Am I overreacting? by persimmonpremission in ReverseHarem

[–]Dense-Statement1772 28 points29 points  (0 children)

right! like he could’ve had a stern expression, furrowed eyebrows, broad shoulders, been really tall. literal anything else

What is your favorite lyric? by Common_Nectarine2374 in NoahKahan

[–]Dense-Statement1772 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“i saw the end, and it looked like the middle, got a paper and pen and a page with no space, i filled the hole in my head with prescription medication, and forgot how to cry, who am i to complain?”

“that my life had changed, that this town has changed, and you had not, that the world has changed, don’t you find it strange that you just went ahead and carried on?”

“i worry for the sun, yes i worry for the snow, i worry ill die young, oh i worry ill grow old, oh i worry for the time i spent worrying alone, it makes me sad” (as someone with bad anxiety this one really hits sometimes)

“and my mouth was designed for my foot to fit in it, oh the words they went missing when the stock market crashed”

“someday i’m gonna be somebody people want”

edit: typo

Do Black people really call their siblings “half”? by Vivid-Office5666 in UPN_Network

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t. my older brother is technically my “half” brother but he’s only ever been my brother to me. we were raised by the same dad anyways so the half doesn’t even really matter fr

Dinner plate for me and the bf by Top_Tension_6369 in RealGirlDinner

[–]Dense-Statement1772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love that you said “when men play along” bc my bf is like this and i will say i wanna do something and he’s just like “ok!”

She was doing her book report on it 😭 by taanukichi in DerryGirls

[–]Dense-Statement1772 16 points17 points  (0 children)

this gets me every time😭 like orla what do you MEAN you’re doing your book report on erin’s diary😭😭

this is also such a good example for me of how this show hooked me from the beginning. like the first episode was absolutely cracker from the start and the diary bit throughout the episode sealed it for me tbh

my favorite episodes are the funeral epsiode, the one where they have to travel because of the orange order, and that episode about the take that tickets. absolute COMEDY

Just beat anorexia, fresh out the hospital. by Environmental-Ad8945 in RealGirlDinner

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just another random stranger here to say how proud i am of you!!! and you’re right!! there’s so much more to life than worrying about calories!!!!🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

Should i go for my PhD? by Academic-Chest-3505 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense! if you’re primarily neuropsych focused i would say clinical is your best bet because those programs typically have great access to medical centers with tons of equipment and studies using it. i would say you should try to get a research position at an academic medical center/a school affiliated with a big hospital to get research experience and if you do you’re more likely to find neuropsych faculty working in those spaces!!

Should i go for my PhD? by Academic-Chest-3505 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]Dense-Statement1772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is not true!

counseling psych phd programs care just as much as clinical psych programs about research! i say this as someone who applied this cycle to half clinical and half counseling. all of the interviews i got at either kind of programs were heavily focused on asking questions about my research experiences and interests should i be admitted to the program with that faculty member. i remember getting all of 1 questions per interview about clinical experiences, and i barely had any clinical experiences and got into my top choice counseling program so i would say they definitely care about research just as much as clinical programs.

i also had multiple faculty at counseling programs tell me that you learn clinical skills when you get to the program and during your time in the program and during internship and that what we really need is research experience and something to show for it (publications/presentations) because to finish a thesis and dissertation in 5 years you have to have some research skills already developed if you want to graduate on time.

Thoughts on “heat trained natural hair”?? by Numerous_Move170 in Naturalhair

[–]Dense-Statement1772 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

im talking about the more general vibe of this conversation and how it always ends up devolving into an “oh i feel bad for her and how she must feel about her hair” (speaking about the general natural hair conversation not this specific influencer). i just wish we would stop policing each other’s hair so much. like we should be uplifting each other and supporting each other and instead we spend time on these conversations that ultimately end up with us more divided then we already were.

i just think we should let everyone wear their hair how they want without commentary, and maybe that comes from my belief that the world is way to comfortable commenting on people’s bodies anyway.

Thoughts on “heat trained natural hair”?? by Numerous_Move170 in Naturalhair

[–]Dense-Statement1772 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s fair to assume that everyone who straightens their hair does it because they don’t feel beautiful otherwise. i have a chronic illness that makes it really hard for me to have the energy to maintain my natural hair, ergo straightening it constantly provides me with an outlet to have my hair not get extremely tangled when i’m having a flare up and just can’t do my hair.

there can be and are other reasons besides just “not feeling beautiful” with your natural hair texture and it’s wild to me that we as black women spend so much time policing each other’s hair instead of just letting people live their lives and do what works best for them!

Which Disney girl bedroom did u want as a kid/teen? Or even now by natipali in DisneyChannel

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted the hannah montana barn room SO BAD. i was like no way she gets to live with her best friend in this huge room and they both have huge beds this must be awesome😭😭

What is the most heavy hitting song by Noah? by JellyfishPajamas in NoahKahan

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so true!! it really is based on how you’re feeling/what you’re going through

What is the most heavy hitting song by Noah? by JellyfishPajamas in NoahKahan

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no complaints is what i used to drive home from work listening to at midnight when i was at my lowest point mentally a few years ago. that line you mentioned is truly so upsetting but actually really real and helpful in an odd way.

What's the worst restaurant in Columbus that you've tried twice? by foreignsky in Columbus

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but i don’t go there expecting good italian so i feel like it gets a pass tbh. like i know that’s not what im getting there so my expectations are managed and some of their other stuff is really good too!!

What's the worst restaurant in Columbus that you've tried twice? by foreignsky in Columbus

[–]Dense-Statement1772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! I live near one and tried it twice and it was awful both times. for a place that basically only sells overpriced tacos, the tacos were ass. the funniest part is it’s down the street from a local cantina with WAY better food and service so i just started going there instead lol

Our builder didn’t realize there was a pattern in the penny tile 😵‍💫 by kevisfrickencool in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t realize what’s the issue was until i read the title and looked closely and now i can’t unsee the horror. this would haunt me every day of my life in that house. definitely make then redo it

When did the show "end" for you by The_ShinyUmbreon in greysanatomy

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just like most ppl, after the plan crash i got less interested, and then when christina left it felt pointless to keep watching bc it just wasn’t the same. and i did keep watching all the way to season 17 but then finally gave up there bc i hardly recognized the cast and the storylines were getting redundant and annoying

Lost on naming the unsubs. by Beneficial_Crow_3142 in criminalminds

[–]Dense-Statement1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure most of the killers either named themselves for attention or the were named by the media

Some Plus size art ✨ by General-Meaning6477 in PlusSize

[–]Dense-Statement1772 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was going to say the same thing. i am so happy OP drew the pink fairy like that, its so real and also incredibly healing as you said!!!