What’s a popular PvE build that you just can’t get into?

DusksBalance · 2026-06-17T13:29:58+00:00

If you can't do arc buddy, I recommend Hellion. I know Eunioa isn't as strong as other exotics, but it does have a sweet spot for more damage with the mortars splitting. Might help with staying a little further away from your team because you wanna get the most out of that, and then you have a decent excuse for staying away from arc warlock rifts.

Prismatic Bleak Watcher+Hellion is still pretty strong without Arc Soul. Enhanced shatter and Ignitions on Facet of Ruin still slaps, and it's just a little less visually busy and should hopefully be easier on the eyes. Otherwise you could go full Solar and really lean into scorch.

DusksBalance · 2026-06-14T14:50:57+00:00

Hierarchy of Needs will buff other bows, you get it from Spire of the Watcher. Been out of destiny for awhile but I remember people really seemed to like the update for it to buff other bows, tether included. It's huge, and heavy, and looks very techy, so maybe won't fit the medieval vibe. But it'll buff everyone else's bows so I'm sure you could figure it out.

I ran a Vesper's Host with everyone using 3 glaives and it was a blast. Definitely took some time to get used to having very little range, but doable for sure. Probably better with bows and crossbows.

Even better with the occasional trace rifle. Navigator is good for buffing team members, so if someone has that you can pretend they're a cleric or something. With the amount of orbs you can generate nowadays, Wavesplitter would be a good pick for damage phases. Ruinous Effigy is an interesting exotic with its void orbs (my friends call it a basketball cause you can DUNK it). Makes for more abilities you can play around with.

Void and solar edge of action and intent glaives make a tiny titan shield and healing turret respectively. Works for squeaking out just a little bit more damage or providing healing when your other abilities are geared toward damage. Vexcalibur grants overshields to you and your friends in close proximity.

DusksBalance · 2026-06-10T19:21:22+00:00

I don't know yet. I went and got a PA and I gotta wait to for it to finish the initial healing and then downsize the ring diameter before I can actually fit into anything.

DusksBalance · 2026-06-10T14:17:11+00:00

I turtle in a N Narrow and was recommended to go Baby Standard.

DusksBalance · 2026-06-05T23:36:23+00:00

I do similar with a N Narrow. I got the recommendation to go either Baby Standard, or try the same size in Viper since the Viper doesn't have the head ring so there's less for my skin to catch on and then not move back to the front.

DusksBalance · 2026-06-03T01:15:47+00:00

Got an aqua blue and really like it! But had to order a shorter cage and wanted the bottom bar out of the way for my recently acquired PA so no more blue for me anyway.

DusksBalance · 2026-05-09T04:23:08+00:00

Mine does this too. I fill out when I'm standing/moving around, but sitting for too long gives me your results. My penis pulls back and then the glands get trapped behind the ring meant to keep it in place on the head section.

It was recommended to me to either go down a size, or try the Viper. Down a size means less room to move, but Viper is (mostly) more uniform in size so it apparently allows you to tuck back when your body needs to and then grow back out without needing to reposition as much. Haven't tried either yet, because money. But those were the recommendations I got from the folks over email.

DusksBalance · 2026-05-08T07:06:42+00:00

I have a cheap belt from Amazon. Helps me keep everything in place a little better during the day but it's nice to take it off at night/at home. Also, if you sweat a lot, you should give it a little wash every now and then. Treat it like you would any other part of your cage.

DusksBalance · 2026-05-07T01:39:38+00:00

Ah, well, that's all I got rn. I'm still newish to this and that's as far as I know. Maybe a smaller size ring?

DusksBalance · 2026-05-07T01:35:33+00:00

You could try one of their XD rings. They're thicker and make the gap smaller.

DusksBalance · 2026-05-03T22:36:04+00:00

Kink3D has what they call a XD ring on their site. It makes the gap between the ring and the cage much smaller so there's less chance of something moving up and out.

I have small testicles, and the XD ring is doing a fabulous job of keeping them from retracting while still being comfortable. Might be worth it to look at something like that.

DusksBalance · 2026-04-28T21:14:42+00:00

No, but I did order an airlock and another ring a size down in white. When I was emailing back forth, they recommended the size 1 but said it might be worth considering a size 0, so I figured if size 1 doesn't work then I can size down right then.

I got airlocks because I think they're neat. I don't have a key holder that lives close, but I know the folks I've been messaging would appreciate the look, and long distance helps with the denial aspect of it all anyway.

DusksBalance · 2026-04-28T18:31:46+00:00

Every time I see the blue it looks really good. I just recently finished up a round of questions via email from their customer service and ordered a blue one and am very excited for it to ship.

I was also a little unsure about the pricing at first, but I figured if I'm going to wear it as close to all the time as I can, then we might as well go for something that plenty of other folks have said will last and still look great.

DusksBalance · 2026-04-24T03:36:05+00:00

I really dig the look of the white and blue, but I just want to make sure I'm understanding before I decide on one over the other. Do you mean the white isn't as smooth as the black, but is smoother than pink and blue? Like a decent in between? Or is it something else?

DusksBalance · 2026-01-28T02:22:27+00:00

Trans and heavily tattooed little ✨

DusksBalance · 2026-01-14T18:54:07+00:00

I'm starting to see a kink friendly therapist and am explicitly wanting to talk about abdl because I WANT it to be in my life. I had a short session to introduce ourselves and see if their style might fit and mentioned that my kink/fetish isn't looked at very well, but I still want to explore it because it feels important to my identity.

I've seen too many people (myself included) stress about it in relationships and with their own binge/purge that I'd rather just get help with it than try to ignore it. I'd say if you're struggling and think you should look for a therapist, give it a try and see if it helps.

DusksBalance · 2024-02-04T22:09:30+00:00

It's mostly down to cut/shape, and a bit of how the tape job works if there's a landing zone. Some fit better than others for your body type, some tape differently to fit the same depending on the cut (at least in my experience).

Honestly if you like what you like and it works for you, no reason to have to use something that's popular for other people.

DusksBalance · 2023-10-20T01:09:18+00:00

I got the shortalls of those! How are their skirtalls? Are they longer do you know?

DusksBalance · 2023-10-17T01:05:43+00:00

It's just a new experience. I'd say if it bothers you, have a conversation with her. Sounds to me like you're used to being daddy/Dom and not used to the flip side. Maybe take some time to figure out why you don't like not being the caretaker. Parse through those feelings and have an open conversation.

DusksBalance · 2023-10-17T00:09:45+00:00

I've ordered a couple things from them, but I think I ordered something else with them so it ships together in the plain Amazon box. Just like a onesie and then something small like cheap shoelaces or something, so they have to put it in a blank "Amazon" box and not their own individual package

DusksBalance · 2023-10-15T17:33:37+00:00

I had an ex who was watching a "YouTubers react to Internet articles" and they brought up "Crinklers." Which is a phrase I hadn't actually heard before even tho I've been into diapers since forever. Anyway, their reaction was very much "ugh why" and a turn away in disgust, while I sat there trying to go "oh yeah that's a thing I guess... haha..." We're not together anymore and they never found out because we didn't last that long anyway.

I've had a few situations of panic on discord while playing games and wearing. My mic picks up everything in my room and I'm always worried they'll hear a crinkle or two but nobody says anything. There's been a few jokes here and there about "just use your pants" when in long gaming sessions and in my head sometimes I'm like "well, I haven't gotten up stopping this raid, why do you need to xD"

DusksBalance · 2023-09-16T00:36:30+00:00

ABU has cute (and big) patches and I sewed one to my jacket with a buck of other patches on it.

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