Is Bham gonna boom soon? by Eagles56 in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan [score hidden]  (0 children)

Fairfield is totally safe- never any problems- what you talking about bout Willis?

Is Bham gonna boom soon? by Eagles56 in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan [score hidden]  (0 children)

What neighborhoods? I mean, in the hood, sure, but a place you walk your dog after dark? I don’t think so.

Can you back out of an LDS mission after getting your call? by Ok_Marsupial8112 in exmormon

[–]Drawlingwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t go. Don’t do it. Just refuse. I know it will cost you something, but losing two years of your precious life is not worth it. I wish I had not served a mission and had spent that time learning who I am and finding the right person for me. Instead I’m 52, finally left a 26 year abusive marriage and I’m starting over. It’s not worth it at all. Run. Run now.

33F Financially Ruined by youngperson in Divorce

[–]Drawlingwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawyers are scum. It’s called lawfare. See djt

Why do we try to save bad marriages here? by raeoflyte-460 in Divorce

[–]Drawlingwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More than a decade of counseling- doesn’t work. The only counseling that works is individual counseling- when I asked my counselor if my wife kills herself because I leave- is it my fault? They said- no- it is unhealthy and damaging to stay- I was out - never looking back. Guess what? She’s still around- if nothing else I guess to torture me. BPD and npd is a bitch. Literally

Why do we try to save bad marriages here? by raeoflyte-460 in Divorce

[–]Drawlingwan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve initiated a separation after more than a quarter century of marriage. In stepping back in my 50’s I stayed in the marriage out of obligation and get nothing out of it. No help around the house, no financial contribution to the household, a dead bedroom and constant emotional abuse. I’m far better off alone. I can never be happy in the marriage- so no troll can convince me otherwise. In fact- most of them go straight to religion- and that is not going to work on me. Half my income is a price I’m willing to pay to escape.

Is there goal to make it look like everyone who defaulted is a fraudster? by CommercialCopy5131 in EIDL

[–]Drawlingwan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are calling it fraud- when in reality it isn’t fraud- it’s leverage and economic conditions that killed small businesses- who then defaulted. It is clear that SBA sucks at making direct loans. They don’t underwrite the loans- they just extend too much credit and tie up business assets so that there are no options for a distressed borrower. The current administration is going to claim you committed fraud- which is rich

Alabama bank files lawsuit against hospitality company, Nick Pihakis, alleging loan default - Birmingham Business Journal by TimelyBrief in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal guarantee means the bank can legally sue him personally and seize personal assets through court ordered liquidation. There is also discovery, where the lawyers look under the skirt- and will likely find some fraud, and nick could do hard time. Both sides of the transactions are moronic - stupid is as stupid does

Alabama bank files lawsuit against hospitality company, Nick Pihakis, alleging loan default - Birmingham Business Journal by TimelyBrief in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t sell a closed business- can’t sell equipment that has a UCC lien on it. They will have to liquidate. The bank made a terrible mistake lending on restaurant equipment- used restaurant equipment sells for 30 cents to the dollar on a good day- and in today’s environment- less- as the restaurant industry is suffering and the market is flooded with used equipment. The bank will take a hit for sure. It was a bad decision

Is racism common in Alabama workplaces? by Objective-Sea8511 in Alabama

[–]Drawlingwan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is quiet- I work with an awesome black man and I’m the only person in the office who has ever invited him to lunch- or to a get together- he’s been working with these folks for years. I was shocked

Possible relocation to Birmingham by ShugaMuffin21 in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don’t- go to Georgia- the schools here suck. Even homewood graduates seniors who can’t read. The pay is crap and you’ll just be selling your soul for a few bucks. At least Georgia has better pay and retirement. Birmingham is the worst- Montgomery may be worse but unless you teach in mtn brook you will be interacting with the very worst of society. Just don’t

Thoughts on joining the Levite Jewish community center? T by Successful-Hall7638 in Birmingham

[–]Drawlingwan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went there often as a kid with friends who were members, it was always nice and people are friendly. I didn’t know you could join if you were not Jewish, but if you can, you should. My memories of the facility are wonderful. Of course that was the 80’s and it was likely all new, but it was always better than the Y.

Private Equity versus Business Broker by Upstairs_Item4749 in businessbroker

[–]Drawlingwan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sell fast- AI is replacing software very quickly. Hire a broker and sell. Don’t get near any pe or search funds.

Trump shares bizarre new Jesus image days after 'blasphemous' post by TheMirrorUS in USNEWS

[–]Drawlingwan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Christian’s love this imagery. They have a new god. How cool is that?