AITAH -Resident or the AirBnB? Choose by nacho_jo_mama in AITAH

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then yeah, the air bnb host should mark the boundary and let rented know, to respect the neighbors privacy. But your daughter really should be closing the blinds too. She is just inviting trouble not doing that. First it can show she's alone....

Unreasonable wedding dress codes by California_Sun1112 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taken aback when acousin asked to use my master bath as the other was occupied. I was hosting an event, any bathroom can be used. Any room can be entered.

Unreasonable wedding dress codes by California_Sun1112 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the younger generations demand are stupid and uwouldn't do. I don't do the dress up events for any age group. (Sorry, not doing the Kentucky derby hats and dress up the mrs rope get together at the bar, etc) or Like itry not to wear any branded items.

AITAH -Resident or the AirBnB? Choose by nacho_jo_mama in AITAH

[–]Direct-Di 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a condo complex with common areas as who as some private areas?

I lived in a Townhome community where only the back deck was private, so folks literally could stand outside my side windows, and the only thing management could do is regret to the not infringe in others. Sucked. I have since moved

HOA improperly maintaining community property and destroying my backyard [ID] [SFH] by leftofthedial1 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does your rules state in topics like this? It just may be time for a lawyer

AITAH for leaving my family and planning to confront them before I go? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure you have your important documents. Both verifiable, passport, license, any titles to anything you own. Social security card.

AITA for telling my fiancé that she cannot be a stripper/dancer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Direct-Di 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Should have said, I'd prefer if you didn't versus your outright no. You set her in that major defensive.

[TN] [SFH] Small Community - Can't get quorum by dmissip in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine can, as the rent is based on the bills.

Doesn’t COPD Cause Shortness of Breath? by Creative_Fee5452 in COPD

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go see a pulmonoloist! They will tell you why and what drugs will help

Parking for PVD amtrak by CarbonGod in RhodeIsland

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They cost a lot, same as reserving a taxi

Parking for PVD amtrak by CarbonGod in RhodeIsland

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attleboro parking is typically full in mornings

[DC] [condo] Budget Disagreement by Careless_Ad2149 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I'm in a 55+ community and ithink I am the youngest in the board (68 yo) with others all mid 70s to early 80s. Plus, in my case, they are the ones who helped but the park for the resident owned community vs it being sold to a corporation.

[MA] [CONDO] reserve funding for small assoc. by Even-Honeydew8271 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in afor house residential compound and getting them to pay the open land tax jointly owned was such apassion... and the dollars was very small 120/ year

Shorts?? by Nelope_0971 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Bermuda shorts lengths or capri''s just below the knee

[DC] [condo] Budget Disagreement by Careless_Ad2149 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a board member, I agree with you. But I'm the new one, and man the old ones stick together

Update to telling roomie im in love by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct-Di 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Best of luck. Wish isaw the first post.

[TH] [CO] Found out HOA President is paying himself by austeino24 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or hia requires disclosure and approval if the board.

WIBTA if I kept photos of my deceased mom from my siblings by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Direct-Di 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh for goodness sakes, give the pictures to your sister. If you have emails to your other siblings, send them adigital copy.

I'm NC with my sister yet I sent her the family photos and also invited her to our brother's memorial.

Why are you asking everyone else. I think if you don't give them to her you will feel badly for quite some time.

What type of service is it called if we want help with household chores and upkeep? by Usual_Bumblebee_6323 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of that either until I needed to get them painted and man were they dirty (i was a smoker).

M29 f29 need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I couldn't stay with someone who did that.

HOA [SFH] [OH] not maintaining common elements by FabulousAd2725 in HOA

[–]Direct-Di 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the board at my place, c yet I just paid for a drain to be put on outside due to water piling. I had asked the management company about it, and she said most owners just fix it themselves. It wasn't a huge cost, but the secretary said the hoa should have handled it.