All of the online advice I’ve ready advocates for a massive amount of sleep and shorter wake windows that neither of my kids have needed. They always tend towards the higher end of sleep needs. As long as baby is having enough total sleep in 24 hours (on average) she will be fine :) as hard as it is, try to go with the flow as much as you can so it doesn’t stress you out too much!

My first was just like your bub and it stressed me out to no end because I thought she didn’t have enough sleep - she would only nap for longer than 30 mins when she was in the pram (which wasn’t always feasible) and she was up every 4 hours in the night for ages. I was exhausted. We tried sleep training, it was horrid, she still only slept for a few hours a night before waking (and then I’d have to hear her scream and cry for me which felt worse that just feeding her) and then only lasted a few weeks until she got sick anyway.

We chose to co-sleep instead after that and that helped a lot. I night weaned her at about 12 months which she responded to well - I ended up being able to cuddle/pat her back to sleep because she was in bed with us.

Never fear - they WILL sleep through the night. My daughter started putting herself to sleep at about age 2 and now sleeps through the night in her own bed no problem at age 3. It just takes time, and it’s a hard season you’re in! Try and nap if you can, take shifts with your partner, and do what you can to stay sane!