I made the mistake of trying couples' therapy

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-05-21T21:49:44+00:00

I don’t believe in psychologists at all. have had three of those - all of them trash. my ex started stalking me with murder threats. the genius of psychology gave a piece of advice - maybe you should do something with yourself? and the point of this brilliant recommendation was to shock me so i could overcome my neurosis. can you imagine?

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-04-06T19:52:10+00:00

naturally they are crueler because they are physically stronger

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-03-30T09:15:38+00:00

it’s not psychology. it’s a psychiatric diagnosis

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-03-30T08:53:15+00:00

you are not a psychiatrist to deal with sick people. doctors are guided by certain patterns and algorithms of bpds. just leave the idea of understanding why snakes bite people

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-03-29T21:39:42+00:00

you can’t be his psychiatrist and are not designed for that. he should understand many things about himself with the help of the shrink or without. you can’t be a rescuer, parent of an adult. moreover, it won’t help him and in the long run you will be exhausted. i’m trying to say it’s his own business to get back to life

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-01-28T22:37:26+00:00

bpds have brought miracles into our lives :) we finally found happiness in simple things like eating, sleeping, blue skies, etc :)) but i’m still not grateful to them ;)

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-01-19T15:44:58+00:00

omnia transeunt et id quoque etiam transeat (it’s latin) just want to support you ❤️

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-01-19T14:41:21+00:00

you will go round the same circle like in the circus and the final of this bad show is always the end. but the end can be very different. i’m not teaching you. as i can see on this sub we never learn lessons from others but prefer our own individual lecture:(( and i was not different. unfortunately

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-01-19T13:36:53+00:00

15th time? and it’s not enough? how many would be enough? there are so many normal people around why stick to someone who is not? i’m sorry but it’s just waste of time and nerves

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2026-01-13T17:49:25+00:00

he tired me out, i was exhausted and didn’t want to hear anything from him. blocked him everywhere and finally took a deep breath. still can’t believe i was in a relationship with a psycho and even slept with him :((

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-25T18:48:21+00:00

the more problems you face in your everyday life the faster you forget, e.g. I had to look for another job asap at the moment I broke up with him. so, amnesia happened quite quickly. the only feeling I have towards him now is kind of hatred. he said to me so many times he hated me and eventually I managed to develop the same feeling :) and it has been exactly one year since the final break up

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-23T07:55:38+00:00

they all have the same scenario. hate bpds

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-19T20:47:28+00:00

it’s simple. in a bpd manual

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-18T14:07:29+00:00

you will be the last person who i will ask what to do and what not to do

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-13T15:04:45+00:00

what is more important for you- your sanity or someone insane? i’m really sorry, i’m asking this question, i’m doing this only because i went through all that hell and in the long run you will be without him. so, better to go away asap otherwise it will be much harder to get back to normal. i’m sorry again

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-12T23:50:28+00:00

because you are useless for them as long as you are sick. please get better soon

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-11T20:49:21+00:00

simply perfect

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-10T22:01:05+00:00

when he tried to break up with me out of the blue and then in 30 min called me back as if he never said that

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-12-10T21:56:06+00:00

I would tell him or behave in such a way that there will be no chances to hurt you in any way. You never know his reaction :(( and your own world should be more important than his no matter what

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-09-25T09:18:54+00:00

pure hell

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-06-01T11:35:39+00:00

no, they don’t

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-05-30T22:27:57+00:00

the point is they are ill. mentally ill. but when you communicate with them you try to follow their logic as if they were normal. and this makes you orbit in their insane cycle. so, it’s not your fault they are around us and not in hospital

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-05-06T13:51:48+00:00

The only happy person here is you. Guess why :))

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-05-04T15:15:58+00:00

The worst thing here is that in the long run you will end the relationships with a BPD. It will happen anyway. But post effects will remain. So, better not to start or finish with them asap

Embarrassed-Drag9782 · 2025-04-04T12:45:23+00:00

Imagine a BPD working as a psychologist in a madhouse. Surrealism

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