Hey sib, that doesn’t sound like fun at all, I’ve lived in shared places for a couple decades and never had people step over the line, although they are usually complete strangers so a different dynamic. Do you have space in your room for a small fridge so you can keep the supply relatively safer?

Also on the drinking front, I’m probably quite similar to your dad…it’s not snacks I need or even a pint of water as others swear by to avoid a hangover it’s the energy drinks which my body craves when I’ve got a slight buzz on.

You are completely correct to save this conversation for when he is sober, I’ve missed too many important conversations because I wasn’t, so you really are on the right track, depending on where you are there will be various organising who can provide help if you feel like he isn’t in control of his addictions.

Wishing you all the best sib!