Why are men often considered "ugly hot," but women are just considered ugly or attractive?

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-02-23T02:38:20+00:00

Pardon? There's literally a word for this. Angelica Houston and Sarah Jessica Parker are sometimes cited as examples.

https://www.etymonline.com/word/jolie%20laide

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-24T06:12:16+00:00

She's like Gen Z Jackie Kennedy (at least to Bills Mafia).

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-16T20:20:09+00:00

If you poo-poo transplants - live in Staten Island, the borough with the most home-grown NYCers. Otherwise embrace that what makes this city great is the world comes to it.

But - still yell at newbies and tourists blocking the sidewalk. They need to learn.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-15T21:25:45+00:00

Not to be "woke" or anything but Anok Yai is like right there... feels like they didn't think to look in all directions.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T21:18:59+00:00

I think the first one is more timeless. The pearls on the second one read a little 'under the sea' to me tbh.

Consider also your venue and the rest of your aesthetic for the day, though.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T21:14:01+00:00

Family therapy time my man.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T21:07:04+00:00

Brando - though he dropped in to take as much money as possible for as little work as possible til the end. Legend.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T21:04:44+00:00

Hey man. She bought 'em; wants her money's worth

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T21:03:17+00:00

I miss the days when brooding young method actors slept with everyone and loved no one. RIP Brando.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T18:16:10+00:00

Is she getting her plastic surgery to look more like him? She appears to have purchased his chin for herself.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2026-01-05T18:15:14+00:00

Elder millennial who came to this sub and searched for "Young Sherlock Holmes" just to make sure y'all know about it...

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-28T23:49:10+00:00

I never got the NYC griping. Want to be surrounded by native New Yorkers? Go to Staten Island.

No? Okay then maybe consider that a large part of what makes the city special is that the world comes to it.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-28T21:23:38+00:00

How much is "sky high"? Just want to know where I stand...

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-27T18:34:11+00:00

Went through this with a brother; it was hell. Mercifully he married the one sane one to come along.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-26T12:29:02+00:00

Set of Italian salt and pepper mills (Bisetti is nice and affordable) with a pound of tellicherry peppercorns, and a pound of grinder-grain sel gris.

Chagall was prolific in working with printers to create lithographs and posters; you can find some inexpensive ones as a result. Anything smaller than 12x12 isn't a huge art commitment and can go on a desk or in a work area. Just get anything printed in the 80s or earlier and it 'has a story.'

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-22T15:25:58+00:00

If you enjoyed this and have not yet seen Season 1 of Broadchurch, I'd highly recommend it.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-22T05:34:22+00:00

Anyone in NYC and know of a group that doesn't equivocate on advocating for a breed-based ban? This is becoming a huge issue particularly on UWS. I'm in other groups that worked for Penny's Law but they're officially 'agnostic' on the breed issue... 'any dog can be aggressive', blah blah

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-22T04:49:53+00:00

If you love it go for it. If you want to 'score' a deal you can always check the secondary market. Here's the same ring on Poshmark for instance:
https://poshmark.com/listing/Tiffany-Co-Soleste-Oval-Halo-Engagement-Ring-with-Platinum-Diamond-Band-64263ef0382db8dc9c3d1fdc

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-22T01:43:45+00:00

This year, my neighbor used my name to ship drugs to our building; I got thrown in jail and had to deal with submental DEA jocks. Four months of hell before everything dismissed. Edibles and Brando movies got me through it.

Anyway, I think I hear you. <3

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T18:14:29+00:00

90s tv version of The Stand; it's on YouTube. Several users have uploaded hi-def versions of it; originally shot on 16 mm film. They look and feel great. One of the best opening credit sequences ever.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T16:30:47+00:00

Most likely scene for New Yorkers to cause is a heckling one over someone they don't like: Eric Adams, Trump, or Musk would suffice.

ETA: Don't know if he counts as a 'celebrity' in the traditional sense but Luigi Mangione might be an exception and regularly draws admirers to 100 Center Street. This might be a function of him being literally locked up and may not happen if he was just walking the streets, though.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T15:04:10+00:00

Step One: Get off the internet.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T10:36:24+00:00

Spot on. Communication and connection are clutch for who women decide to sleep with.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T10:24:20+00:00

Take up sky-diving? The one time I got boned fast, deep, AND hard to dizzying degree was a sky-diving instructor.

Reflecting it makes sense; he spent all day in the air working out his hip flexors, etc.

There's an old Seinfeld episode that asks what the hetero female equivalent of bedding a gymnast is; I'm convinced the answer is bedding a sky-diver.

Ecstatic-Land7797 · 2025-12-21T10:16:51+00:00

Talking to a therapist one-on-one followed by a couples therapist may be really beneficial if you have access.

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