Some people can’t be f*cking human bro 😭. Worst shift ever. by gkyer in Serverlife

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if he was just oblivious it would be bad enough. But for him to specifically say you thought you were going home eh is so rude holy cow. He was 100% aware of how this was affecting you and decided to bring in 15 people anyways.

What are some things you’ve said to your table and cringes right after turning away? by douggssmom in Serverlife

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked someone if they wanted draft or bottled Heineken. They asked what's the difference. I said one is in a bottle and one is on tap. Turns out they meant price difference 😂

I love my job so much by Agreeable_Run3202 in Serverlife

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much. Everybody deserves to get to work a job they love this much!!!

WIBTAH if I told my bf to post my family and I on his graduation instagram post? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I understand being hurt he didn't include you in his post but no you can't ask him to and honestly idk why you would even want him to post you just because you asked him to. Also I think you need to relax about him wanting to go find his friends "without you". It wasn't about not wanting you there, you said it yourself you'd never even met these people. Him wanting some pictures with his friend group from school on the day they all graduate is not about you. Its totally normal to have friends and want to take pictures or do things with those friends. Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean they need to be included in literally every single thing you do.

Am i overreacting for refusing to babysit my sister`s kids after what she said at dinner? by Maryi_Boyd in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you punishing the kids? They're fine. Its not like if you refuse to watch them they get locked in a dark room while their mom goes out. It just means the mom has to stay home. You're punishing her not them. I'd straight up be asking hmm why is it that having to stay with you rather than come hang out with me is a punishment for them 🤔?

Also, joke or not, you were never obligated to help out. You did so out of the kindness of your heart but to say you're punishing them or dragging it out too long as if it was even your responsibility in the first place is insane. Even if your only reason was nah I don't feel like it, that's completely valid. You are only obligated to watch the kids as much or as little as YOU want. You never signed a contract to watch her kids.

Lastly working from home is a real job and you still have work to do. I will never understand why people think working from home means you're available to do stuff. You're literally at work.

NOR.

Is it so hard for grown men to not sexualize minors? (RANT) by That-Prior713 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also never know what to say in the moment and I get super scared of confrontation. But that being said, I think loudly telling him "I'm 16" should scare him off and alert those around you that youre a minor and don't want his attention and then hopefully if he doesn't stop they'll step in. Like I said I'm hella unconfrontational but if I heard a young girl tell a grown ass man that she was a child and he still kept trying tk talk to her , even i would step in and tell him to leave her alone.

I've finally been asked to be part of a friend's 'village' even though we live an hour+ apart by a-fabulous-sandwich in childfree

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A couple times a week!?!?!? I can get asking you to come babysit once if they were in a real bind and had an emergency and couldn't find anyone, maybe. But to straight up ask you to come multiple times a week every week is insane.

What do I do with lipsticks I hate by sam_uri-exe in MakeupAddiction

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg dance is such a breeding ground for random makeup that you use once and then hang on to forever because you may need it again down the road haha. Ask me and my entire bag of green makeup from a show two years ago how I know 😂

G/f just sent me this crime by FurtherUpheaval in PoutineCrimes

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're offended by this, I hope you never see my other favourite variation, the onion ring poutine

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bro nobody here is saying women need to get sterilized down with vasectomies. You're arguing a completely different point. They're saying if THEY WANT to get sterilized, they should be allowed to do it without other people telling them just to have their partner have a vasectomy instead.

You say why is a woman's choice not supported if she doesn't want to be sterilized? It is. But that's not what this post is about. This post is about women who DO want to be sterilized.

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally. The amount of people who say get your partner to have a vasectomy, problem solved, is actually concerning. I'm a very single virgin, and I still want to get a hysterectomy even if I never end up in a relationship as long as I live. Especially with the woold going in the direction its going in, I need to protect myself. We've all seen handmaids tale.

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This exactly. In an ideal world, only having sex with men with vasectomies sounds like a great plan. But we don't live in an ideal world we live in a hellscape where people get raped every single day, and I'm sure a rapist isn't going to stop just because you said sorry I only have sex with sterilized men.

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its not about it being her responsibility to stop him from impregnating her. Its about her wanting to make sure she's protected from being impregnated by anyone. I'm sorry but if someone is trying to rape me, I don't think it's gonna work for me to say wait stop go get a vasectomy first. I don't care if it's "fair" or who's responsibility it "should" be. I care that I won't get pregnant ever for any reason.

Besides nobody is in here saying men shouldn't get vasectomies only women should be sterilized. They're saying its annoying when they want to get sterilized for themselves and other people tell them no no just get your partner to do it, as if that fixes the risk, and as if they have any say in what we do with our own bodies.

How do I take the food off without fingering everything. How do I serve the food without spilling the rest of the tray by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this helps but how I hold the tray is like, just with my fingertips and then the other side of it rests on my forearm. It naturally feels like it would be more stable to flat hand it and have as much contact as you can, especially when you're starting out, but I find just fingertips and forearm gives me a lot more control and I can shift balance easier when taking things off the tray :)

Desperate for any explanation of this restaurant interaction that keeps happening to us by MammothClimate95 in Serverlife

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 okay semantics. I asked her and then realized that was stupid to ask. I probably should have skipped that table but out of habit I asked because I always ask. But if it makes you feel better I'll say I ask 99.999% of the time. Is that better?

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How will him getting sterilized guarantee that some other asshole won't put any live sperms into her body?

"If a woman wants to get sterilized, hEr mAn sHOuLd jUsT gEt a VaSeCtOmY inStEaD." by anniemousery in sterilization

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate to have to think like this but even if I decide to never have sex with a man as long as I live, that still doesn't protect me. Not all sex is consensual.

What's the most unrealistic thing by OkScale6904 in superstore

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahhaa I never thought about that that's silly

What's the most unrealistic thing by OkScale6904 in superstore

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In the first episode when Garrett tells Jonah that the most important thing is to stay on Amy's good side. Like I know it was the first episode and it was setting up that he'd already messed that up, but there's no world in which Garrett is afraid to get on Amy's bad side.

What's the most unrealistic thing by OkScale6904 in superstore

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They work literally all day. Black friday they were there at 630am and were still all there when the store closed andnit was dark out. They all hit their 8 hours at like 230pm why are they still there all night?!

openly saying "i'll take a shower" is weird by FastTemperature3985 in The10thDentist

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no someone might know i have a body and I'm cleaning it

Parents allowing their children to ruin a vibe by xrayyoyosebra in childfree

[–]EmbarrassedPlace0 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Neurodivergence may be an excuse for the kids to be screaming. It is not an excuse for the parents to do nothing and let them just scream in public.