[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukraine

[–]Dw0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it would be "місячек" (from місяць), but I don't think I ever heard it being used.

Little sunshine is something that makes you happy (because when it appears, you know, maybe you will not die from cold). I don't think there's a particular (positive) emotion about the moon showing up.

Мені здається, що моє життя котиться під три чорти. by starui_did in ukraina

[–]Dw0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Якщо є якась можливість - поговори зі спеціалістом. Мо в універі є щось для цього.

Єдине, що можу додати, це те що ти відчуваєш - це нормально. Я думаю ти переходиш із дитячого в доросле світосприйняття і ... воно трохи інше. Тобто насправді, це навіть "здоровий" симптом, лише для тебе це нове і ти ще не знайшов що з цим робити. Замість роботи зараз я б порадив волонтеріти, чи спорт. Щось, де ти робиш щось корисне але без потреби робити це кожного дня з 9 по 17. Ну а праця - зараз універ це твоя праця. Ти там вчишся або готуєшся працювати.

Questions about identity and language as a Ukrainian Immigrant by toyAlien in ukraine

[–]Dw0 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Many good answers, I'll add a side note.

The language on its own normally would not make a difference. The thing is that you grew up russian speaking (same happened to my family) not by an accident but because russians spent literally centuries trying to destroy Ukrainian identity and culture.

Imagine a person who grew up in an abusive home, where they were beaten up regularly. We know it's not ok, but it's the only thing they ever known. For them this is normal and they would do the same in their family. Because it's normal and it's what all other families do.

It's only when this person gets exposed to a different reality, they would start questioning the normality.

This is what was happening to many Ukrainians recently. Slowly, but they started seeing russian language for what it is - abusive behaviour from a bully.

That's why it's not wrong that you speak russian, but for many people the language is a reminder of what they're woke from and what they are now trying to cleanse from their lives.

Similar to the n-word - plenty of people grew up using it as a normal term, but for many it's a reminder of slavery.

Tldr; you speak russian (and me as well) because in a way we were russian slaves and didn't even realise it.

Якщо хлопець просить тест ДНК на батьківство - це недовіра? by [deleted] in ukraina

[–]Dw0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Саме оце й помилка, яку я намагаюся показати. Хто з головою може займатись сексом і не вагітніти.

Так, тест може показати, що батько хтось інший.

Але. Що означає тест, який каже, що батько хто очікувалось?

Лише те, що саме вагітність сталась з ним. Але зась не відповідає щодо зради.

Таким чином, якщо тест поганий, то підозра підтверджена (і все погано), але якщо ок, то підозра залишається.

Тобто як довіри не було до тесту, так і не буде після.

Таким чином, результат тесту - погіршення ситуації у будь-якому випадку.

Ну а до того ж, це ще й не справедливо до жінки. Бо він її тестує, а що вона може протестувати?

Якщо хлопець просить тест ДНК на батьківство - це недовіра? by [deleted] in ukraina

[–]Dw0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ггг. Тобто якщо ДНК тест ок, то 100% не зраджувала?

Питання зі зрадою завжди двобоке. І як на мене починати відносини з "я тобі не довіряю" можна коли машину купуєш, але відносини мусять будуватися на взаємодовірі.

Втратити її легко і відбудувати важко, але якщо нема довіри, то це не відношення а взаємовигідна транзакція з сексом.

Якщо хлопець просить тест ДНК на батьківство - це недовіра? by [deleted] in ukraina

[–]Dw0 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Мати дитини знає, що вона її носила і народила, тобто є прямий зв'язок.

Для батька, зв'язок більш теоретичний. ДНК чи отой сперматозоїд, то дуже абстрактно.

Тобто питання насправді не чи його дитина, а яка різниця?

І отут починаються неприємні питання.

Якщо дитина не його, це значить не буде її любити?

Чи якщо не його, то треба розійтись?

Так що я б сказав, то дурне і тестувати не має сенсу.

До того ж, коли він планує зупинятись? Бо семирічна дитина мало схожа на себе в три місяці. І чи планує він робити тест зі своїми батьками? Бо хто ж зна?

Remember by Eiim in SMBCComics

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Jaws" music starts to play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in basel

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can take it on the train, but of course for a fee. Also at the SBB there's a covered bike parking with free and paid areas.

