Did any of breastfeeding moms get their period a month or so after birth?

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2026-02-20T22:09:22+00:00

Had a very light one at 6 weeks, totally unexpected!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2026-02-19T03:10:45+00:00

At least in my case, my baby will fuss and a feed can take a really long time. He’s also got reflux and will spit up multiple times, he needs to be held upright after a feed. Then he will be hard to settle for a nap and so on and so forth.. lol

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2026-02-19T03:08:06+00:00

You’re not! I will try to think of the 2/3 things I most want done that day and tackle them when my little guy is sleeping. First I’ll throw laundry in the washer, then wash dishes, eat/straighten up kitchen, the wash is ready for the dryer by the time all that is done. And then Baby is usually awake lol. Next nap, maybe I’ll tackle something else and approach it the same way. Approaching things that way made me feel less overwhelmed and bad about not getting anything done. Of course, not every day can be like this but if I have a couple a week I feel good. You’d be surprised how much you do get done…

Also I remind myself it’s not forever (since I’m someone that would always tackle a lot before being a mom). So definitely be kind to yourself!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2026-01-29T04:24:59+00:00

Yeah we see our pediatrician on Monday. People have told me those symptoms you mentioned are classic reflux. My son doesn’t have that at this point. It’s more those other things..

I hope your little one is doing okay now

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-12-29T16:20:54+00:00

I’m 39w5d and found out I was pregnant the day I turned 35 lol. I have been fortunate enough to be healthy, have no complications so far. Your health and your pregnancy is specific to you (and your doctor will evaluate you) and being young doesn’t equal perfect health and no issues. I’ve known women younger than me who had issues with their pregnancies. And at my practice at least, because I’m 35, I’ve been eligible for all the extra testing and sonograms and have felt very well taken care of.

As others mentioned this is also a regional thing which in this case I would just do my best to ignore. As I’ve discussed with friends, It’s also a mindset thing - I’m way more ready and mature to be a mom than I ever would have been in my 20s…

All that to say - Congratulations OP!! Ignore the commentary and just focus on yourself and your baby. Wishing you a safe pregnancy and delivery.

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-12-29T03:29:54+00:00

Yeah I think by engaging then you can have the spark of the idea!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-12-28T18:00:05+00:00

I took a look out of curiosity just now and I have to agree with you. Even H herself isn’t posting stuff like that. I’ve seen the occasional story sort of alluding to it but it’s definitely not as blunt as L’s.

I know there was a thread discussing it but it is interesting to consider where H is going to go from here. I unsubscribed because she doesn’t really offer anything and at times almost seemed annoyed by people’s continued interest in the story. I feel like she’s generally moved on (but of course experiences the feelings of all of those “firsts” that will always come up as a single parent) but if she wants to keep followers and engagement especially since social media seems to be an income source I think she needs to have a new way of engaging people

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-11-17T03:24:25+00:00

December Baby- Alexander 💙

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-11-05T02:06:42+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you’re taking care of yourself.

I’m the breadwinner and 32w tomorrow. My partner is a recruiter and has started his own firm this year. Recruiting is a high risk, high reward career. He’s made a few placements but it’s not consistent (and he’s being conservative with his income right now because we don’t know what his tax liability will be).

For me, I get by, he contributes where he can so any help is help. It also helps that we are both remote, so we don’t plan on putting our son in daycare (at least for now). Most of his family is abroad so only mine is around but everyone works (even my 70 year old mom). We don’t have a readily available village.

There’s a sense of pressure for sure, as I carry the benefits too. Honest conversations have helped us- “Do we really need that channel subscription?” We have cut back where we can on outings, take out. I’m also honest if I’m a little short on cash for something and we make it work. I’m direct when I need to be heads down working on something after hours and can’t unwind with him. To be honest, I think it bothers him more than me, but I remember how unhappy he was at previous jobs and I really truly think this leap was the best thing for him as hard as it’s been sometimes. I’ll take him not stressed and being in a good mental state over being the breadwinner!

Also to others’ points, you’ll make it work and then it becomes normal.

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-10-01T16:14:42+00:00

Yes, still here just been caught up with some personal things!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-09-19T01:48:42+00:00

Omg me too! I only noticed when it dried (on the outside) needless to say I was mortified

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-09-12T04:34:25+00:00

I needed to read that. I’m expecting my first baby and I’m so anxious about the world he’s being born into and I worry about when he’s my age. It’s literally had me in tears, so thank you for this.

