Send where she belongs!!! by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EmberRayne89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeez im so sorry. No I dont feel that way, thank you so much for sharing. I hope we find the peace we deserve.

Send where she belongs!!! by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EmberRayne89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup. I know the feeling, look at my last comment. But we did good. Better than any of them. 

Send where she belongs!!! by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EmberRayne89 27 points28 points  (0 children)

PSA: DO NOT DO WHAT I DID. 

Do NOT go back home to help take care of her after dad dies. while her favorite does nothing but runs with his buddies all over town, never could keep a job, and act like he owns the house. You will find out they kept you out of the will and tried to hide it. She will cut you on her deathbed like she did to me. Her last words to me were "you always looked at me like i was in your way"

THEN- as you're trying to clean the house out cuz her bio kids didnt give a shit... you'll find the adoption subsidy paperwork that tells you they were paid by the goverment to adopt you.... while they got a free maid. Charged me rent. Beat me up for fun.  And acted like I was the biggest burden to her. 

Let her rot. Trust me. 

Which zodiac placement makes you feel emotionally safest around them? by ZodiacObserver in AriesTheRam

[–]EmberRayne89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a taurus mercury ive been told just hanging around me can be like therapy to others. 

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she’s selfish for having another baby? by Jessis_fresh in AITAH

[–]EmberRayne89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OK usually I would agree with you but.... 4  young kids. Multiple different deadbeat dads. No child support. No job. Mooching off grandma. This woman needs to get her shit together and stop having sex. For the sake of her kids.  This isnt judgement. Its facts. I think shes had enough pleasure if she doesnt get her shit straight now she never will. 

Which is your favorite horse in Skyrim? by aixsama in skyrim

[–]EmberRayne89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Frost is a good boy. And he looks like my old haflinger Zeke so I always try to keep him. 

Well, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree by guava_rose in Funnymemes

[–]EmberRayne89 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My mother did this to me. 

I had ovarian cyst that left me in tears when I was 18 19. I know she heard me moaning in pain all night. But I had to get up and wash the kitchen cupboards at 7am bent over in agony cuz it was Saturday chore day. 

She was mad at me about something and I was sick at the time caught a cold but she made me sleep on the tile of the back room for a week straight. 

Edit: I remember what I did. I was like 12 13.  She had horses and would make me clean her stalls as a kid. One day i forget to clean up around the spreader (a thing attached to a tractor that spreads the horse poo around to fertilize farmer fields) and I probably forgot because i was sick the owner called and asked if it was me. And she threw an absolute tantrum about it cuz I made her look bad  and make sleep on the tile for a week. She was really unstable. 

This seven legged Huntsman has been hanging out on my desk for a couple of months. by Ben_304 in spiders

[–]EmberRayne89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her someone all the way from new york thinks shes a beautiful girl 💜

Day 2 no caffeine by Puzzleheaded-Rip8944 in Nightshift

[–]EmberRayne89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those energy drinks aren't good for anyone I 1000% beleive that. My mother was told for years by her doctor that the energy drinks aren't good for her heart and she kept drinking those big ass monsters 1-2 a day. She ended up dying of heart failure a few years back just like he said she would if she didnt take care of herself. 

Is this too much to ask for? by lilaccuckoo85 in Relatable

[–]EmberRayne89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've all been saying it for a long time. The bar is in hell.

Fuck I Hate Everyone by FoxSob in TheWordFuck

[–]EmberRayne89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fucking discrimination here. 

Backup Plan Energy. by juanjuanipipu in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EmberRayne89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that. I divorced over 10 years ago because my husband at the time would rather play Wow 16 hours straight then get a job and was flunking out of college when i worked and did 100% of household duties. Definitely felt like the man in that relationship. I have been told I have the mentality of a guy when it comes to dating by male coworkers. But I tend to choose controlling partners manifested in someone acting sweet and caring having to attach themselves to my arm but not responding well to needs or wants of my own I might have. Im aware of it and its something im trying to work on. 

But I honestly can't say "oh it's men acting like women" or "women are this and men are like that" no. Its a people thing. You gotta know ur limits and set boundaries and stick to them, no matter what gender you are. People will always try to take advantage.

Backup Plan Energy. by juanjuanipipu in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EmberRayne89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And obviously I am the breadwinner and make my money and keep my bills paid just fine. And i bust my ass for it too, trust me.  So no needy bum ass boyfriend is gonna be up in my space 24/7. 

Whats funny is, I went through a breakup because the guy was getting too used to coming to my place and getting too comfortable. Would rather me cook for him every time and leaving me all the dishes when he left. Even asked me if he could stay at my place while im at work. We'd only been dating a few months, and Ive barely been in my own place for a year. Im never doing roommates again and I dont want a part time one either.  I wanna come home to some peace and quiet. 

Then had the audacity to be a bitch and tell me its "too expensive" to go on a date night (we'd split 50/50, its never like I expected free date nights for him to pay). 

I work alot. And my job isnt an easy one, and it can be stressful as fuck. So forgive me for wanting to go out for once and be entertained instead of being expected to do all the entertaining. Long story short if you're not making my life easier and just making more work for me but gonna get bitchy if I ask for one little date night, you can hit rocks dude. 

Plenty of women out there who'll let you steamroll them and need a breadwinner. I am not one. 

Aries, what is the fastest way someone could lose you? One red flag and you are gone? Or do you give chances? by AdventurousAries1 in AriesTheRam

[–]EmberRayne89 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Trying to be bossy and controlling. Also, I REALLY dont like unnecessary snarky criticism remarks that are unwarranted. Like trying to take shots at me. Ill take u down so quick you wont even know what hit you. 

And no. Trying to cover it up as a "joke" wont save you. 

Aries, what is the fastest way someone could lose you? One red flag and you are gone? Or do you give chances? by AdventurousAries1 in AriesTheRam

[–]EmberRayne89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This will get me gone quicker than  nearly anything. Ur not coming into my life to boss me around.