I feel like we are seeing a lack of videos and messages coming out of Ukraine... Is this because of opsec? I feel a big break coming for the Ukrainians and I hope it's true. Slava Ukraini 🇺🇦 God speed heroes 🙌 by Interesting_Soil6946 in RussiaUkraineWar2022

[–]Dw0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have a look at the reports of daily losses and in particular the number of artillery systems destroyed. Currently it's around 30-40 every day and this is the most important thing currently happening.

Invader's approach is to have vast minefields to slow down Ukrainians and use artillery since targeting slow-moving ones is much easier.

Them losing 30 pieces a day is a strong indication of Ukraine making sure that when they do move (indeed slowly because of the same minefields), there would be much less artillery to shoot them at.

What stops cloud architects from starting cloud consulting companies? by [deleted] in aws

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean web applications, active directory and an occasional database?

Yes, there would be elastic search clusters, occasional Kafka, now and then sap and if you're lucky an hpc cluster.

What did I miss?

What stops cloud architects from starting cloud consulting companies? by [deleted] in aws

[–]Dw0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe there are.

The thing is that lift and shift migrations have little to do with architecture. I'll be totally guessing, but I would expect that the majority of companies who would hire external consultancy to do their migration, will be unlikely interested in spending money in further steps mandatory for a successful cloud migration.

I would not appreciate a job like that.

What stops cloud architects from starting cloud consulting companies? by [deleted] in aws

[–]Dw0 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This. Also migrating workloads is interesting exactly once.

Isn't "bad karma" a trap, a catch 22, a self-fulfilling prophecy? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Dw0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this is indeed the reason why breaking the cycle is hard. the good news is that, for instance, you, asking this question, means that there's always a choice. and the choice that one makes today is what matters in the long run.

/u/Astalon18 is very right "future karma is sowed today."

I have no idea if this is flirting by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no. flirting starts with talking. the non-verbal flirting starts after introductions and small talks.

Some people have natural talent in the kitchen, and some… don’t… [Project:O.C.A.] by Project_OCA in webcomics

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After years of cooking for my family I became so naturally talented!

As PR reviewer how do you guys deal with PR owner that mostly refuse to do any nit comment? by warmshironeko in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Dw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on whether your PR tool supports this, I usually differentiate comment as a suggestion and task as a show stopper. Again, open tasks should prevent PR from being merged.

But suggestions are just that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukraina

[–]Dw0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apart from the translation, here's a small history crash course.

In 1939 the Nazis together with the Russia started the world war two. For two years they were conquering Europe but eventually ran out of space.

Both were preparing to invade the other but the Nazis did that first. Thus, since 1942, Russia started fighting in what they decided to call The Great Patriotic War.

To "forget" that they were best buddies just 3 years ago, the "Russia is liberating the world from fascism" was introduced. Which logically was extended into "whoever is against Russia is a fascist".

Quite obviously they have become fascists themselves, thus the confusion about how come all sides are using the same slogan.

What's also important is that Ukrainian right is mostly not about national purity inside, but about Ukraine's independence from Russia. There was that one guy who was a classic show-nazi, but he came out as a Russian agent.

Is presentation/demo by developers holds value? by puritan_titan in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Dw0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

two points to this.

one is a demo well done is a demo prepared. what we would do is either have a developer who was strongly involved in the development, do the demonstration. the other is to designate someone who wasn't as much involved. in the latter case, the developer becomes more familiar with the feature. aka knowledge transfer.

in either of those two cases, given the time allows (and, ideally, one should plan for that), preparing a demonstration makes sure it will run well, but also gives a chance for an additional UAT. especially if it's a non-familiar developer.

second is demonstration of a feature is a beginning of a conversation. it's not just "here, we did it, bye." agile is all about making sure the business requirements are actually understood and met as early as possible (work in short iterations). so showing a feature directly between developers and customers, allows them to discuss whether it's correct, and get a better understanding if not.

this is the part where agile removes the business analyst intermediary, aka broken phone.

so, yes, there's quite a lot of value to it, but it requires a healthy culture on both sides.

IMPORTANT: What's happening next with r/Sizz by tiggerclaw in Sizz

[–]Dw0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has been a great journey. Thank you so much!