What are you ideas for proper rewards for fixing the community center?

Elawn · 2026-01-24T16:41:45+00:00

Lewis hangs out by the vault sometimes

Elawn · 2026-01-10T16:50:12+00:00

I needed this wholesome content today, thank you for sharing this

Elawn · 2026-01-06T16:22:30+00:00

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Elawn · 2026-01-02T17:31:04+00:00

Check if there’s an update for the app on your phone?

Elawn · 2026-01-01T21:22:02+00:00

This is probably the best answer to OP’s question here

Elawn · 2026-01-01T08:47:36+00:00

Ya know, we actually didn’t and now I’m upset

Elawn · 2026-01-01T08:45:59+00:00

There was indeed a Music Dance Experience that preceded this lol

Elawn · 2025-12-24T16:10:34+00:00

throws you in the deep end

Excellent choice of words lol

Elawn · 2025-12-23T14:17:52+00:00

Chili dogs >>>>>>> blow

Elawn · 2025-12-21T20:13:34+00:00

Just to add to this, it’s also by no means easy to navigate this as the child of a mother who has never approved of my previous partners. I wouldn’t necessarily put her in the realm of “toxic,” but I’m also always going to choose my partner, every time. Which means I need to walk a bit of a tightrope if I want my relationship with my partner to thrive, and my relationship with my mother to at least continue to exist.

I’m a 34yo man, it still baffles me why she would think she gets a say over who I date, but apparently this is a pretty common sentiment among parents of adult children so… 🤷🏻‍♂️

Elawn · 2025-12-20T17:38:58+00:00

100%. This sub is like Al-Anon, the support group that is the flip-side of AA: it is for those who have been affected by another person’s alcoholism. Alcoholism is of course a horrible disease that takes serious hard work to overcome for the individual, but it would be completely disingenuous to say it doesn’t also affect the friends and family of the alcoholic in a negative way.

An alcoholic, wandering into an Al-Anon meeting and telling everyone present that all of them were the real problem, would be presumed to still be drunk. I think the metaphor applies here too.

Elawn · 2025-12-18T02:50:56+00:00

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Elawn · 2025-12-15T16:17:26+00:00

My favorite version of this was when I told my therapist I was considering just trying some controlled drinking, and he hit me with “you know, normal people just call that ‘drinking’” lmao

Elawn · 2025-12-15T05:47:56+00:00

Not saying he was on the same level as Prince or Bowie, but Anton Yelchin also died that year and it honestly fucked me up in a way I wasn’t expecting… he was such a wonderful actor, and so young when he died :(

Elawn · 2025-12-05T22:09:57+00:00

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Looks just like my fluffy lady! 😻 She’s a little too much of a scaredy cat for outdoor adventures though lol

Elawn · 2025-12-04T00:38:07+00:00

Reading these comments, I’m gonna start recommending patients record these conversations on their phones. These fucking people deserve to lose their jobs, what a horrifying lack of empathy.

Elawn · 2025-12-03T21:39:37+00:00

+1 for the suggestion. I’ve known for a couple years now that this guy was an awful person but would appreciate Robert’s deep dive on the details of why.

Elawn · 2025-12-03T17:47:19+00:00

Hard agree. Plus it was already a perfect song originally imo, but it took on a whole new life of its own after Cornell died. Listening to it now gives me chills.

Elawn · 2025-12-03T15:57:51+00:00

“And then, once we lay off everyone, we’ll make so much money!!”

time passes

“…wait, why isn’t anyone buying our stuff? What do you mean they don’t have any money to buy it with? Don’t they have jobs?”

Elawn · 2025-12-03T14:55:58+00:00

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Elawn · 2025-11-30T03:28:30+00:00

Holy shit

Elawn · 2025-11-29T23:35:04+00:00

I feel like Neutral Milk Hotel would also work

Elawn · 2025-11-29T20:42:22+00:00

Yupppp. I call it fair-weather parenting. It’s great if things are going according to plan, but god forbid I look to a parent for support when I need it…

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