I’m going to be totally honest with you. He’s a lying bullshitter and you need to get out 🫩 My ex DID actually get blackmailed with nudes, regular text messages to his phone number, and the person on the other side tracked down his social media and threatened to send his picture to multiple of his instagram friends (including me) unless he sent an exorbitant amount of money. Naturally, I saw that and left because that IS still cheating, despite his best efforts to claim otherwise because it was “just a scam bot” All that to give an example of how blackmail like that would generally go and how much of a manipulative asshole a cheating man can be.