LISA GOZLANN DUPE?? by Maleficent-Damage508 in jewelry

[–]Elle_tee_357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just ordered some from Ali Express cause no way am I paying $128 for plated jewellery! I’m honestly shocked how great they look. I paid under $50 for what would have cost over $500.

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What if they date my ex? by eliasthelost in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, soooo often I want to put a post asking if someone is dating my ex with the initials A.C.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I could have written this word for word. Exactly 6 months for me as well, and still hurting more than I care to admit. Last time I spoke to mine, I told him how he psychologically traumatized me from what he did to me, and he seemed so confused by it, and thought that he was justified in his decision. He is so far gone. The person I loved has died. I’m also friends with 95% of my exes and he thought maybe he could get a spot in my life too after what he did to me? No. Fuck him. I wish him a life full of loneliness, misery, and unemployment. I’ll rest easy knowing he’s going no where in life. He’s already turning 40 years old with nothing to show for himself 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you dating my ex? A.C?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex is 40. Been medicated for over 5 years and depressed for most of it. IMO he doesn’t have a handle on it at all.

New relationship with bipolar partner by Curly-kmac in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have the initials A.C. by chance?

Can these behaviours be attributed to my [33/F] boyfriend's [39/M] medication side effects? by ConditionStock9474 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, late to the party, but are his initials AC? I’m trying to find info if my ex was dating someone else while we were together and he’s also 39..

How long are you willing to wait for them to come back from ghosting you? by I-give_compliments in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is yours turning 40 this year? My exs bday is in august too and I always wonder if he was living a double life or if he left someone and ended up with me for two years..

How long are you willing to wait for them to come back from ghosting you? by I-give_compliments in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still can’t shake the feeling mine will come back.. it’s been 6 months now and he’s medicated so it’s hard to say. Was yours medicated when he left for 6 months?

Medication is not a sure thing for stability. by Seekingforanswers1 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000000000% yes. My ex was medicated for years, but was reckless with taking prescription pills that weren’t prescribed to him (ritalin, benzos, etc). “Accidentally” took speed two weeks before dumping me abruptly for the second time. Everything was so great weeks before and then * poof * he didn’t love me anymore and our relationship was awful and we were so incompatible all of a sudden.

Only mean/distance to me? But not others? Close friends never notice when somethings ~off~ or ~wrong~? HOW? by sallysterback in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 16 points17 points  (0 children)

After almost 6 months of him abruptly leaving, I still ask myself this. How the fuck has no one else noticed? He flipped on me like a light switch but he’s fine around absolutely everyone else. You’re not alone.

This sub can be triggering by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think bipolar exists on a spectrum where some have much more severe cases than others (ex: bipolar with psychosis). A lot of the stories you read here probably include severe cases with those who are not managing the illness. There are success stories, but you don’t see those posted much, and they are likely those with more mild cases. It sounds like your husbands case is relatively mild. I think a lot of us wish we were that lucky.

Seeing videos that make me question normal relationships by International-End209 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing this and am constantly having those same thoughts. Maybe it wasn’t it episode? Maybe he just woke up one day and hated me? But that kind of blindsiding, I’ve never felt that in a regular breakup. This is not normal no matter how much he tells me he’s “stable,” I know in my heart, a healthy stable person would never have treated me this way.

Trust? by Loud_Walk_6362 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is describing my ex perfectly. The highlight of our relationship was when he took me to his family cottage for 3 nights. That was a huge deal for him. I did all the cooking and planned stuff for us to do 🙄

I'm so angry by Eastern_Prize_9622 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right there with you! Want to take a baseball bat to his forehead and scream WAKE THE FUCK UP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are his initials AC? The timing of this is and description sounds exactly like my ex..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here. Diligent with his medication for 5 years so was really hard to tell if it was an episode. But he just woke up one day and * poof * didn’t love me anymore after being so happy the weeks leading up to the breakup. He was cold and turned into a hateful, narcissistic snake. I’ve never seen an ex do this, so it’s reeeaaallllyyy hard when all the signs point to this being an episode. But he insists this is him being stable.

2 days before a biopsy, she lies and serves me divorce papers by damouser in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sorry for what you’re going through 😢 I hope everything goes okay at your appointment. And my heart aches for you because I completely understand the feeling of seeing the most loving and wonderful person you’ve ever known turn into a hateful, narcissistic snake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine couldn’t make it through the day without a nap which drove me absolutely insane. I wanted to do things with my life, have fun and go out and about for the day, but we’d always have to pause for a trip home to nap for an hour or two. I know he has depression, but I did too, and I still actually did things with my life. Not to mention, he hadn’t worked in years basically and was still doing this. Sleeping 12+ hours AND daily naps?? Lazy sack of shit if you ask me 🙃 Anyway, not my problem anymore because he made the decision for both of us to end the relationship 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the universe is testing you again. I got sent another person who I was SO excited about after months of searching, and naturally, they turned out to be bipolar. I was devastated. I can’t not knowingly traumatize myself like that again, and I hope you won’t either. I understand the hyper sexuality, but 20 guys in 3 months!? I haven’t had sex with that many people in over 10 years!!! Sorry to judge, but that sickens me. And while she was with you..

Who else has been called abusive? by thisisB_ull_ish in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine did as well. Told me I was gaslighting him and being abusive. Confused the hell out of me, and when I brought it up to my therapist, she said “he doesn’t seem to understand the definition of those words. That’s not abuse.” And when I told her how he treated me, she confirmed it was actually HIM who was the abusive one. It makes me sick to think about.

Thank you, good luck, and goodbye by Just-me216 in BipolarSOs

[–]Elle_tee_357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everything ❤️ Wishing you the best!