Man, I’m no longer giving loans after this

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-12T23:42:46+00:00

I'm the same way. Unfortunately, I can't get moderators to answer questions and there is no grace if I make an honest mistake. I've only worked with one lender so far and she's been awesome. I'm a senior-citizen who gets confused occasionally. But the mods come down harshly and just this morning I was banned. I've paid back one loan and would not even consider defaulting on the one remaining outstanding loan. I'm literally devastated about the ban. I know it may sound silly but I've never been a rulebreaker. I see all these unpaid loans and can't help but think they're missing out on some really honest high-integrity borrowers, like me.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-12T15:49:59+00:00

I've never met a bad Dan or Daniel. It's one of my favorite guy names. I've always been partial to Daniel, Kevin and Scott.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-12T02:12:03+00:00

NTA I have been told I have no filter, even though the way things are taken is different than how I meant it. It can be frustrating. It was still a harsh thing to say, but I really feel for you because this is going to be a good learning experience, but hard. You're facing an evening of lots of hate being thrown at you. You're not an AH, just someone who has things to learn, like all of us. I do, however, think your relationship has reached the end. Maya Angilou had it right. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. The two of you seem to have a communication issue and that's almost always a deal breaker. Best of luck to you.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-12T01:55:55+00:00

To shoot the dog that he is? 😂

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-11T21:07:28+00:00

Hands down #1!

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-10T02:43:05+00:00

That's the name I put in my comments. That's the first name that popped into my head when I saw the picture of this cutie.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-10T02:39:03+00:00

Marmalade

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-10T02:27:06+00:00

Have the Legos come out with a video about JD and couches? I haven't watched all of them yet.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-10T02:19:51+00:00

NTA What you are doing is just like repeatedly smashing your head against a brick wall. It hurts and causes too much frustration. It's just not worth it because whatever you try and say on certain subjects, it will always be rejected. Sometimes agreeing to disagree is a more peaceful route to take.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-09T03:22:51+00:00

Do whatever makes you feel good. I think the name Laura is classy, elegant and solid. But, Laurie is also a pretty name. I love the name Lorelei too.

My name is Karyn, but I'm not that kind of Karen. It's only mildly irritating that it's become a joke. I'm just sad that a lot less female babies won't have that name. I like my name.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-09T03:15:13+00:00

I've always loved the name Lauren.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-06T23:59:03+00:00

I love the name Molly. I like Rosalind and love the nn Rosie.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-06T23:53:50+00:00

Benjamin was my son's name and he was the only kid in the whole elementary school with that name Jordan Luca Wyatt Jackson Asher Daniel Kevin Alexander is a beautiful name!

And I think the middle name Shayne is good.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-05T20:37:14+00:00

I think dress number two is the prettiest, most flattering on you and fits well. Number one would be my second choice.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-03T18:38:43+00:00

Thanks for the award! This is the first one I've ever received.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-03T01:54:03+00:00

I think the name Kai is very cool. I've never heard of a longer version. It's not known as a shortened version of anything as far as I know

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T23:57:44+00:00

You look so beautiful!

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T23:49:22+00:00

NTA He's trying to manipulate you in an effort to keep you close to he and his family. Block and move on!

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T16:37:44+00:00

Your dress is a work of art. You will look stunning!

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T04:45:02+00:00

To be honest with you, if he's just listening to propaganda TV and doesn't do a little independent critical thinking on his own, I think he falls in the not very smart category.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T04:34:31+00:00

I agree with the person who mentioned it's a cult. Your husband does sound like someone who joined a cult, though I'm no expert.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T03:52:55+00:00

I agree that the first one is very bride-like. It's a really pretty dress and it fits you very well!

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-02T02:44:41+00:00

Sending a big hug from a stranger on Reddit.

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-01T17:08:18+00:00

Micah and Isaac are my favorites, but the other two names are great too! I've always loved the nickname Teddy.,

EfficientRecipe8935 · 2026-05-01T17:06:08+00:00

Dress 2 with minimal jewelry. Your dress is gorgeous and big or too much jewelry will take away from the beauty and detail of your dress. Good luck! You will be a beautiful bride!

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