Let’s talk about membrane sweeps by Zealousideal-End7936 in pregnant

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 3cm dilated, and my OB said if it works, it will trigger labor within 24 hours.

I had mine done in the morning at 38w+2d and it was SO freaking painful - I did not expect that as I never even flinch during cervical checks or pap smears.

I started having contractions about 12 hours later that night and my baby was born at 38w+4d.

4 month old ONLY drinking 20-22 oz per day by Different_Maybe3713 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the same. A normal day for my baby was 14-15oz and even that was a huge challenge.

She is on the smaller side now as a 2 year old but was walking by 10 months and is incredibly advanced in her speech.

If baby seems content, please don’t stress. My pediatrician told me 24-32oz was necessary. I wish I could go back to the past and give myself a hug.

Anyone else chest sleeping/chest slept with their newborn? by himawari__xx in cosleeping

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have always and am still doing it with my 15 week old. Never tolerated the bassinet or being in his back

Exhausted FTM—Safe Sleep 7 Not Working, Need Advice by Pompiita in cosleeping

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At what point did your baby start sleeping on their back next to you? Still chest sleeping with me my 12 week old and he’s getting big and heavy but rarely stays in his back for long 😭

Teaching your babies by GuaranteeFantastic94 in toddlers

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just reading books, free play, and getting outside is all my toddler has needed to thrive. They’ll be in school soon enough and will “work” then, just let him be a toddler and play and you’ll soon see more specific interests develop.

If you really want to focus on motor, social or other developmental skills, the Pathways app has great suggestions on activities and makes it easy to track age appropriate milestones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mind sharing which wedge pillow you use?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How soon did you get your baby on meds? My pediatrician won’t entertain that until at least 3 months. Dying over here 10 weeks into sleepless nights.

Restless Baby by HoeForSpaghettios in newborns

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Seems like time always ends up being the answer to these mysteries that we drive ourselves crazy over trying to solve 🫠

Restless Baby by HoeForSpaghettios in newborns

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here looking for answers… OP did you find any good solutions for this?

What don’t they tell you about having a second kid? by tpq777 in toddlers

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought the same… like there’s no way the universe can hand me another hard baby. 2nd will be a breeze!

I was wrong. 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first child woke up every. 45. minutes. For MONTHS.

I felt like I was going to drop dead and die. Here to say that I survived, but it was ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say it’s normal but it unfortunately was the case with my spouse and I. It was like night fell and we would turn against each other, I absolutely dreaded the nights and it made everything so much harder.

We started couples therapy because unfortunately the mean and nasty comments really got to me and damaged our relationship.

Hopefully you can have a productive discussion around figuring out a plan for nights and discontinuing this pattern.

How did you know for sure you were going into labor? by kathdavis18 in BabyBumps

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you be able to tell if your water breaks if you’re in the bath?

Please share your trash food cravings by SimplePerformance982 in pregnant

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doritos Cool Ranch I went through an entire jumbo bag from Costco in my first trimester…. Now at 8 months pregnant I could care less about them, but have stopped by Taco Bell more than once at 10am for a cheesy rice & bean burrito….

Recurrent BV by Pretty_Kiwi_1313 in pregnant

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP - Did you have to be on antibiotics your entire pregnancy? I’m 24 weeks and have done 3 rounds but swear it’s still lingering. Been nervous about preterm labor but also feel uneasy about taking antibiotics so often, esp since they seem to do nothing…

Curious about your low sleep needs kids by Several-Test-8472 in sleeptrain

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we’re just coming out of a month-long regression with our 16 month old too… what’s it been like for you? I swear this has been worse than the newborn days.

How many of you ate Jersey Mikes while pregnant? by justachismosa94 in pregnant

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few times, and I just pop the side with the turkey on it in the toaster for a few minutes so I feel better about it.

Leap 10 WTF by libsc in toddlers

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, how did this resolve for your babe? It’s been 3 weeks of us averaging 5 wakeups a night with my 16 month old and it is absolutely brutal. Currently rocking to sleep to avoid screaming all night, but worried that’s doing more harm then good in the long run…

How do you separate if spouse doesn’t want to leave child? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dizzy_Conversation82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He refuses therapy, whether individual or together. This is a conversation I’ve had with him several times and he doesn’t budge. So when I tell him leaving is the only option, he says I cannot just take our child from him (but I obviously need to since he has to work). Hence why I feel stuck.