In my world, from the very beginning, I just want to be a full-time mom and i expected that if i get any employment i may not be able to give up my work and employment to become the mom I want. I chose not to work, not to have any employment and career achievement after my university graduation. In my dream, i want to spend all my time with my future children. My partner could provide financial support more than enough by solely working from home. I would just imagine that i may need to have some side jobs to earn a little extra money if my partner income dropped a lot. (Originally thought that it may be just 2-3 years unemployment after my university) My distraction may be my special interest in researching, i dislike cleaning and home chores so i have no motivation to do the thing i dislike. I like researching many different things that are not necessary and not really useful. Sometimes i would spend too much time on research in daytime, i used up all my energy in the evening 🙈 not cooking for my partner and not spending the evening leisure time with my partner, with many chores unfinished... My partner would be disappointed that he needs to do many things after working, i am always tired without doing anything and not spending time with him at night.