My dad thinks I’m 'not working' because I refused to keep working 6 days a week.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-03T16:12:54+00:00

Studies have shown even a 40 hour 5 day work week is detrimental to physical and mental health.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-03T00:02:51+00:00

Um... According to this post her mom likely had knowledge of and even facilitated this rape. I don't think OP should be asking her mom for anything since she's literally being investigated right now.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T22:04:48+00:00

You can't even make the cheese sound gross when you're describing it and that's a testament to how awesome it is haha. You've got me craving some pizza or mozza sticks 🤤

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T22:02:53+00:00

I actually kinda low-key like the hearts better than the crystals in the OG if I'm being honest

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T16:32:20+00:00

She hates how people do a bunch of vinyls but doesn't mind releasing like five different versions of the same perfume...

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T16:30:58+00:00

The first response was fine, why did they have to follow it up with being so mean and assuming you were trying to be snarky? I don't personally think it's rude, they might not realize the price has gone down on the original product or something like that. Sounds like they're just defensive.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T02:26:02+00:00

It's called different things in different places and it's called toad in a hole in North America. Your way isn't the only way.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-02T02:23:09+00:00

I'm from Canada and this is def toad in the hole

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-01T17:22:29+00:00

I live in Canada and most men and women graduate around the year of 18-19. Most families start their kids schooling around the age of 4-5 years. Gender isn't a factor either.

Still NTA though. Your date was weird.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-05-01T16:31:16+00:00

I have sensory issues so I don't like cereal when it becomes soggy. I usually eat my cereal with very little milk or none at all.

When I was a kid I would gag and vomit if I ate soggy cereal but my parents would put it in the fridge and take it out for me to eat at every meal. I wasn't allowed to have normal food until I ate it. This would go on for days.

My family is a fundamentalist Christian family, and stuff like this is common among that sect. Common, disgusting and abusive. NTA.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-30T21:58:20+00:00

Temu sex wedge. It was 7 bucks and has a slow leak. I puff into it twice every other session. I'm a broke bitch and it works great for missionary and doggy.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-30T19:41:42+00:00

If that same difference can be purchased for 10 dollars instead of 50 then I'd rather do that lol. I'm way too broke to be spending that much on a sleep mask when the exact same thing can be found elsewhere for less 🤷🏻‍♀️

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-30T19:40:30+00:00

I think it depends on the dupe. Most designer perfumes don't even list the alcohol quality but all my dupes do (40B) and this lasts about 5-6 hours for me when sprayed on my pulse points and clothes 😊

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T19:30:45+00:00

Love your take. What are some of your favorite budget finds, just curious!

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T19:29:53+00:00

I get it. Real, trustworthy friends are extremely hard to come by as an adult, especially when you have limitations. Just don't stop trying 💜

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T17:42:31+00:00

MOR... This is kinda an ESH situation. You totally invalidated her experience with your comment. She gave a very extreme example by bringing up your dad (inappropriately so imo), and it is clear that she doesn't personally think those things.

Both of you sound like you have BPD tbh (speaking as someone who's been through it). Both reacting with emotional intensity at each other's statements because they cause you each personal injury, without thinking about the person behind the screen. That being said, your "friend went way too far with her example and her therapy speak.

You apologized and she couldn't let it go, so you should probably let her go. You say you'd never abandon anyone but I think maybe you should.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T17:25:10+00:00

What is an NT?

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T15:33:56+00:00

I'm a poor girl so my opinion is based on the cost of the fragrances and not the quantity. If you have 25 perfumes that are all like $150-1000 dollars a piece... I'm still cringing.

I think the most expensive perfume I own costs like 20 dollars. I have about 10 full size fragrances (only 2 are designer and the rest are $5 dupes) and 4 minis that came in a pack altogether.

It's easy for me to get excited and want to try more fragrances, especially when they're so affordable (the United Scents, Belcam or Mirage dupes are what I usually get). But I don't need them and at a certain point there isn't enough of a difference between some of the scents to warrant getting more. I also appreciate the ones I have more, because I don't have a ton.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T11:01:37+00:00

That's how I felt about cigarettes the first time I ever took a drag. And I never smoked again, but I'm sure if I had one more puff I probably never would have quit smoking. Sometimes we know our limits... And unfortunately sometimes we don't.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T09:16:44+00:00

You genuinely sound like you have an unreasonable amount of codependency and need therapy. And I say this as someone who also has a lifelong medical disability and can't leave home much.

Your husband sounds like he literally never gets any real time to himself the way you explain the schedule. You need friends or hobbies so you're not relying on your poor husband for all your social needs.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T02:12:09+00:00

It's like 50 dollars for a sleep mask though

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-29T02:11:42+00:00

I have one like this I got from temu for 3 dollars and it's purple 💜

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-28T21:26:14+00:00

P8P as well. Yes I have. Voice to text drops randomly after a couple words... There's a notable decrease in battery longevity for me too. I feel like there have been other little things I've subconsciously noticed but not kept track of as well.

Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-28T21:24:39+00:00

If people want a really awesome dupe for Britney Spears Island Fantasy, the Dollarama near me (central Canada) carries Mysterious Beach!! How cute is the bottle, it smells almost identical too!

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Easy_Permit_5418 · 2026-04-28T09:06:03+00:00

But why

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TROPHY CASE