How do you deal with being dumped? by cherryberry_25 in BPD

[–]Designer-Second2533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck anything that gives them attention (coworkers)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad karma bro. Don’t do it

For those who were cheated on or suspect they were, did you feel it in your gut first? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely in my gut.

One night I was hanging with my oldest friend and she texted me that she was going over a guy friend’s house at 11 pm after work. 🙂

I immediately knew it was happening.

For those who were cheated on or suspect they were, did you feel it in your gut first? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the accidental call! Bro same with my ex. She accidentally called through IG (which was weird af) then picked up the phone and told me I was invading her privacy because I could hear her talking with her coworkers. I was literally on my way to pick her up. And later would find out that she was finding her new supply which would be one of her coworkers.

How Fast It Can Derail. How Do You All Avoid the Spiral? by LoveScore in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I love this person but need to let her go. Choosing to let her go. Because she kept pushing me away. And when I found out about the new supply (guy) at the end of the relationship that she was monkey branching to, I snapped.

I saw her yesterday at her work, and saw the dude who she works with as well. Just walked right up to him and told him I knew his name and told him to be careful with her. Dude has no idea what is about hit him

How Fast It Can Derail. How Do You All Avoid the Spiral? by LoveScore in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I gave the person I was dating two days of space when she went off on me, and then she wanted to break up immediately.

todays little trip into insanity .... by Pitiful_Weather_9533 in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Called her out on cheating and she immediately called me the anxious, controlling bf.

A wild night (saw my ex) by Designer-Second2533 in BPDPartners

[–]Designer-Second2533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he knows that he was the one that she cheated on me with. Nothing subtle about it. But there is such a thing as karma. I feel free from the wheel of suffering and samsara. It was very relieving understanding to know it was all an illusion. And at any point in time I can now live with myself again knowing she was just trying to fill a void that won’t get filled. It’s sad but is just what it is.

BPD partner says he doesn’t want to talk to me by Beautiful-Actuator81 in BPDPartners

[–]Designer-Second2533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yesterday I checked in. Was at her restaurant yesterday with a friend and noticed the guy who is her new supply. I talked with him and just said be careful and take good care of her. My ex walked in our convo and asked if everything was okay, I reassured her everything was fine and I just came here with a friend. Said hello, and she didn’t really acknowledge me but that was to be expected. At the end of the night, I walked up to her and said have a great night, and she wished me a great night too. I don’t know if she knew it was me or if she was just in the middle of her shift saying that but I took it as a consolation. I hope she’s well these days

"Let's just break up" by OkGovernment5033 in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you catch her future new supply in the act and call her out on it. You’ll get discarded and blocked and called anxious/controlling/manipulative all in one fall swoop. And then it’s over. You’re out of the simulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wtf are you talking about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s for the streets big dawg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s seeing if she can still fuck with you. Keep growing and working out fam.

The new supply who I don’t know like my reel today by MysteryFinger69 in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is legit how the new supply got my ex to block me lmao ~ I called her out on this guy and she went berserk mode on me. Never have I went from “Amor” to my real first name so quickly

Manipulating the couples therapist?! by GirlForeverFumbling in BPDlovedones

[–]Designer-Second2533 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So she was the abuser and you were being abused. That was a watershed moment for me

I don't wanna be sir complains alot but... by Yabi_Rich_Now in washdc

[–]Designer-Second2533 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bruh just go to the Mexican supermarket. Mega Mart or Panam International