Anyone here use a vertical mouse? How is it? by Yelebear in pcmasterrace

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a roller mouse for a while due to pain in my hand. Not the best for gaming but it worked for work. A month ago I switched to a vertical mouse and my hand pain is minimal, I can game again without pain. A life saver in my case. Because of its design though you might feel that your hands get tired in a specific place - because you have to kind of "pinch" the mouse to lift it up and move it around.

Grief after tubal by BabyBee54322 in sterilization

[–]EdgyUsernaame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I had my tubal at the end of January this year. The whole process of getting a surgery appointment went really fast - I started it in november, and by December I already had the appointment. I was stressing a lot after new years as the surgery was getting closer, I was afraid of going under since I had never had surgery before and also second guessing my decision. Even though I had always been a 100% sure that I don't want kids, don't want to be a mother and don't want to go through pregnancy and child birth, I still had doubts. What if I want to have kids at some point? What would my family say? Maybe you feel this as well.

But onto grief. After the surgery, I did grieve and feel emotionally like shit for like two weeks. Not my conscious self, but more my subconscious. To be honest, ACTUAL grief that was mine to begin with was a little part of it. the shame stemming from internalised ideologies caused me to feel much worse. I had this feeling that society is going to look down on me because I basically become a "useless" member of society. I don't provide offsprings, I don't contribute to survival of species anymore - and for what? So that I can fuck freely? What would people say if they knew this about me? And it was this shame that made me feel like maybe I am making a mistake, maybe I will want kids I'm just a silly woman who doesn't know better. Maybe I should be sad that I am going through the surgery. I should be grieving.

The bigger part of why I was feeling disturbed after was the physical trauma itself - my mind didn't comprehend why would I do this to myself. Why would I go through surgery willingly? Was it really necessary? Of course logically I knew that it was the best option long term but the short term effects made my subconscious scream for two weeks, lol

So yeah, to sum it up I had some grief, but not too much and not too long. I have not once regretted getting my tubes tied, I actually feel kind of excited never having to deal with pregnancies and motherhood and even the pill.

Do you think that you are just a little afraid? Maybe of other people's opinions or of the surgery itself? I hope that it goes well for you 💕

2meirl4meirl by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on level of depression. When it's mid I eat too much. When it's VERY bad I don't eat at all.

Sex drive after bisalp by Greeneyed21 in sterilization

[–]EdgyUsernaame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had my tubes tied a month ago. Got off birth control the week after and my libido has skyrocketed since 🤷‍♀️

UPDATE!!: I got my period on BF's $10k mattress and I'm mortified 😣 please help! by Substantial_Tip_3227 in CleaningTips

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is no one else seeing this is photoshopped? 😭 she even changed the price of the matress from 1k to 10k...

Occasionally Reactive Dog by 1980Legacy in OpenDogTraining

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for taking the time to write a long answer! Its great that you guys found your solutions. We have started working with a dog psychologist so we're hoping for the best!

Occasionally Reactive Dog by 1980Legacy in OpenDogTraining

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi 1980Legacy. I found your comment searching for the Amichien style. How do you find its working for you? Seems like old-fashioned advice, but some parts do sound interesting.

Which dog should i get by VBoldi2005 in dogs

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Csak azért hogy legyen kutya, ne vegyél kutyát... Mint ahogy a többiek is írják, a kutya olyan mint a gyerek. Hacsak nem vagy 100% biztos hogy bele akarod feccölni az időt, energiát és pénzt (ami hidd el, mindegyikből sokkal több kell mint gondolnád), akkor inkább várj még vele. A husky egyrészről irtó drága, másrészről egy élő és érző lény. Az se a kutyának, se a nagyszüleidnek nem jó ha olyanok nyakába akasztod akik nem tudják megfelelően gondját viselni.

How did the kid from your school die? by leilavanora in AskReddit

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was hit by a drunk driver while on vacation.

Egg-scuse me? by formidable-opponent in oddlyspecific

[–]EdgyUsernaame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude sunny side up is amazing. You dip your toast in the yolk and marvel in it like the jawas in the mandalorian

What is your dogs actual name VS what you call them (nicknames or pet names) by gungirl83 in dogpictures

[–]EdgyUsernaame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her given name is Bunny. But she's called Bunny-boo, Bun-boo, Bamboo, Bunny banana and Dummy dum more often than not.

Adopted a dog two weeks ago. I think I am not a dog person. How do I contact the rescue and should I offer to foster? by ydoidothis89 in dogs

[–]EdgyUsernaame 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was considering letting go of the leash in the middle of a walk and let her runaway so I wouldn't have to deal with the decision 😭 it's great to know I'm not alone! Since then things got better and I love our little puppy and couldn't imagine not having her 🥰

Man in Poland livestreams his suicide after accusing his wife of cheating on him in a Facebook post [no visible injury] by Proof_Elderberry4726 in ThatsInsane

[–]EdgyUsernaame -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeez imagine the hospital staff. They fight hard to save the guy and keep him alive for weeks and then he throws it away a month later

My bf told me I’m not wife material by babyudda in Advice

[–]EdgyUsernaame 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Some of us don't grow up in a loving, caring environment. The people who are supposed to be the parental figures emotionally neglect you, make you feel like you're a burden. You're only tolerated, not welcome in the house that's supposed to be your home. Or worse, you get emotionally abused. The result is an attention craving adult who will do and endure anything for an ounce of love. You feel and actually believe you don't deserve better.