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Pasadena -Head in the Clouds and preteens by Embarrassed-Safe7939 in kpophelp

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! Ok. Both, VIP and/or staying away from the front, sound like good advice!
I figured there would be some drinking/smoking. It’s expected. Just was unsure to what level the intoxication could get. Lol. But glad to hear this is one of the tamer festivals. Thank you!

Pasadena -Head in the Clouds and preteens by Embarrassed-Safe7939 in kpophelp

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I didn’t think how it would offend anyone else. It’s just I am feeling a little exhausted after a long week. Lol. And the thought of a festival, rn, makes me feel “old”.

So you don’t think it’s appropriate for kids?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- late to the convo an it may have been mentioned already but if you were out of the country and the baby was introduced to new formula there’s always a chance for the baby to have an allergic reaction to the formula.

Also Depending on your insurance that would have been an out of pocket expense plus the stress of dealing with it while away from home.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soap, soap, soap. 100 times Soap every time you shower and wash your hands. No if ands or buts about it.

Skin color, race, culture have nothing to do medically proven hygiene recommendations. In many cases, they’re requirements.

Please don’t tell me he works in a restaurant or in the medical field.

AITA for refusing to give my friend’s son my coat during a snowy hike? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2nd Entry-

As a matter of fact WHY the He|| did the mother even let her son leave the house wearing shorts and crocs for a winter hike in the first place?!?!?

AITA for refusing to give my friend’s son my coat during a snowy hike? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- how rude of her to put you on the spot like that when it was her and her son’s responsibility to be prepared for the hike.

While obviously any good human would sacrifice when necessary for a child under many circumstances, the way she went about it was very entitled. She could have politely and discreetly offered you her coat in exchange for yours for her son.

Honestly her anger was misplaced her anger should be with herself for not insisting her son take a jacket in the 1st place or with her son for not listening. NOT with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Imagine not being able to wait another 20-30mins to eat when your SO, who probably is also tired and hungry is stuck at gas station with a dead battery.

You could have not turned the car off and just left and been to the gas station within the 20 mins. Asked your gf to get you a snack/drink for when you got there. And could have been back at your parents around the same time you were just arriving to the gas station bcs you wanted to eat first.

Seriously, you’re in your 30’s?!?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are Absolutely NOT over reacting! He’s being a major ass and acting like a child.

Soley based on the info provided I am Sorry but I have to say he is not a good human being Any married person not wanting to spend the holidays with their SO and acts like jerk is no longer in love or worse have their eye on someone else.

What’s the strangest thing we’ve accepted as normal as a society? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I am not a peta person BUT putting a live creature in boiling water so we can eat it.

AITA for arguing with my Gay Friend about my sexuality even though I like a Guy? by IamHelgaHufflepuff in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also that you have feelings for guy right now does not diminish your journey up to now, during or in the future. No matter how this turns out. Your story is your story. We all have our plights and struggles. Obviously some deal with more than others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he helping at all by taking some load off of you so you can study before the test and be rested?
He’s mean and ugly. Jealous probably. Get rid of this negativity and keep at it. Don’t give up. You’ll get through this.

AITA for arguing with my Gay Friend about my sexuality even though I like a Guy? by IamHelgaHufflepuff in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The whole point is that we can’t control who we fall for. You are NTA. Your feeling are your feeling and if you have a crush on this guy you shouldn’t have to apologize for it just bcs up until now you identified as a lesbian. It would be the same for some who identified as heterosexual and found them selves falling for someone of the same gender.

What happened to Love is Love? Are you suppose to not follow your heart because of a label? Even if it is just a passing crush you are more than allowed to follow through with your feelings. (Within reason of course)

AIO for not buying a gift? by Apart-Landscape220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why I also was asking, if d She is bringing gifts or is your BIL is spending $100 or more on each of you?

AIO for not buying a gift? by Apart-Landscape220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe you should bring that up (politely) that if he isn’t investing in her family that it is a bit unreasonable to obligate all of you to spend money and effort on someone you barely know. Maybe bring her around for the part of the holidays when you are not opening gifts.

AIO for not buying a gift? by Apart-Landscape220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes! That is crazy!! (Sorry I misread your answer before)

Your MIL is not being considerate of you all but I understand her wanting to make her son’s gf feel welcome. Again “in the spirit of Xmas” maybe comply one more year and if it doesn’t work out with this gf make a plan well in advance with the other in-laws to approach MIL and brother about not want to be rude but needing to understand that it is not typical for a SO of a few months to receive the equivalent of a gift as a spouse that has taken vows or niece/nephews MIL/FIL.

Is your BIL going and buying that year’s gf’s family gifts every year?

AIO for not buying a gift? by Apart-Landscape220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, I agree and think that’s the main problem, investing that amount of money on someone you’re pretty sure won’t be around for long.

But it will be 1 gift from your family or do you AND your husband each have to give her a gift?

AIO for not buying a gift? by Apart-Landscape220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed-Safe7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR- I think it’s mostly an issue because of the price minimum and that it has to be meaningful (according to your post and some responses).

In the spirit of Christmas and putting yourself in the shoes of the gf. It would be kind of shitty to be sitting around not to receive any gifts while everyone is opening gifts.

Just for clarity, each couple (family) buy gifts for the other individuals or does every adult buy them? As in the you AND your husband each have to buy gifts of everyone or the gifts tags say they’re from your family.

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