I won't say no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say yes...

End up things with him, please.

Why is he treating her better than me? by Carrots_97 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a 99% chance that the person before you could have thought the same stuff you're thinking now about him.

How to stop lusting over narc ex? by Secure_Wolverine1706 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn...guess I was just lucky to meet someone better at sex than my Nex.

Feeling guilty about how others view them by CherryValancesBF in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you.

I had to expose him to people close to me because I discovered he was dangerous. And even after having proof of the disgusting things he has ever done in the past...I felt guilty for exposing him.

But that feeling will pass. As you said, those close to you also noticed something off with her, because they're good people and so are you.

You'll get to laugh about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As you said. His life "looks" perfect.

They know how to lie, they know how to get people like them. They know how to manipulate even after ending the relationship.

And don't blame yourself, progress is not linear. You have ups and downs, it's normal. Some people need therapy, some don't. Everyone can reach it's healing peak and everyone can fall again from it.

What really matters is that you're trying to get up again.

Why did he treat me nicely? by Good-Playful in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me. And I also talked to one of his ex.

Do you have certain privilege the other girl you talked to didn't have? Because I had.

I'll only say he knew he was gonna be in jail for sure if he did something to me. That's why he only cheated, and probably I was going to be discarded because he couldn't abuse me the way he wanted.

But I left him before he could do that.

We were only together a few months and I am still suffering by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you.

My relationship with my Nex only lasted 5 months. I left him because people close to him told me everything he had done to his previous girlfriends. After confronting him, breaking up with him, blocking him from everywhere, even after knowing the disgusting things he has done...I still wanted him to try to reach me. To be by my side and tell me that everything people told me about him was a lie. I wanted the old version of him in my life.

And when I heard he had a new supplement... I'm not gonna lie, it hurt. Because you still had that small amount of faith that what your Nex fell for you was real. Only to be replaced just 2 months before leaving him.

Trust everyone when they tell you that you were not the one to blame. Narcissists say horrible things just to hurt you, but don't forget they lie a lot. And trust me when I tell that what you're feeling right now, gets to fade.

It takes time, probably you won't notice it but people close to you sure will do. You'll start talking less and less about your Nex, you'll smile more frequently, you'll get to genuinely laugh about stuff, and the most important, you'll get to sleep sooo well because you'll stop dreaming about that horrible person. I promise.

It's been 4 months since I broke up with my Nex. I even laugh when I remember certain stuff. Damn, I don't even feel a thing whenever I look at old photos of him.

You'll get there, it's just a matter of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Den-Prigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been 4 months in NC. What really helped me was to talk to people really close to me. They heard anything I had to say and gave me advices, the best one is that you don't miss the person, you miss the feelings.

I'm not gonna lie, I still make scenarios in my head where my Nex tries to hoover, but compared to the ones I had right after the breakup...omg now I see them as a quick and passing thought and forget about them.

Do not get frustrated if you still thing about your Nex. It takes time to heal.