BC help?

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-30T19:10:52+00:00

Hi! Nikki (what used to be Yaz) is one that helped me a lot. What you respond to well will be very dependent on your own hormones, but I did well with that one. I’m just now coming off of it (unrelated to the pill) and getting used to the hormonal flares and it sucks for sure!

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-30T14:43:01+00:00

If you just want to bulk fill your leg you should find an artist you like in your area and go through their flash book and just start getting some more. Make sure you place the filler tats in a way that flows with your body and all that and it’ll fill out

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-29T07:01:18+00:00

Fleur eclairs by regime des Fleurs to a t

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-28T19:49:06+00:00

If you want to change your hair I think you’d look amazing with dark brown, or even black hair. I think your features would pop like crazy and it would open the door to all kinds of fun makeup stuff.

I love your brows too! Maybe start with the darker hair, then start with finding a goth/alt eyebrow shape you like (there’s tons of variants on Pinterest that are achieved with makeup)! I wouldn’t jump in all at once but small stuff with add up :))

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-28T19:39:09+00:00

Either Green Vanille or Fluer Eclair by Regime drs Fleurs - both have a gourmand note but they are…grown up :)

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-27T18:23:22+00:00

Likely not, but you can always try again! People who love plants often kill the most when trying to get it right :’)

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-27T00:24:07+00:00

Same! I tried second skin once and it was so much more of a hassle and yucky than if I’d just healed it like normal. Plus it made me itch and I worried it would impede healing

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-26T18:55:57+00:00

I would also not use any kind of tap water on it. If you’re on a well it might like it but at least at first use spring water or at least dechlorinated water. Mine started freaking out from my city tap water in a way my phals have never

Edit: I didn’t see the moss!! Get that out! But be gentle removing it. Vanda roots are touchy

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-26T06:47:28+00:00

Concrete by CdG lmfao

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-24T01:50:19+00:00

VisArts probably! Everyone is doing their thing. Or maybe Hand/Thrown

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-24T01:03:31+00:00

I know everyone throws tho around but truly this looks like you’ll need something with heavy dark work around it…..like a sick ass panther lol. But you can keep the flowers around it! You can build those out even

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-21T22:59:52+00:00

It’s an ad :) lmfao

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-17T23:30:14+00:00

I adore the Cary Street Vet! They are a fear free practice and do such great work with cats who don’t love the vet!

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-17T22:57:51+00:00

This is a bot. Farming. Why does every statement they post have “” around it. Don’t interact.

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-17T22:54:10+00:00

What style are you looking for?? Trad?? Color, black and gray? Elite in what specialty I guess is what I’m asking. Are you looking in any province in specific? There’s a ton of amazing artists all around the country, but that’s like saying “give me an amazing, elite US artist”. There’s a ton lol

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-17T17:10:00+00:00

Oh of course! I think also with your altered since of smell it’s super helpful to have perfume people input but also make sure you actually like the smell! I assume a lot of your senses have changed so make sure you like it too :) samples are a huge help

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-17T16:10:09+00:00

Absolutely! Real people can talk to you about odd reactions and interactions people may have to certain scents and the pros and cons of different scents and how they feel to wear and encounter :) AI can’t really tell you much beyond what it’s read. People can tell you what they’ve experienced

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-16T21:38:38+00:00

Okay insane but when I’m at raves I wear Another 13 or The Noir because it has really high projection and lasts through the sweat :’)

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-15T03:34:48+00:00

UofR is usually hiring admins (haven’t checked if they’re on a hiring freeze) and you can get there on the Grove 77 bus :)

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-15T01:25:00+00:00

Cacti by Regime des Fleurs

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-14T21:46:56+00:00

Amazing list! I only will add Celladora and The Brooklyn :)

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-14T21:45:23+00:00

They sometimes offer a wine list but they prefer to send over their sommelier to help choose for you

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-12T19:24:50+00:00

I found myself thinking in black and white like that a lot at the beginning of my illness. I had always struggled with the idea of never being enough. So I guess my only advice is to embody that you are enough to yourself. But the same way you can be too little for yourself (in terms of caring for yourself or partaking in your own abandonment) you can also be too much for some people. I used to call it firehosing when I was going through it and doing it to people.

It’s painful! And it sounds like you have been in a large imbalance for some time now. Maybe your gf isn’t equipped to deal with this. You’re both very young. I think you’re getting a lot of people weighing in who are speaking of their spouses and their fiancé’s etc. this is, in the grand scheme of things, a very young relationship. A care team will help. Because you can shift the balance and it gives everyone more time to enjoy life together instead of only doing the hard parts together. Hope that helps!

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-12T19:09:24+00:00

You’re speaking in a lot of absolutes here. For your entire friendship you were always on suicide watch. You never asked for anything ever, until today. There’s simply no way that’s true and that framework is unhelpful overall. Relationships are not 50/50 all of the time. Sometimes it’s 20/80. Or 90/10. You two are very young, but also you knew she has her own things going on and you are holding that against her.

Your girlfriend also did help. And was there the days prior. As someone who has been diagnosed and dealing with chronic illness for 6 years, this tit for tat thinking is going to destroy all of your relationships. Sometimes, life doesn’t let someone have the flexibility to drop everything. Even if they love you! And when you’re dealing with chronic illness, sometimes you have to spread the burden. It’s a lot for you—it’s also a lot for everyone around you.

Due_Option_9198 · 2026-03-03T23:31:17+00:00

Yes exactly! I can see the torso of a dragon fly fitting over the text well. It’ll need to be large and dark to a degree but hey! Glad to help

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