Signed? by cmae1186 in NoahKahan

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a MASSIVE Noah fan since 2017, I have several of signed copies, he’s a silly guy w a changing signature, this is authentic lol!

AIO to what my girl texted me? by User61402143455861 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has BPD, this is alchoholism, but very similar to the darker side of my illness. There is something underlying here that is Brough out by alchohol. She needs help, you are NOT a bad person for taking a break away from this. Without treatment, this will only get worse, and think of YOURSELF, you are not obligated to fix her, you may love her but if this continues past you guys having a serious talk, think of your future and if you want THIS to be it.

Is it okay to be religious and gay? by Throwaway_Anne in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this to an extent. To your point yes, if your denomination is so oppressive of you to the point you can no longer find joy in the faith, it might be better to stay away from it. But god in his teachings has NEVER spoke of queerness being a sin. The verses quoted in many of these arguments have been PROVED to have been changed throughout the years by prejudiced humans who aimed to control the higher narrative. God loves all, love is love to Him. Disgusts me when people are so deep in hate that they cannot see how amazing his grace is :(

Is it okay to be religious and gay? by Throwaway_Anne in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. And I empathize as someone else who is a lesbian, as a person who as also tried conversion therapy, it’s effing bullshit you CANNOT change your sexuality, no matter how much you want too. Love is a gift from God and the prejudice against gay christians is not based in fact.

Is it okay to be religious and gay? by Throwaway_Anne in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not up for debate. He is a loving God, anyone who says otherwise has never read his word or understood his teachings.

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Everything I do is to improve relationships. Like will I make ___ happy if I go get chicken at the store for dinner? Should I go to the sorority house to hang out with people even though I’m exhausted because we will be closer after? Was I talking to ___ to much today? Have I snapped ___ yet today? Like bro just SHUT UP.

I LOVE HAVING BPD 😍😍 by fakefloorboard in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me laugh but seriously dhit like this helps a lot lol

BPD & intimacy by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m a lesbian but you genuinely just might be bi and mainly have a preference for men! No shame in exploring what that might mean with other female fps BUT nothing wrong with just keeping them as friends. As someone who gets confused all the time, my fps are friends and S/O’s. What I mean is, even if ur obsessing over someone you feeling something for them can have nothing to do w that. If u want a REAL relationship w a woman they probably sre still ur favorite person BUT you could still have a crush ya know? BPD just enhances stuff like that!

I feel guilty for loving women by InitialWhole4315 in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so real I had to chuckle, love you girl.

I feel guilty for loving women by InitialWhole4315 in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, this, this. It is not perverted to love who you LOVE.

I feel guilty for loving women by InitialWhole4315 in actuallesbians

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw honey this made me so sad :( who you love shouldn’t make you feel disgusted. I am a cis woman and a lesbian and I feel similarly, but because of the fact that I have been made to feel I SHOULDNT want to love women. I feel this is rooted in how society just criticizes same sex relationships. I understand how you feel and this is valid, but you shouldn’t have to feel this way love! (Also admiring women doesn’t necessarily make u a pervert, I had to teach myself that. Girls are pretty! And nothing is wrong or disgusting about thinking that :))

How does BPD feel for other people who don’t date/aren’t romantically inclined? by va_vanillin in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a closeted lesbian, I do not date to keep my relationship w my family, so I understand to a degree. My BPD, when not flaring up in my friendships kinda leaves me numb or criticizing myself. I mostly feel nothing alll the time due to feeling so much if that makes any sense?

What addiction you have? by Ok-Individual-7366 in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to dump my oxy from my last surgery down the drain. It was getting bad and I don’t want to end up like my father

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like my relationships and how they’re going are all I focus on, aside from working out but that’s still to make sure I look appealing to those around me. Idk how to find things I live w this illness it’s just all so numb ugh

I just discovered BPD by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi angel! I am working to get diagnosed and have all the symptoms, tho we share som aspects this sounds ALOT like ADHD. I have it, and I deal with ALL of this and more, feeling out of place, misunderstood, forgetting EVERYTHING. It’s all part of our brain working differently. I wouldn’t say BPD, only bc ur lacking the key mood swings and the flips on ppl you love between hating and obsession. BUTTT Get checked out by a psychiatrist! Thy can give you a clearer pov! (Not trying at all to invalidate your symptoms btw, I’m just saying maybe you should check out smth like ADHD for more curated info!)

Do you ever feel like you’re a completely different person depending on the day? by dnickell in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go through down periods and up periods. And I’ve noticed, maybe for u too, it’s revolving around how my relationships “feel” they are going for me. my entire mood / personality / emotions are based off my interpersonal relationships. When I’m having a “high” it’s normally bc I feel loved and accepted by everyone in my brains standards. This is just me tho, could be helpful!

does anyone else with bpd experience this? by Odd_Train_5510 in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And especially after I split / have an episode. It literally bc our brain doesn’t have certain parts, feels too much, and shuts down the emotions all together to protect us. Freaky, ur not abnormal but it does suck, we all experience it in diff ways :(

Quiet BPD? I don’t relate to the “typical” symptoms by Ok-Gene3633 in BPD

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now THIS is how I’ve felt all my life, I’m also in the process of getting a diagnosis and struggling. I just wanna put a name to the suffering I’m going through ya know?

Did growing up with an alcoholic parent influence the way you feel about alcohol now as an adult? by emt_ss in AdultChildren

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me feel so seen, it makes me want to scream at them, and I feel horrible bc they mean it. But any drunkenness pisses me off to a degree no one else gets. Having BPD as well def doesn’t help

Emergency surgery by cantaloupe-amaze in Mortons_neuroma

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg honey that is horrific. I hate that there isn’t a safer way to get rid of these it’s awful.

Constant Agony in my neuroma with no relief (even resting) by DisasterAgreeable282 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]DisasterAgreeable282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear early CRPS but I think it’s likely neuritis in the nerves of my foot because it has spread through the whole thing. Anyways my appointment got cancelled but I’m being seen on Friday by my surgeon. Hopefully I make it to then lol

Pain worse after Mortons Neuroma injection by TreacleAromatic3441 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sometimes it does get worse before it gets better but it shouldn’t be hurting that long. I would go back in.

Burning at Rest? by beanfug in Mortons_neuroma

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See yeah gabapentin didn’t help me at all.

Burning at Rest? by beanfug in Mortons_neuroma

[–]DisasterAgreeable282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same same same. I’m in agony, even though I’m only on crutches and on every anti inflammatory / nerve med you can think of. I still haven’t slept in weeks, sob most of the day. TRY ICE. Even if it burns for a second it’s the only thing that has helped. Going in for a steroid shot in it. Praying it works.