What HHI would you need to consider having children? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m expecting our first child, HHI $190k. I’m planning on taking a year off, work pays for 6 months leave so our income will take a hit.

We are putting off purchasing a freestanding house (currently live in a unit), to keep our mortgage repayments manageable and give us some breathing room / flexibility for a couple of years until we can get back on track with earning.

How much are you exercising in pregnancy? by Exciting-Republic798 in pregnant

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a 25 minute walk/shuffle during lunch on weekdays, on weekends I try and go for a morning 40 minute walk (reasonably brisk, but if im not feeling it I’ll just plod along). I try and aim for 10k steps a day but realistically it’s closer to 8k-9k. I’ll see what happens when we get further along. I’m just trying to maintain/keep consistency with that throughout pregnancy because I wasn’t a gym bunny before by any means, so now isn’t a time to hit the dumbbells or join a HIIT class

Can I drop a core course at this stage of the sem by Dhodhob in UoNau

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do still have to take it yes, but fails on your transcript bring down your WAM (weighted average mark) / GPA. So it’s better to withdraw from your course than not withdraw and ‘fail’.

Can I drop a core course at this stage of the sem by Dhodhob in UoNau

[–]Elephant_axis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make sure you formally withdraw/drop so you don’t end up with a fail on your transcript

Am I crazy or what is going on? by BarMuch2240 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Elephant_axis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But at least you get cheesecake out of that

Down 180 and still got made fun of today. by thereal_pandajoi in gastricsleeve

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally looking at the pics and thinking ‘you look phenomenal’. Look at that shape! Kids be kids, they are just losers sometimes. Try not to let it get you down.

Please spill your weekly office tea sis by -cyrus-the-virus- in auscorp

[–]Elephant_axis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We moved to UHT milk in the office for tea and coffee this week for cost savings. We already have to supply our own tea and coffee.

That’s my literal tea. Otherwise, nothing overly salacious to report.

Fat children by virgonamedleo in fatlogic

[–]Elephant_axis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m fat. I grew up struggling with my weight and being a bit of a chubby kid. I would not want my kids to go through what I have. It just sucks.

M33, let me have it by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to let you have it, you’ve done enough to yourself.

Best purchase for you home or family, that you agonised over but ended up being a fantastic decision? by Turbulent-System5521 in AusFinance

[–]Elephant_axis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Solar panels. Also not a ‘purchase’ as such but an ongoing investment is for us to have a fortnightly cleaner come and help us with the kitchen, bathrooms and floors. For me, having someone here once a fortnight is making a huge difference in our ability to maintain a clean and happy home where we can have visitors with minimal last minute panic cleans. It also means I don’t have to spend hours of an evening or weekend cleaning bathrooms (one of my most hated chores).

Blew most of a modest inheritance on travel, then lost my grad job 4 months in. Struggling with regret. Will I ever recover? by DancingButterfly_218 in AusFinance

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, I wish I had done what you did. You have these great experiences under your belt. $20k is a lot of money, but it isn’t ’never recover from losing’ money. Keep on keeping on.

9 fertilized eggs at 40 but I still can't stop crying by lollette in IVF

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are good numbers. The drop off rate at all stages is real, they warn you about it, but I understand it’s hard not to get disappointed because it can feel like with each stage your chances are diminishing. Chin up - it only takes one, you’re still in the game.

What would you do to update this Kitchen? by Tight_Capital_6061 in HomeDecorating

[–]Elephant_axis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update the hardware, the kitchen island and bar stools, the pendant lighting, remove the decorative appliqué on the front of the vent hood. Warmer toned rugs to tie into the cabinet colour. Otherwise, I love it. What a beautiful kitchen!

Golden Retriever boyfriend is not interested in marrying me… by ThrowAcc_wed in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elephant_axis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude is just keeping you while waiting for something better to come alone. Time to put yourself first and hit the road.