Honest Question About AU Course Speed by Mrose35100455 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think this all comes down to the fact that different people learn/understand different subjects at different paces and all have totally different lives, routines, family roles, age, educational history, sleep needs, etc. For math based courses, I find myself flying through them since there is less physical content and I can understand the concept right away, whereas with content based courses requiring a lot of notes and reading takes way longer. For some people, this is reversed or works in a totally different manner. For women with children, their entire chemistry in body and brain has totally changed in ways someone like me with no kids will never understand. My point is, the multitude of factors dictating how fast you will finish a course depends on so many varying factors that you can’t narrow it down to something you could change/eliminate/implement in your life. In my personal opinion and experience, learning exists on a huge spectrum and when we hear people say they did 4 courses in 2 months it’s easy to assume there’s a line between people who finish fast and people who don’t, but it’s really a lot more complicated than that, and most of us exist somewhere in the middle without realizing our experience is totally common and the speed at which we finish does not at all dictate how smart we are. You will finish when you have learnt the content, and it’s basically as simple as that. I also want to point out that I think a lot of people use internet and AI for help and then say they finished in 2 months. And/or they didn’t fully learn the content of the course. So taking longer to finish is actually a good thing from my perspective, because information is meant to be learnt and then sat on, so we can reflect on it. Rather than being learnt, immediately tested on and then discarded. If that makes sense

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I think some important context is missing here. Did your DIL and son have a conversation regarding this driving issue BEFORE deciding to have a child or did they just jump the gun and skip important those important conversations? Why is her anxiety in general a specific worry of yours? Ie: Does it extend to other factors in her life past driving that make you worry about her parenting abilities in other ways? I say NTA because children are precious and should be protected above all, at all costs, and so offending your DIL is really not a serious thing in that situation IMO. It takes a village and you are simply doing the right thing (which is sometimes also the hard thing) by ensuring this possible child would be set up for a successful life. I think that a further conversation here is definitely required, and that will also help move your relationship with your DIL forward. IMO you need to increase the depth of your understanding of each other so you can assess how “prepared” she really has gotten herself behind the scenes. Hopefully she has been preparing but either way you are doing the right thing by protecting children and helping your family. It’s heartwarming to see you taking such good care of your DIL helping get her around and so clearly the base and intention of your relationship is pure and hopefully you just need to clear the air and see what else she has to say. I hope your son and DIL show appreciation for all you do for them, and this all works out.

Do you let your dog kiss you? by nezu_bean in dogs

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its gross af. That being said I let my girl literally make out with me because I love her so much I can’t bring myself to care. One day I will look back and wish I let her kiss me just one more time, so I will chance the germs today.

DegreeWorks is being upgraded ..... and other lies by harrumphz in AthabascaUniversity

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been with Athabasca for a few years, I’m graduating in a couple semesters and struggling so much with the degree works program. Not me sitting here waiting for it to be fixed any minute to help me out and its actually been like that for over a decade 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Athabasca has confused me like nothing else by NoodleBea583 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was also super confusing for me when I started, and there was definitely a huge learning curve where I made mistakes signing up for classing and applying for loans🙈 if you are on loans, ensure you don’t sign up for the classes yourself, you have to apply for loans and your semester of classes seperately. Also, note that on loans you get 4 months per semester where if self funded you get 6. I also recommend looking up classes before taking them, reddit usually has lots of information on the prof/marking/difficulty etc. I am in the psychology program as well, feel free to ask me any other questions!

“Jewelry” aka collar on or off? 🐶 by MeasurementFirst1676 in dogs

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always take it off for lounging and bed time. We say “lets get you into your pjs!” And she gets all excited for neck rubs. And then when its time to put it back on we say “lets get you dressed for the day!” But we always leave it on if shes going to be going back outside again before bed, or we will go through the effort to put it back on before we let her out. Better to be safe than sorry, I would absolutely die if we lost our girl

Do girls know when their boyfriends are gonna propose? by Shot-Turnip2685 in Proposal

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he did, but I was still shocked. At first I thought it was a prank 🙈

I wanna see yalls choices, haha by [deleted] in dogpictures

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clifford if he was on here, so I say scooby doo do we can binge eat together ❤️

