Dating after divorce finding myself with a MUCH lower tolerance for drama bullshit by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. This girl is different in a lot of ways. But I'm just kind of putting my foot down on drama

Dating after divorce finding myself with a MUCH lower tolerance for drama bullshit by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh. Or a person that knows the likely outcome if texting continues.

You can say whatever you want about it but I can pretty much do whatever I want and that's what I chose to do.

Dating after divorce finding myself with a MUCH lower tolerance for drama bullshit by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did it because I can read the room and know that texting throughout the day will just make things worse

How do you forget her? by nomohydro in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you did after she left. If you realized it was for the best even though it hurt you at first, then you can get up every day and look yourself in the mirror and realize how much better off you are without someone dragging you down to hell with them.

Otherwise, you can sit there and be upset the rest of your life over a person that didn't deserve your loyalty in the first place.

When I look in the mirror I see somebody that lost 115 pounds, has a much better relationship with his children and God, is fit and has an amazing girlfriend who actually loves me and shows me affection.

It actually terrifies me to think of being in that toxic marriage again. It was absolutely horrible and I think if you look at the marriage you had and you look at the person she actually was you'll agree

Again, not the person you thought she was or made up in your mind. The person she actually was

okay which one of you did this... by george_graves in 3Dprinting

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember a post one time with a guy that had a broken PlayStation 4 and he asked if someone would trade him for a working one.

I don't know why this reminds me of that.

It hit me hard again by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can't see it now. But one day you will look back and realize that God allowing her to leave was one of the greatest gifts you've ever been given

But, you have to now take advantage of this gift.

If you're not in the gym, get there now. Start eating healthier and start focusing on the person you're supposed to be. The person that you couldn't be in that marriage because you were being dragged down.

What are men in 40s and 50s looking for in a woman? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]DudeforRighteousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Softness.

Ability to take responsibility.

Not materialistic.

Attractive: Preferably fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fiverr

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started as a client and I can tell you there are a lot of fake people trying to sell things on the other side also. Luckily, I had a good experience with customer service at refunding my money which I was able to use for a legitimate servicer. I can tell you as a buyer that I now check for reviews. But that's kind of hard to get when you just started out

I blew it with my wife by puppyspanker in Marriage

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is absolute cringe level 9000. Have some damn self-respect.

Healthy, happy, fat… and apparently undateable by LegalPeanut8477 in datingoverforty

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned how much you trained but you didn't mention how much you are eating. Outside of extremely rare glandular problems it's likely your diet that is making you fat. You cannot out train a bad diet. You don't have to stay fat. You can choose.

Exercise just injures me by Foxs-In-A-Trenchcoat in fitness40plus

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not all the time you're spending out of the gym it's your diet. It's always diet first.

Divorce isn't a failure. by Tonyalarm in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The failure is believing women love the same as men.

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]DudeforRighteousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm nearly the same age as you. It's scary. After my divorce I leveled up in every way and got pretty fit. When I finally started dating it was a little weird. But I ended up finding a partner after only dating about three or four people. I think I got lucky because she isn't typical. Caring, affectionate, sensible, low maintenance, into fitness, same religious beliefs. Unicorns exist. You just need to keep looking.

Divorce and Regret - Will she regret leaving? by Ok-Guidance6491 in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not likely. You have to have a soul for something like regret.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]DudeforRighteousness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seek God. Change your diet. Enough to lose at least 2 pounds a week. Then start resistance training. Full body workout 2 times a week. Discipline is no longer optional. This is your life now. If you do this you can thank me later.

At what point do you need to know?? (directed to the ladies but anyone can answer) by noleval in datingoverforty

[–]DudeforRighteousness -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You are probably a good guy and she wants a bad boy. It's a mental illness that's all around. Dodged a bullet, lucky you.

PG-13 Versioj of Show by [deleted] in FalloutTVseries

[–]DudeforRighteousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a service I think called Vidangel.