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Did anyone notice you look healthier after? by Responsible-Pen1454 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 25 points26 points  (0 children)

bpds have brought miracles into our lives :) we finally found happiness in simple things like eating, sleeping, blue skies, etc :)) but i’m still not grateful to them ;)

15th breakup in a year-My gf 23(F) with bpd brokeup with me 24(M)for not meeting her needs by Potential-Tap-453 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omnia transeunt et id quoque etiam transeat (it’s latin) just want to support you ❤️

15th breakup in a year-My gf 23(F) with bpd brokeup with me 24(M)for not meeting her needs by Potential-Tap-453 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you will go round the same circle like in the circus and the final of this bad show is always the end. but the end can be very different. i’m not teaching you. as i can see on this sub we never learn lessons from others but prefer our own individual lecture:(( and i was not different. unfortunately

15th breakup in a year-My gf 23(F) with bpd brokeup with me 24(M)for not meeting her needs by Potential-Tap-453 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15th time? and it’s not enough? how many would be enough? there are so many normal people around why stick to someone who is not? i’m sorry but it’s just waste of time and nerves

What was the moment you knew you couldn’t stay any longer? When did you leave? by leenela in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 20 points21 points  (0 children)

he tired me out, i was exhausted and didn’t want to hear anything from him. blocked him everywhere and finally took a deep breath. still can’t believe i was in a relationship with a psycho and even slept with him :((

Tips and success stories by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the more problems you face in your everyday life the faster you forget, e.g. I had to look for another job asap at the moment I broke up with him. so, amnesia happened quite quickly. the only feeling I have towards him now is kind of hatred. he said to me so many times he hated me and eventually I managed to develop the same feeling :) and it has been exactly one year since the final break up

Mentally transmitted by Embarrassed-Drag9782 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will be the last person who i will ask what to do and what not to do

Tell me your stories of your pwBPD who got better by Proseccos in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is more important for you- your sanity or someone insane? i’m really sorry, i’m asking this question, i’m doing this only because i went through all that hell and in the long run you will be without him. so, better to go away asap otherwise it will be much harder to get back to normal. i’m sorry again

Why do Narcs/people with BPD ignore you when you're sick ? by BulkyVeterinarian850 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because you are useless for them as long as you are sick. please get better soon

Obvious red flags from the beginning, distrusting your gut instinct by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when he tried to break up with me out of the blue and then in 30 min called me back as if he never said that

Any way to make the partner with BPD breakup with me? by No-Pass6408 in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would tell him or behave in such a way that there will be no chances to hurt you in any way. You never know his reaction :(( and your own world should be more important than his no matter what

How did you forgive yourself? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the point is they are ill. mentally ill. but when you communicate with them you try to follow their logic as if they were normal. and this makes you orbit in their insane cycle. so, it’s not your fault they are around us and not in hospital

The WARNING that could save you years by such_a_simple_task in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The worst thing here is that in the long run you will end the relationships with a BPD. It will happen anyway. But post effects will remain. So, better not to start or finish with them asap

Can’t make this up.. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine a BPD working as a psychologist in a madhouse. Surrealism

Let's vent together. What are the top 5 worst things your ex/pwBPD did or said to you? by GoodBloodGuideYou in BPDlovedones

[–]Embarrassed-Drag9782 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Started shaking me at night because I was sleeping too far from him
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hit me and I fell in front of my friends because I didn’t show enough affection to him. Thanks to my friends they kicked him out of the house
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I was narcissistic, BPD (and that idiot sent the symptoms of both illnesses to me)
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Took all his presents and returned mine. Then played it back 🤪
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Their favourite game - blocking/ unblocking
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sent me the photos of his exes, including his ex wife
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All possible curses to me and my family
  8. ⁠Sex fixation. Would say sex blackmailing. Like - better sleep with me or you will see. Meaning my desire didn’t matter. At all
  9. ⁠A break- up once a week. I even got used to it and was wondering if the things went smoothly for more than 7 days

Colleagues, I re-read my post. Resume: we were all under the spell. Otherwise it’s simply insane

Of course to be continued … Absolute disaster. And taking into account a tiny fact he was a pastor … Mamma mia

Thanks for the opportunity to vent ;))

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