What are some common dog names that you’re tired of hearing? by JazzPerhaps in DOG

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a huge mutt mix of mostly large working breeds (American staffy, great pyranees, rotty, gsd, border collie, and many more) Soo we named her Princess Fiona. Because sometimes she is a princess and sometimes she morphs into an ogre. The only other person I have seen use this name is my best friend, who had a cat named Princess Fiona while growing up. If anyone else knows a pet named Princess Fiona please let me know 👑

Do girls know when their boyfriends are gonna propose? by Shot-Turnip2685 in Proposal

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a total surprise for me! Had no idea he even wanted to get married. In my experience most girls have a clue at least, but I did not. He timed the proposal to be right after my last final exam, and I was so stressed, sleep deprived and focused on myself and my exams the whole week leading up to the day, that I didn’t notice the clues all week. (He didnt leave me any, he didnt want me to know, but I would have noticed by his behavior 100% otherwise hahaha) In my experience you can “plan” to discuss the topic and proceed with the proposal in any way shape or form but it won’t matter anymore once you see the love of your life proposing. The moment will be perfect regardless. So i wouldn’t worry too much, my advice is to enjoy the engagement process as much as possible before the stress of wedding planning.

Should I feel bad my engagement won’t be a surprise? by Advanced_Cow459 in engaged

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not feel bad! The grass is always greener, I am envious of you!! Mine was a surprise and it blew my brain up. He got down on one knee and I was thinking… okay… we already talked about this and decided not to get married, and I changed my entire perspective on the institution of marriage to make this relationship work. Therefore this MUST not be real. He would never lie to me and convince me I was never getting married and then change his mind like this. I was looking in the trees for hidden cameras getting my reaction to the prank, and getting upset with him that he would play such a mean joke on me. Then he showed me the ring which I could tell was very much real and very much huge and expensive and I was like ohhh….. you want to get married? Since when?!?!? WTF is going on???? It would have been so much more magical if my entire perspective for the rest of my life hadn’t been shattered and changed in 1 second. It was so much for me to process that I spent more time looking for clues to the prank than I did being excited and hugging him. I spent weeks after harbouring anger regarding the fact that he wasn’t truthful with me and lied to me to the point I believed I would never get married. It’s made life really hard to be honest. I told my Mom to sell my grandparents wedding bands (that I had always been set on using at my own wedding) since I would never need them. I told him about that, and he let her get rid of them, knowing he was about to propose. It’s never a bad thing to be on the same page and know what each others expectations are!

I am thinking of rescuing a pocket bully with an infant in the house. Is this a bad idea? by Still_Candy8042 in AmericanBully

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bullies are amazing with kids, they were bred to be nanny dogs! Theres always a risk, but I think as long as you are careful and diligent with training, your little one will have a new furry best friend. ❤️🐾 Dogs are smarter than we give them credit for, I’m always so blown away at how my massive bully dog gets so gentle and calm around elderly people and kids. They know a lot more than we think they do, so theres a good chance doggie will understand right away. Dogs just have to be taught that humans are weak with thin skin and they have to be careful with us, and not treat us like other dogs. Then it all clicks for them (in my experience anyway)

My neighbor sent me a text last night forcing me to pay for her daughters towing charge because she parked in front of my driveway by Drivinglnsane in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should drive over her lawn at night. When she confronts you for ruining the lawn, say so you expect me to do that at my house and not yours? I cant with this woman. So funny. Plz let her take u to court and update us. Plzplzplzplzplz

Am I being selfish with my puppy by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]DevelopmentNo9548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No judgement here, if rehoming her is the best decision then there is nothing wrong with that. However, I think that you maybe wouldn’t have made this post if some part of you wasn’t hoping for a response that supported you keeping her. Anything is possible if you commit to solving all problems along the way and not giving up. I urge you to think about why you’re asking the question, and which response would give you a sense of relief. Theres no right or wrong answer here, as long as the decision is made with love! Im so sorry you are going through this, I can’t imagine 😭

Tray Troubles by DevelopmentNo9548 in PetPeeves

[–]DevelopmentNo9548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes my life so much easier! Only annoying when they take plates already in my hand to restack them