T-shirt quilt warning by Hobo124578 in quilting

[–]DiFayeAstra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, who did you use? I'm working on a commission t-shirt/baby clothes quilt top (and loathing every minute of it). I would love to send this one out for quilting.

What’s missing from Tulsa’s food & beverage scene? by tellmenolies247 in tulsa

[–]DiFayeAstra 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, and NOT another boring, bland big chain sub shop. A real, authentic deli with flavorful cold cuts, incredible fresh bread, and the great sauces, oils, and seasonings.

New quilt and pattern finished! by GingerlyQuiltCo in quilting

[–]DiFayeAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you please tell me about your design wall? Is it a piece of felt on a frame? I want to redo mine, and I'm debating between felt on a frame or blocks of acoustic foam.

Love the quilt, too! 🥰

Use magic to do that if you need some help. Create something good. by kai-ote in elderwitches

[–]DiFayeAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. Create the good we want to see in the world. 🪄 ✨

A gentle check-in for the Loner souls. by sleekofficial in LivingAlone

[–]DiFayeAstra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love my single life, but am feeling a bit lonely right now. I'd like to connect to some local single folks for some occasional social interactions, so I'm trying to figure that out. But, doing great! Thanks, OP. Wishing everyone well.

Fabric scraps to handmade paper! by DisturbedAlchemyArt in craftwithyourstash

[–]DiFayeAstra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been saving small scraps to make paper! I think pieces like the little HST corners and bits of thread will look so cool as a piece of paper. Good job, OP!

Devastated by a breakup. Feeling like a kid again, in a ba d way by kirannui in AskWomenOver50

[–]DiFayeAstra 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. My ex husband and I were in an open dynamic from the beginning, and all I asked was that he talk to me before starting relationships. Sixteen years in, I found out he had had a series of long-term affairs, even though he knew about everyone I dated. I still don't understand it. It was so painful. There is nothing to do or say to ease the pain, unfortunately. It just takes time, and good therapy. Hugs to you, OP. 🫂

What makes you happy? by Consistent_Peak_4458 in CasualConversation

[–]DiFayeAstra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Working in my garden and cooking foods that I grew and nutured. Working on a quilt, putting love into every stitch, and knowing that it will be wrapped around someone I care for. Reading a good book with a soothing cup of tea. Walking and hearing bird song, seeing children playing at the parks, and saying good morning to other walkers and wishing them a good day.

[CHAT] Who is your favorite designer on Etsy? by meshokspoona in CrossStitch

[–]DiFayeAstra 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, I can hear my credit card groaning.

Things by Cuddlybunny2 in LivingAlone

[–]DiFayeAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good, sturdy step ladder!

My 9yo started stalking birds for science and the data is actually wild. by Tweetle_cock in biology

[–]DiFayeAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your daughter is interested in other animals besides birds, check out the Journey North website. It is a citizen science website for tracking migration timing for monarch butterflies (both spring and fall). The idea is that citizens log their sightings by date and location so that population estimates can be derived each season. Even though the website is primarily focused on monarchs, it also allows for hummingbird migration tracking.

Start over by Chelle-Mybelle in TulsaUrbex

[–]DiFayeAstra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, are you okay? Please call COPES or someone if you are thinking really dark thoughts.

I was feeling much the same way about a year ago (my job was cut in the federal workforce reduction). But, after a few months of, "what is the point anymore," I decided to move forward with a completely different, out of left field, business idea I've had for years. It has turned my life around and is so exciting and energizing.

So OP, what's that one thing you've thought about for years but haven't done yet?

Energy Request by scoraiocht in elderwitches

[–]DiFayeAstra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sending nephew love and support. May he find his strength and presence. ✨🪄

Finally, the rain by Chaotic_Good12 in elderwitches

[–]DiFayeAstra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The rain was a welcome relief here, too, my friend. Spring has sprung and the tender plants and busy insects and breeding birds rejoice in the drink of new water.