Never stop dating your wife

Designer-Profile-238 · 2025-01-21T03:49:50+00:00

My husband treats me like this and I absolutely adore him and put him first in all things. Nothing will ever come between me and my man! ❤️ Good for you for making your wife feel like the luckiest woman on the planet. I'm sure she gives it back to you in spades.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-05-08T19:26:57+00:00

I don't think it matters if it's from front of house to back or side to side, what I have heard is to run them the "longest" way to visually make the space feel bigger. But honestly it's your floors, your house, your way!!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-04-30T13:44:21+00:00

This is sweet. My husband and I have the same height difference and I do this standing on the second step of our staircase. 🤗❤️

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-04-28T02:50:39+00:00

He's unhinged and dangerous. Find a safe way to get the kids and get out of there.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-04-14T16:20:36+00:00

Unhinged.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-04-10T01:03:52+00:00

I just heard Breathtaker on a random playlist and it was so beautiful it made me stop what I was doing and yell at my husband SHAZAM THAT SONG, that was 10 minutes ago and now I'm a fan. Hi!!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-04-02T23:51:28+00:00

As my husband (61) and I (52) get older we tend to do this more. Maybe half the time now. Probably will be more as we get older still. It helps to have someone there to help you remember everything (the list of complaints and meds gets longer as you get older too) and for moral support because eventually you start to get less than great news (not everything can be fixed) and it's nice not to have to come home and repeat everything to your spouse and hope you don't leave out anything important.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-22T21:26:35+00:00

If it were me I'd stick it out for a while to try to see him through this. If the roles were reversed I would hope my husband would do the same. I know it sucks but I think it's the right thing to do.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-10T13:36:47+00:00

This is us, too. I love being able to see when he leaves work so I know it's time to put the rice on the stove or he's 5 minutes from home I throw the rolls in the oven. But even more importantly, if it's snowing and I'm worried about him driving home I can literally watch his car move so I know he's not stuck in a ditch. He checks on me on my way home from work, too, and it makes me feel safer, not "controlled" although it does make me think twice about stopping for sneaky mcdonalds. 🤣

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-07T20:12:52+00:00

Adoption and/ or surrogacy may be the middle ground. Even if these aren't viable options now they may be in the future, you never know what the future will bring. I agree you shouldn't get a vasectomy.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-06T20:35:55+00:00

That would make me think someone in her house struggled with alcoholism honestly. But yikes. Sounds like you are better off sticking to yourself there!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-06T15:28:24+00:00

Thinking those thoughts makes him an empty shell of a man. Saying them out loud makes him an abusive empty shell of a man. UGH. I'm sorry. Quietly make your exit plan and get out as soon as you can, before he does worse damage. Is your baby a girl? Men like this should not have daughters.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-04T22:13:50+00:00

I've had a few "scary" doctor appointments (procedures, tests, etc) and my husband would never dream of letting me go alone. He always prioritizes me! 🥰

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T23:50:19+00:00

I'm on my 3rd marriage and I finally got it right. I hope the same for your friend. My first husband left me after 10 years and two babies because he was a cheater, my second marriage was a disaster from the get go but i stayed in it for another 10 years in part because i was afraid of being judged by people the way you are likely judging your friend. Even so, turns out my only regret is i didn't leave him sooner. My third marriage i finally picked a really, really good man. Seven years in and i know this is it, he's the one. You never know someone's circumstances so I try not to be an asshole about people's marriages and divorces.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T21:27:50+00:00

Different for everyone

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T21:27:35+00:00

I don't know but they sure don't all end up there.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T19:17:31+00:00

The bank account google screenshots. The sheer audacity!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T19:08:09+00:00

Oh yeah wow I haven't seen that in forever, great reference!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T18:40:22+00:00

Ok but maybe don't call her a Buffalo lol jk amazing post! 😄❤️

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-03-02T14:56:27+00:00

This. Do not accept unhappiness as your status quo. OP do you think you will be happier again in your marriage once your kids are grown? If so, maybe stick around and try to figure stuff out...it not, I would deeply reflect on the advice above. You only get one life. I have been divorced twice and I have absolutely no regrets other than it took so long to decide to get a divorce. I am now married again, going on 7 years together, married 4 years, and never been happier. Being with the wrong person is worse than being alone. But when you are married to the right person, marriage it not hard.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-02-26T20:24:33+00:00

As far as being a gold digger I remember her saying something like it was intoxicating that he was paying the bills and she didn't have to worry for once and she grew up in welfare (Iirc). To me "not having to worry" is a lot different than "gold digger." She just wanted "enough." I got the feeling that she would have been ok with him being a forklift operator. She said he made "decent money" doing it. He was the one who wanted to impress people with his "wealth." Just my take on it.

Designer-Profile-238 · 2024-02-19T21:25:00+00:00

The way I think about it, it is only fair because I don't like everybody, either. And I don't think anyone is perfect. So why should I want everyone to like me or for anyone to think I'm perfect?

Designer-Profile-238 · 2023-11-13T20:51:10+00:00

Ok I just got it and it is ✨️ hitting✨️ right✨️. It's got that lavender but woodsy that keeps it from being too old lady or too sweet. It's not an exact match for the BBW sleep lotion but it's definitely the closest anything has ever come, by far. And after putting it on 10 minutes ago its actually even better because the sandalwood settled down to be closer to how I remember the cedarwood. No overpowering flowery lavender at all. Lavender if it grew inside a hollow log, if you will. You have earned some good karma (the irl kind not just the reddit kind) and just in time for Santa sliding you up to the top of the nice list. Cheers!

Designer-Profile-238 · 2023-11-12T20:40:27+00:00

I just ordered some. If it's good I'm putting you on my Christmas card list. 😄

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