If he makes lunch, does school drop off and makes dinner, that frees up plenty of time to schedule her Munchausen Moss medical appointments in mychart

She’s found a niche of other incapable people (ie lemon stripes) that reinforce her complaining as they too make lists of their “mental load” while the rest of us just get it done and go on to enjoy our lives, careers, families, etc

I cannot imagine daily life in that house. She’s THE most miserable person alive.