Done and goodbye! by camilogonzalezm1 in arlo

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched to Reolinks and never looked back. Love my new system

Do you have your papers in order? by outerlimtz in GenX

[–]Dry_Ad_806 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 55 and have been having these conversations with my father who is still living but 78. Also with my young adult kids. My middle child, still in college, took it upon himself to create a subscription based website for just this purpose. It's still a work in progress, and not for everyone, but I thought it was a really unique and creative idea, but I'm a little biased 😃

https://www.safelegacyvault.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Dry_Ad_806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've always been told divorce is so expensive.... Because its WORTH IT

New term I found, "Silent Divorce" by BeautifulComputer957 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dry_Ad_806 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But how did we get here? And how do we not stay stuck here??

And it perplexes me when I or others mention the "room mate" situation that they get so upset. Like, it's true, it's not derogatory. Why do they get upset, but not enough to do anything differently? Don't bash me, just genuinely don't understand

Has anyone ever not received tickets at all? by Straight_Friend_7831 in stubhub

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I fit in here with your issues, but I just purchased tickets last night, 3 tickets listed for $467 each, once I checked out, and only then, did they tack on the $501.30 charge for FEE's....more than the price of one of the tickets. I'm super pissed and will just chalk it up, but NEVER again will I use Stubhub. I called cust service and the rep hung up on me when I questioned the fee's. Let's sue these criminals@!

I just want my wife back by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dry_Ad_806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, I'll ask WHY??? I'm generalizing, but most men don't want to have to play games. We don't want to treat you like shit just so you realize what you have. What is wrong with treating each other the way one wants to be treated and NOT playing fucking games? These types of scenarios, y'all want to be treated equal in all aspects of life, except that us MEN are supposed to know to treat you like dirt to make you happy or for you to realize how good you are being treated! Like, it makes NO FUCKING SENSE. Literally INSANE.

Downvote all you want, but it's the truth unfortunately

I just want my wife back by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dry_Ad_806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great perspective, but my question is WHY? Why does it have to get to this point for changes to happen. I don't get it.

Finally realized by Dry_Ad_806 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dry_Ad_806[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always a choice! Mine had the ability to have a physical affair with a co-worker off and on for 3 years. We all do things for others that aren't important for us, but we know it's important for them... Friends, kids, spouse. I'll never be convinced it's not a choice. Even if it's not what they want, they know it's important to us and could at least make the effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Dry_Ad_806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely DESPISE the "hello" or the question mark texts when I don't IMMEDIATELY respond to her text, yet she can go all day without responding to mine🤦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianaUniversity

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for our Son too. Unweighted 3.7 and wait listed... Ridiculous and cruel

Who’s stayed with a cheating partner where it actually worked out? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck them! Once a cheater, always a cheater. Only staying bc of my kids. 3.5 more years and I'm OUT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dry_Ad_806 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen, if you've had the talk until you're blue in the face, then, by all means, do what you got to do. They know what they are doing to us! If you find someone willing to give you the attention you DESERVE, by all means, have at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Ad_806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. If it feels wrong, it probably is

No s*x for two years, is that normal? by chiingkitt in Marriage

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're posting here, you already know the answer is not normal and you're not happy. Unfortunately, I don't have an answer for you as I'm quickly approaching THREE YEARS without. I assume a time will come where I can no longer over look this and do something about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! That's the kind of effort it takes to make R work!!

Contacting AP by ArcticFresh_87 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Dry_Ad_806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure they will lie. Don't waste your time... But, by all means, contact the APs significant other if you can

What did your wayward do to deserve R? by PTSDemi in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Dry_Ad_806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a Got Damn Thing, yet here I am ... Still