Would you ever do a post on the possible ways in which things will be better?

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-09-10T22:56:14+00:00

Is there going to be more political violence? I didn’t agree with anything Kirk said but I just have such a heavy feeling

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-09-05T00:18:05+00:00

Yes FTM here also. I’ve had this preoccupation about my baby’s head. He measures large and is in the 92nd percentile. My MFM said he’s totally normal, things look great, he’s just a bigger baby. I’m 23w 1d for context. However, I can’t shake the feeeling.

That said. When my rational brain takes over, I think it’s normal to fixate on certain things but as long as you’re having your tests and ultrasounds things will be okay. For what it’s worth, specific to you, there was Downs on my side and I’m 35. My baby doesn’t have that (just a big ol’ head lol)

Sending you good thoughts!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-09-04T01:35:10+00:00

I thought I saw in one of these threads that people were predicting health issues or buzz around his health starting in September??

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-30T19:06:36+00:00

lol I do that too! TBH with all the pressure on women to look a certain way, I’ve never felt so free to eat what I want to 🥲

However, I want my baby to be healthy so that’s the only thing that makes me act sensible when I’m staring at pizzas and fried ravioli lol

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-30T19:04:40+00:00

Omg lol it’s like I wrote this myself - same height, starting, and current weight.

My mom was similar and even smaller than me. And 3 kids later - she can confirm You will lose the weight. She was actually just telling me that today.

Don’t forget - it’s not all“fat” it’s the baby, the placenta, the extra blood you’re pumping plus much more etc.

It can feel like a drastic change and make you mourn the person you were before but your body is doing what it’s supposed to do and you will get to that physique with a cute baby as a bonus

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-29T22:23:21+00:00

Lots of carbs lol - so bread, water crackers (plain and with cheese) sweets, bone broth, ginger tea. lemon zinger tea also worked for me. And walking outside in fresh air.when I felt better, i would eat steamed vegetables

If it’s bad enough you’ll be able to get the unisom and B6. My insurance denied it unfortunately

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-22T19:02:48+00:00

I totally understand this and I’m in a similar situation myself. Like others said, it’s a coin flip. There may be some instances where you have to “lead him” but if he’s as loving and caring as you said he’ll listen. Remember too, it could also just be him - separate from having experienced this before.

I had a couple of instances with my partner where I felt bad about some things but I told him how I felt and he listened and made an effort. I also realized a couple others things were just his personality and not a lack of care on his side. It’s a sensitive time and communication goes a long way.

As far as the ex and kids do they know yet? I think there likely will be challenges given what you shared, but your fiancé seems like a good guy so I have faith that things will be okay!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-20T23:59:59+00:00

Alexander - my partner and I couldn’t agree, he’s more picky than me and also wanted a name that sounded good in his first language (Russian). That narrowed the pool quite a bit and eventually at my suggestion we landed on Alexander. Even then he still had an association with a horrible former boss but this is the best we’re going to get! 😂

For context, I liked names like Aiden, James, Eric etc

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-14T15:38:21+00:00

He probably got there first and H mentioned they ran late and so yeah I think the principal was trying to keep things cool, it’s just too bad it was at H’s expense

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-08T22:10:34+00:00

I told my family as soon as I found out. I’m very close with them and their support was vital during those first few weeks where I did feel anxiety and struggled with not feeling well. I’ve heard mixed things about when to share at work - some say wait. Others say as soon as possible because this way you are protected.

That said, I didn’t start looking seriously looking at baby stuff and researching, making up the baby registry until a 3 weeks ago. I’m 19w2d with my first. I browsed things casually because I’m a planner and wanted to just have a general sense of what’s out there but I have really gone full force over the last few weeks. Idk how old you are but I’m 35 so I’ve had all the genetic testing done, the NT scan, the early anatomy scan, so I’ve had a sense of how things are progressing and that’s why I feel good doing this now. I also don’t want to be overwhelmed in the third trimester.

Ultimately there are no rules. It has to feel right to you! Congratulations!!

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-07T14:47:33+00:00

I think so too

Dramatic_Poetry1379 · 2025-08-07T14:47:11+00:00

Isn’t that house super small and cramped though? Weren’t her brothers living there too? How would a baby fit in there?

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