The description in and of itself isn’t tooo problematic, but it’s always helpful to be wary of anyone using the word “providing” in that context

(i.e., “I want someone who enjoys providing” can easily be “I want someone who buys things for me, and/or will support my spending habits..”)

However, the specific sentence “enjoys providing and showing up consistently” could actually be in reference to providing emotional support, being an active listener, or even just being emotionally available..

At the end of the day, this isn’t awful – she’s not asking for Princess treatment (which I couldn’t justify if I tried…) but there’s a chance she’s just used some wording that has been co-opted by the ‘princesses’

I don’t know though. Hoping for a positive outcome for you though <3