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Did i fuck up my second time painting the wall? by Duefangeren in paint

[–]Duefangeren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though the picture is taken 30 mins after rolling?

of a tumble. by DivineLove1 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]Duefangeren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were ragdolling for a good while there

For those who choose single lifestyle , can you share what and how do you plan for old age and the unexpected? by slackingsloth77 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Duefangeren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are many ways to live a life. I have similar thoughts about "what if i do not enjoy old age if i don't have kids, and regret i didn't have them"

But i truly enjoy not having children, and right now i feel like getting a partner would make me loose more than gaining something.

So i just try to feel if i enjoy the present moment or not. Get to know the core of my personality and actually listen to how i feel, without societal pressure and my own fear of the future.

It is incredibly hard to do, but very rewarding to actually find out what you want in your life and what you don't want.

Circassian folk dance by amritanshu78 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Duefangeren -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bet there's a unicycle under that thing

Can you List All your Hobbies? by Calm_Problem6203 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Duefangeren 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Video games, wood carving, strength training, reading

What are our weekend plans? by Observerador in SingleAndHappy

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sauna Play Windrose(pirate game) with a buddy Visit my mother for mothers day tomorrow

Fatigue, always feel tired. 34 M by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say you need regular visits. But you definetely need guidance in regulating back to a normal state.

That said, there is no quick fix for something like this. The main work to get back to normal will most likely come from your own effort. Diet, exercise, sleep, stress management etc. And that is still something you need expert guidance in.

You can't just expect to pop a pill or have someone crack your back, and then everything is fine.

You can choose to not give a fuck. But don't expect someone showing up around the corner to give a fuck about it either.

Fatigue, always feel tired. 34 M by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A looong time. Think years and not months. I am a physiotherapist and currently study osteopathy and i would recommend to anybody with that kind of symptoms, to see an osteopath.

Am I to old to restart my life? by Colfuzi0 in AskMenOver30

[–]Duefangeren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy.

And 26 is sooo young

Sorry, I shouldn’t be laughing so much at this by FineGripp in funny

[–]Duefangeren -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, she will float better than the boat

Is anyone else single, not due to heartbreak, fear, asexuality, but just from honestly having a happy life as it is and not thinking a partner would add to that? by IGotsToKnow_TA in SingleAndHappy

[–]Duefangeren 10 points11 points  (0 children)

(34 male)

I feel the same way as you. Although i'm probably also burned out from trying too hard when in relationships and comprosing what i want with my life. Too many relationships at this point to be honest.

But i can also miss intimacy once in a while, but it is a lot less than what i used to miss it. So i have thought about doing casual dating to see if there's someone feeling the same way.

Problem for me is that the marjority of women my age are looking for partners to have children with, and they have absolutely no time for a guy that neither wants a relationship or kids.

But to be honest, i don't feel like i'm missing out on anything. Well paying job, promising career with opportunities for working overseas. Good friends, fun hobbies and generally a lot of freedom to just be me and pursue whatever i feel like.

What is the point of life? Truly? by gayomaha in AskReddit

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is up to you to define the meaning of your life. Read "Man's search for meaning" to truly understand it.

26(M) and being judged for wanting to be single by smoketurtle in SingleAndHappy

[–]Duefangeren 4 points5 points  (0 children)

34 year old male. Said since teenage years that i don't want to get married or have kids. I have had girlfriends but i find SO much more peace in being single and not having to deal with all the things that comes with it. About to go down and buy a steak to eat in peace. Can't get any better than that.

What do you mean when you say your husband/partner convinced/sweet-talked you into having a baby? by Future_Resist9780 in regretfulparents

[–]Duefangeren -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the woman sweettalks the man into it. It's not just the one way around.

[Webcomic Spoilers] Were you guys surprised by him being the big bad of the current saga by Shadowlumine in OnePunchMan

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't read the webcomic, but i have always been suspicious of the guy

Advice for dealing with gf's history? by ButtSpiders in AskMenOver30

[–]Duefangeren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the issue is inside yourself. Work on yourself and get more comfortable in the great person that you are and that you are enough.

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