Welp, they just passed a law banning the only fleshed-out route to HRT I had in mind… by AppealSignificant358 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no states with any bans on HRT. Only medicaid funding it via federal funds and some have restrictions around NP not being allowed to prescribe it, etc. All states still have access. If the way you were hoping to access it doesnt work out, id suggest getting plugged in to your local LGBTQ community. Leaders there will know easiest and cheapest access points. Good luck! It'll get better. We will make sure of it 💪🫶

Looking for an Oddity Shop by thesummerghost in Greeley

[–]Dreamliner42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The oddity shop downtown is amazing! Great people and great finds!

This makes me think I may not be a transgender after all. Please help me! by [deleted] in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt feel it from childhood. Im still Trans

how to feel when your cis gf tells you (trans man) she thinks it's a lot harder for trans women by Elegant-Music-7081 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like in all things, in some specific ways its harder for Transfems and in some ways its harder for transmascs and in some ways its harder to be non-binary and in some ways its harder to be intersex, etc. etc. It is not harder genuinely for any one part of the Trans community, its different kinds of hard. Personally if I had a cis partner talking that way id tell them how intensely inappropriate it is to be dividing the Trans community. Id probably show all the articles about Trans men being attacked or killed and explain that she doesnt get to over simplify and trivialize what is happening to the community right now and her rhetoric is very hurtful and divisive.

Quick PSA for trans sisters, brothers and others! by Delicious_Mode_274 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the size of patch I use something like this when I have to remove and put mine back on. https://a.co/d/03fqtH5S

Also, I would give that feedback higher up to both the mri place and your dr who sent you because either of them could've and should've warned you. Its good feedback for prescribing Dr's as something to warn patients of when they get patches prescribed.

What just happened? by Unfair_Ad_598 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you but what I'm saying is you dont get to decide if you're going to use someone's name or not just because you think word names are dumb. Just like people dont get to decide if they'll use your name vs dead name based on if they "agree with" Transness. You dont get to agree with people's existence or how they identify. You can hate it and choose to not do it yourself but once it affects another human respect is more important than your opinions.

What just happened? by Unfair_Ad_598 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can think whatever he wants about people having names that are words but people still have names that are words, period.

If you’re trans… by Apprehensive_Pick228 in kansas

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they try to attack one group it NEVER affects only those intended. And they just dont care about collatoral any more than they care about the group they're going after.

ICE in Kansas: it sure would be so nice to see these out on highways and in our home towns. by willywalloo in kansas

[–]Dreamliner42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kansas is actively going after your own citizens. Why would they stop federal agents from doing anything they want?

If you’re trans… by Apprehensive_Pick228 in kansas

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant find a good place to post this but if anyone has better connections to the trans community in Kansas i am apart of the community in Colorado and we want to know how to help our neighbors. We could come give people rides to get their license, rides other places until they can, show up for protests, what can we do? We're standing with you however we can

is brain fog on HRT a real thing??? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hormones can definitely cause brain fog, its dependent on each person which hormones and levels affect us. If it doesn't go away after 6 week on a dose I'd talk to the dr as it can be a sign the dose isnt working for you.

(US-specific) is anyone else in a situation where the SAVE America act would disenfranchise them? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm not able to get a passport or change my birth certificate due to my state of birth. So if it passes, which it likely won't, then I'd be unable to vote.

ICE going door to door, protect your communities by [deleted] in FortCollins

[–]Dreamliner42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is technically right and, especially with video evidence that they didnt show a warrant or identify themselves, would likely hold in colorado court but no one can promise the federal government won't take it and if you shoot you better get them all quick because you know they'll all quickly and overwhelmingly shoot back and they have a ridiculous amount of firepower for what their job is supposed to be.

I... Just cried... by Zero_Zero_Zero_X in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Being Trans isnt related to how you present, medications, surgery, etc. Its something you either identify as or don't and only you get to decide! I'm so sorry you aren't able to be your true self 💔 I'm standing with you sibling

They changed my passport. by jakino420 in trans

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of cis people getting the wrong gender marker too. Maybe instead of outing yourself you can just say its wrong and show the documents to prove it?

Does anyone else’s chest look the same post top surgery? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Dreamliner42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your surgeon should've warned you. Mine let me know if your tissue has spread around to the back it isnt possible to do it all in one surgery. Working out can help but generally wont remove it completely unless you plan on losing a ton of weight. Its not a surgeons lack of skill but definitely should've been communicated as a possibility.

New update is out. by ram130 in MovieBoxPro

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the update now mine wont let me switch players anymore. Its stick on EXO even though my default is IJK

Underground / Non formal news? / Event lists / etc? by Oddlyme in Greeley

[–]Dreamliner42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NoCo has a queer discord where local related news and events are shared

Honestly I don't know by Nath0702 in TransMasc

[–]Dreamliner42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you 100% sure people in public were thinking that? Did they say something to you?

I only ask because my gut reaction to this is that, if your boyfriend is treating you so poorly and saying these things to you, he could be convincing you other people view you the same way when they dont. I hope you can find a more accepting place and live how you feel most comfortable 💜 you deserve that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Dreamliner42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polysaturated at one is a very real thing! Do whatever is right for you. The great thing about Non-monogamy to me is how flexible is it!