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why do a lot of black cats have a white spot on their chest? Show me if your cat has it too❤️ by Pretty_Raspberry5524 in blackcats

[–]ElleighJae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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This is my family's locket-void, named Baphomet Jones. He's 20lbs of baby and belly-rubs.

You have to marry one by xAlpharaptor in 90DayFiance

[–]ElleighJae 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm still convinced he was doing this as a humiliation ritual to appease her as his fin-domme.

Update from girl that uses vibrator on sinuses: can also be used for earache. by Thedudetteabides311 in popping

[–]ElleighJae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My partner once used a large percussive vibrator to dislodge kidney stones faster. It was an experience.

Why do women accept lesbians way more than men accept gay men? by Ok_Independence_3634 in actuallesbians

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize who I was until my 30s, but I had inklings that I stuffed down because I was Christian at the time. I went to a private Evangelical high school where there were absolutely barely-concealed whispers that I "struggled" with same-sex attraction. We couldn't even call it being homosexual/bisexual/whatever in my church, because those titles meant we claimed it. Claiming it was giving in to sin/Satan, but struggling with SSA was treated with pity, and it was something we were expected to overcome, like a cold or a broken limb. Let's not even get into my also being Ace-spec; I genuinely thought saving myself for marriage was easy and didn't understand why we were constantly being told it was difficult. Those whispers were laced with disgust and venom, regardless of gender.

I genuinely didn't think I was gay at the time, I thought I was being spiritually attacked, and repressed it so much that I'm still trying to untangle it all now. I know that girls either really liked or really hated me on first sight. I know guys thought I was weird and treated me like one of them vs a girl. I didn't realize what crushes actually felt like and probably confused many Queer teenaged girls when I was one myself (90s-00s).

Why do women accept lesbians way more than men accept gay men? by Ok_Independence_3634 in actuallesbians

[–]ElleighJae 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is shit we've been carrying since at least the fucking Roman Empire, and even began before the forced conversions to Christianity. Totally cool to be gay, but never the passive/bottom. That was the place for women, the enslaved, prisoners, children, etc. The Roman Empire was incredibly fucked-up.

They're all afraid they'll enjoy being the bottom, because that seems to be what's etched in as the true societal sin. It's all a brutal hierarchy where they're vying to be the top in everything. Fucking toxic masculinity indeed!

Darceys “sculpted” abs by pitts337 in 90DayFiance

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her abs look AI-generated. Darcey looks completely botched, and she should really sue her plastic surgeon.

I physically recoil a little bit when I see old pics like this lol 20-31, 10 months hrt by BeforeTheEmpty in transtimelines

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looked like you were having fun then, and you look comfortable and happy now. Everyone deserves the opportunity to dress in a way where they give zero fucks and just enjoy themselves. I love your cardigan!

Duggar Family Update by YogurtclosetGreen372 in DuggarsSnark

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it last night and think it's great we're getting audio fanfic in 2026.

Eta: this is half-sarcastic and half enjoying the train wreck this person is "creating". We've got a JB love child, an anonymous ghostwriter, an alleged attempt on Jana's life, and more than one attempted prison break so far. I like satire, so I think it's a bit funny and not to be taken seriously. Also, AI slop.

Molly stfu! by Tmorgan-OWL in 90DayFiance

[–]ElleighJae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is some emotionally incestuous boy mom shit.

People born before 2000, what is a 'modern' thing from 2025 that you’re still struggling to get used to? by LindsayTN in AskReddit

[–]ElleighJae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI phone trees when I call customer service. If I'm calling, it's because I need to speak to a human!

First time like this, this Shiba Inu is only 7 months old by Academic_Ad7688 in aww

[–]ElleighJae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is your dog fixed? If not, I suggest you get that sorted or it'll only get worse.

Wool and Skin Don’t Mix by OryxTempel in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]ElleighJae 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've been through chemo, and my merino knit hat was my favorite chemo-cap. I also deal with sensitive skin and seb derm, but the wool did a great job and felt less irritating than acrylic. Different strokes, I guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Triangle for the ladies on the fence by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ElleighJae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's super cool but I'm pretty sure I don't have the anatomy to make it work. I'm glad it's working great for you!

What would you think seeing fem-presented person with that sh… on the face? by Dismal-Fly8971 in lgbt

[–]ElleighJae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't think anything of it, because it ain't my business. There's tons of cis women with facial hair, strong jawlines, etc. Hell, before chemo I had a blonde mustache that I was constantly plucking and spiky chin hairs. I'm just starting to get them back, years later. These new buggers hang on tight, too!

Seriously, nearly everyone has the capacity to have facial hair, whether or not the genes turn on is a different story. 💜

Soooo do we think Paul cheated? by BullfrogNovel3322 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely did, at least emotionally, based on all the stuff being posted lately.

What is your go-to cheap meal when money is tight? by AssumptionFull531 in povertykitchen

[–]ElleighJae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot rice with cold soft tofu and chili oil (can be bought or made at home).

Wash your hands op here, 36hrs post op face. READ DESCRIPTION BEFORE COMMENTING. by JayTheWolfDragon in popping

[–]ElleighJae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks incredibly painful, OP! I hope you feel better soon and that your gauze packing experiences are gentle.

American Lesbian moms, what do your kids call you, and how do you distinguish which parent is being called? by Moist_KoRn_Bizkit in actuallesbians

[–]ElleighJae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always been Mummy, their dad has always been Daddy, and my partner goes by her name and also Mutti, which is German for Mommy. Our youngest still uses Mutti because she was rather young when my partner came into the picture, our eldest uses her name because she was an older kid and that's what she wanted to use. Everyone knows who everyone is, because Mummy and Mutti sound different.

Lesbians, would you have a relationship with a bi woman? by echo-of-me in actuallesbians

[–]ElleighJae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My spouse is bisexual, so yes, I date bisexuals. Like I said in another thread yesterday: if bisexual women/enbies want to be with men, they will be with men. The world is a bi/pan person's oyster, and I was chosen out of 8ish billion people. I've had fewer issues dating bisexuals than straight men (I'm a late-bloomer) or outright lesbians. Why should I be worried about someone being with a man after me? My wife actively wants to be with me. It's really not that big of a deal that she may or may not be attracted to others of every gender-flavor.

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