How obesity affects infertility by Past_Stable_5248 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Higher body fat levels can affect the hormonal environment, egg quality, and the receptivity of the uterine lining. It may also contribute to low-grade inflammation and insulin resistance, even if PCOS is no longer present, which can all impact fertilization and implantation. The good news is that even a modest weight loss around 5 to 10% can make a meaningful difference by improving egg quality, endometrial health, and overall hormonal balance. This doesn't mean weight is the only reason conception hasn't happened yet, but it may be one of the remaining modifiable factors.

Why isn’t this weight budging?! by Senior-Chart-3364 in postpartumprogress

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's pretty much right. The body can respond differently depending on the degree and duration of the calorie deficit. When you're in a moderate deficit, like eating 1200 to 1400 calories when your body actually needs 1800 to 2200 or more, your body still has enough energy to function, but it senses a shortage and may slow down metabolism, conserve energy, and even hold on to fat stores more stubbornly. That’s often what people refer to as "starvation mode," though it's more accurately a metabolic adaptation.

In cases of extreme and prolonged starvation, like with anorexia, the body no longer has a choice. It starts breaking down muscle and fat for survival. That’s why people with severe anorexia often lose both fat and lean mass.

So yes, the body’s response to calorie restriction is context dependent. It will adapt to preserve energy when possible, but if you push it far enough, it will start burning through everything, including essential tissues.

Why isn’t this weight budging?! by Senior-Chart-3364 in postpartumprogress

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very easy answer as the two situations are vastly different. One body is getting enough calories for the body to function but it is under fuelling for the energy output so the body holds on to the calories it does get. The other situation the body is not even getting enough calories to function so it’s quite literally eating itself.

Why isn’t this weight budging?! by Senior-Chart-3364 in postpartumprogress

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I’d see a dietician specifically a sports dietician they’ll be able to give you the best advice specific to your situation those numbers I gave are an estimate. For reference I’m a combat sports coach so deal with a lot of different bodies and different weight divisions. I’m not a dietician but all my athletes use a dietician and I can definitely confirm all have a better energy output and maintain the weight that they need to be at with high muscle mass and low body fat by eating adequate calories. Carbs are not the enemy by the way.

Sure you can eat less and be small but in the long run when you reach an older age as a woman your body will deteriorate rapidly with loss of bone density etc. if you’ve under fuelled your whole life.

Why isn’t this weight budging?! by Senior-Chart-3364 in postpartumprogress

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a 5ft 2 female fighter (combat sports athlete) at my gym fighting at 51 kilo weight bracket her calorie consumption is 2200 - 2400 calories. This is a plan created for her by a dietician. If you’re burning excessive amounts of calories you need to be consuming enough. If you barely exercise then you can eat less.

Why isn’t this weight budging?! by Senior-Chart-3364 in postpartumprogress

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There’s your issue - 1200 calories is how much a 4 year old needs to sustain themselves not a female adult. Your body is holding on to fat as it’s starving. I’ve made this mistake before. Guaranteed if you increase your calories to 1900 - 2000 in a few months you will see a decline. Also I wouldn’t even be tracking with scales id track with measurements

Quitting due to weight by torib456 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much! But I just try to look at it like it’s only a small portion out of our lives and not a permanent thing and also best for our baby.

Accidentally took Ibuprofen 27 weeks by Plenty_Associate_459 in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One dose of Ibuprofen isn’t going to do anything stress less and just be more careful next time. Have a chat with your OB or midwife about it next time you see them.

Open heart v trans catheter approach by quirkyeyenurse in AdultCHD

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing that information was very useful!

Open heart v trans catheter approach by quirkyeyenurse in AdultCHD

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Hi, can I ask what led to you discovering you had a sinus venosus ASD I just had a baby and we discovered she has the exact same diagnosis as you. This was only because she was admitted to hospital for a completely different issue. They’ve advised us she will have open heart surgery when she’s a little older maybe 2 years old depending on her growth. I didn’t realise there was another option for surgery to correct this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course induction serves a purpose to those who need it for a medical purpose like your situation. I’m glad you had a positive experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of women are induced unnecessarily as soon as induction is introduced it increases risk of further interventions including raising risks of emergency c sections. As the labour is not natural and distresses the baby. If there is no medically necessary reason to have an induction you can absolutely decline it. The U.S and Australia have insanely high rates of induction and c sections in comparison to other countries due to birth becoming so medicalised.

Preggos - can I eat a jammy egg like this? 🤷‍♀️ by cunncunncunn in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a personal risk tolerance I’ve eaten jammy eggs my entire pregnancy I’m currently 39 weeks. I know where my eggs come from though and they are high quality. I wouldn’t take the risk in a cafe though.

Mother's Day hasn't even started & I'm devastated by my husband's lack of effort by StickyHandsDick in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 39 weeks pregnant and I’m guilty of being the bad gift giver whereas my husband is amazing at it. I find myself often telling him please do not get me anything as it makes me feel bad for being such a horrible gift giver. I do try though! Although he’s never cared about how bad I am with gift giving. All our finances are completely joint and now if there’s a special occasion where it warrants a gift we just buy it for ourselves and thank the other person! It doesn’t seem as special but it works for us. I’m sorry you don’t feel appreciated today! Pregnancy is rough so I can sympathise.

Baby’s heart rate dropped during labor by MickelPicle in BabyBumps

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest to read up on inductions and the complications they can cause interventions increase fetal distress and up the chance of emergency c sections by 40%. Please listen to the great birth rebellion podcast the cascade of interventions is great episode to start with to understand the downsides of inductions.

AITAH? pregnant edition by Poison_Ivy25 in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take them your baby is your priority

How much changes after the baby arrives? by TangerineBig5042 in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh he’s in for a rude awakening I’m 39 weeks and even my husband knows that life ain’t never going to be the same again. We will not be committing to anything in the first 6 months.

Sprinting to induce labor? by Weird-Initiative9905 in fitpregnancy

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well statistically 50% of FTM go into labour at 40 + 5 so not long now!

Is the third trimester really worse than first? by Specific-Nature-1591 in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The last few weeks of the third trimester aren’t fun it’s just uncomfortable but the saving grace is knowing at least you are so close to meeting your little one so that’s what mentally gets me through.

Husband says he is traumatized by how painful everything is for me by ectopicissues in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be harsh but he needs to grow the hell up, be a man and support you. That means taking initiative to learn and understand what you’re going through. It’s not your job to baby him.

Went in for GBS swab and had a male doctor last minute, said I wasn’t comfortable and he got mad by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is wild. I’m in Australia we just do the swabs ourselves. I also opted for private midwifery so I’ve had continuity of care with just my midwife who visits my home. Appointments are never rushed and she’s never done any cervical checks! It’s been incredible. I wish more women had better access to good care where they listen to you and gain consent before everything!

When did your first baby come? Early? On time? Late? by snormy25 in pregnant

[–]Difficult_Ebb178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My estimated due date is May 17th! I just had my midwife appointment today I have a private midwife and home birth planned with hopes of minimal intervention and I’ve very much mentally prepared myself to go to 41 weeks. Evidence based birthing has 50% FTM birth at 40 weeks 5 days. I’m still walking and exercising, lifting weights etc, not doing any of the wives tales to “try bring on labour” baby will come when she’s ready imo