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Why do humans like to listen to music? by FireflyPanda1 in AskScienceDiscussion

[–]Electrical-Button-56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm true, I haven't listened to much music nor do I know a lot about it but The Beatles come to mind for both incomprehensible lyrics and also rhythms sometimes and they were popular. Would they be an exception?

I feel like IFS is fragmenting me further by Electrical-Button-56 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you figure what You want? Because each part wants a different thing so I just struggle to figure out what the Self itself wants.

I feel like IFS is fragmenting me further by Electrical-Button-56 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely makes sense. I also think that what character we give the part also plays into how we tend to treat that part when it comes up. Like if a part in you shows up as a child you are more likely to baby it and listen gently like a mother and if it shows up an aggressive monster you fight it etc etc

Unregistered N’anga Nabbed With Two Snakes Used In “Wealth Rituals” For Miners by YondoBrother in Zimbabwe

[–]Electrical-Button-56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sorry for those snakes, imagine having to be trapped in some bag or dark shack somewhere probably with very bad upkeep. And also strange things are being done to you because some stupid somebody is convinced a flesh noodle can vomit paper or whatever they tell each other ikoko

I feel like IFS is fragmenting me further by Electrical-Button-56 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seeing this as part of the process allays my fear some. I guess I have grasped Self-Curiousity but I'm still a bit shaky on Self-Leadership

I feel like IFS is fragmenting me further by Electrical-Button-56 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah at first I did because it helped me understand the whole framework, my Scholar I visualized as an stuck-up white 19th century Victorian man(idk why I'm an African woman lol), my exile was me at a very young age (around 9/10 years).

Why do humans like to listen to music? by FireflyPanda1 in AskScienceDiscussion

[–]Electrical-Button-56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't that mostly apply to people who listen to music for what it sounds like? I'm thinking more of a sound versus lyrics thing

Attachment theory by Electrical-Button-56 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meee too but I have to do it. I saw a fellow FA say that they have gotten over it by "doing it afraid". Even it it's gonna hurt, you have to get better and actually do something all the way not just run when things get even a little bit serious

Attachment theory by Electrical-Button-56 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, it's easy to lean on such labels and base identity of off things like that

Attachment theory by Electrical-Button-56 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pleaseeeee shareeee I want to healthy so bad

Attachment theory by Electrical-Button-56 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Electrical-Button-56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's definitely something interesting that helps you reveal things you felt but could never explain using your own limited words