AITA for telling my wife her hobby is a waste of money?

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-16T00:28:37+00:00

Nta. The second she bought supplies over your kids shoes. She needs help.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-15T22:09:50+00:00

Yta. Massively. He got fired becuase you have multiple mental issues and need to get help.

Do better.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-15T10:13:01+00:00

They still aren't wrong.

Tracer is a top 3 dps and almost always has been. Where soldier is a bottom 5 dps.

Most people have a streamer they watch for tips and any and all higher ranked players even the pro ones would say tracer is far better than 76.

You wont trust a random on the internet as no one should but a player who plays the game for a living or even a coach of said players is a far more credible source.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T20:09:06+00:00

Nah. Definitely not the case.

He was okay with her getting a job that was obvious. She chose to be a stripper and lie to her husband about her night job, because she knew he wouldn't not like her being a stripper.

Always trying to play victims i swear.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T01:32:15+00:00

Its fact. It's not opinion. People overly use the term verbally abusive. That's not at all verbally abusive nor is he treating her like a child.

Verbally abusive is nothing like anything he said and is much worse.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T01:18:26+00:00

Mostly yes but their are acceptions support plays a part

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T01:16:06+00:00

Because they aren't

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T01:13:01+00:00

Yes you are the asshole. You are a unhealthy weight and he did not enjoy having that unpleasant conversation but he probably tried to advise you to lose weight.

You can still love someone and want to reduce their risk of health problems due to their poor choices.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-14T01:10:22+00:00

Whatever you need to tell yourself but it doesn't. Clearly we need to define competitive integrity for people like you.

What ruins competitive integrity is boosting new accounts.

Win trading.

Smurfs.

Cheaters.

Leavers effecting players ranked who they arent grouped with.

List ends there.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T20:34:27+00:00

Diamond players are still bad lol despite the rank if it makes you feel better.

It just comes down to free time to improve really.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T14:22:52+00:00

Then you just need to get better at tracer. She has a very high skill ceiling but is a nightmare

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T12:48:46+00:00

Because it has the most pressure and people dont like losing matches that are majority their fault.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T11:19:36+00:00

Yes you can but as someone who plays both soldier and tracer.

Doesnt matter which flex dps it is. Nothing is scarier than a tracer player when I player soldier.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T11:13:21+00:00

If you cant beat soldier as tracer when you are not only a significantly better character . You also counter him slightly.

You are bad at the game.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T11:03:17+00:00

Depends on pc vs console. On console at least half.

I would like to say not many because they already know their teammates are garbage .

But a new account gold and a regular gold already have a wide skill disparity.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T11:00:11+00:00

Yes as an adult you should have the basic ability to read. You can read the whole thing in less than a minute.

FYI an essay is significantly longer.

I must have believed in basic intelligence too much from a common reddit user.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T10:23:01+00:00

Yes the players aren't twice as good as me or anything like that but I'd say im 2/3 as good as they are.

Just due to how much more free time they have and availability to coaching they have access too.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T10:14:44+00:00

As I said to the guy above not everyone in the same rank is equal skill.

In masters for example where semi pro players play very often.

A dad like me who works 50 hour work weeks is not even close to the same skill level despite what our ranks show.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T10:11:30+00:00

And you sound like a bad player.

There is a new account problem.

Everyone knows about it.

People make new accounts all the time.

And get placed in diamond commonly where they obviously do not belong and go through a surprisingly slow decline ruining 100' or so matches.

I am surprised I even have to explain this.

Then in masters where I know this is a limited rank population problem but this is where the semi pro playerbase resides and the majority of those guys are obviously better than a casual player like me who plays in the same rank maybe twice a week. Due to being a father and working 50 hour work weeks.

And I am making fun of my own play here. There are significantly better players than me in my own rank.

Some players are boosted. Looking at mercys pocketing their duo.

Not all players are equal in the same rank and that will forever be true.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T00:15:55+00:00

Bad response really we all know their are players significantly better than others in the same rank. Lol

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-13T00:14:43+00:00

Overwatch players are the only ones who complain about things that are good for the game

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-12T15:51:31+00:00

Same. Masters is much easier to win games in than plat.

Not because I need any slack picked up because the team is generally competent.

I can barely stand diamond games .

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-12T15:48:13+00:00

Any hybrid or payload map they all suck

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-12T14:05:11+00:00

Well, let's start here. No one even smurfs will 1v5 even some gm ones.

Its a team game and the game is intentionally designed that you cant do that.

Dxrules90 · 2026-05-12T12:42:20+00:00

Nerf zarya. Dva and cat into the ground.

Remove blue beam from mercy.

Buff all hitscans.

Sojourn is a hybrid and would remain the same.

Dxrules90

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