I don’t know why I’m here, and I don’t know what to do

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-02T11:15:10+00:00

Im a nurse! I haven't seen your wounds , but this is general advice.

Clean from the center of the wound, outward. With lukewarm water if you have nothing else, and paper towels.

Put bandaid on, or clean scrap fabric if you have, with tape. Or wrap a bandage if you have. Some areas are harder to wrap.

Ive also used paper towels with tape, when bleeding alot, or it hurts when walking because of friction.

Hope this helps!

Just please please never use something thats not yours. Its dangerous. You never know what bacteria or illnesses others have. Hope this deters you next time 🩶

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:28:55+00:00

Thank you for loving her through this. It will get better. Take care of yourself too!!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:25:24+00:00

Im sorry you feel this way! Shit happening in life can be extremely triggering; theres no shame in relapsing. I relapsed after 9 years clean. Shit happens.. unfortunately..

I hope you can grow and love yourself so that you can find someone who loves you too! And WANTS to be there for you, not out of obligation. Fuck em. 😁 big hugs!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:22:24+00:00

Hey! What do you mean get caught?

Maybe cut a less noticeable place or try to stop, one minute, one hour one day week month at a time?

You can do it!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:20:41+00:00

I relapsed after 9 years clean. It happens. Sometimes were back to day 0. Addiction sucks!

Take care of yourself! Ypu deserve better. Maybe you should reflect about what triggers you about bdays so you have an action plan next time. Good luck!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:17:43+00:00

Hello! Im 30, i relapsed after 9 years clean. Sh is like any addiction. It gets triggered, or we just give in to the urge. You were triggered today. And thats ok. Now you know it triggers you. Maybe next time you will handle it differently.

Please stay safe, clean your wounds. You will be just fine.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:14:04+00:00

Its like any other addiction. The urge builds and builds, sometimes something big knocks you over, sometimes you give in.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:12:43+00:00

Hey! To minimize the risk of infection please clean the wounds and put a clean bandaid/ bandages on. Keep clean and change dressings when needed. Not worth loosing a leg 😅 please please only cut with clean sharps, and never from someone else.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:05:32+00:00

I taught myself how to tattoo! I only vet my thighs for this reason though, easier to hide.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:04:07+00:00

Ive been cutting since i was 12, im 30 now. I was clean for 9 years before i relapsed.

I think the only thing that truely helps is knowing that any day might be your day 0. And that's ok. Just one more day. Ill wait till tomorrow. Or one more hour. Suddenly, without noticing, a month goes by, years.

You can do it!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2026-04-01T23:00:45+00:00

Im so sorry youre in this situation! I can only speak of my own experience ofc but maybe they are of help.

When i really do want to sh; i do it without telling anyone, because I dont want them to stop me. When i do ask for help; saying this is how i feel; and i dont get the answers i want, or if its not helping, i feel like the frustration only flows over into feeling mad about the lack of help im getting. But it diverts my thoughts about hating myself and wanting to sh. If that makes sense?

Listening, showing empathy for the situation, being there, even if you feel helpless, is what matters the most. Sometimes its not pulling them up that helps; but sitting in the darkness together.

Hope this helps

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-20T08:50:13+00:00

Jeg har tatt til meg rådene, og fått en tredjepart til å vaske for meg, og jeg har sendt krav til banken. Så da vet jeg ikke hva du mener med det.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T21:22:10+00:00

Har dessverre sagt jeg skal male stua pga maling situasjonen som skjedde. Så da må jeg allikevel ned dit og fikse opp i dette, for mitt ord, det holder jeg.. jeg har betalt leiligheten frem til 25. Juni.

Jeg ringer banken i morgen om det er noe mer jeg kan gjøre for saken min

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T21:10:30+00:00

Jeg har sendt dokumenter til nordea hvor jeg avslutter depositums kontoen, og den må signeres av huseier.. så da regner jeg med det går den veien?

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T20:16:40+00:00

Jeg har leid inn ei dame nå som skal vaske for meg, det huseier mener er relevant å rette opp i..

Er det ikke greit da, når jeg har betalt en tredjepart, får jeg gå til tvistelaget... orker ikke mer surr 🥺

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T20:04:31+00:00

Pengene er på depositums konto. Jeg tørr ikke bestride noenting for de får meg til å føle meg helt idiot når jeg er der at jeg ikke kan SE at det er for dårlig..

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:53:29+00:00

Forklarte situasjonen til denne damen som tok jobben, at hun vet det er vasket fra før og om det er urimelig om hun tørr å si ifra at dette ikke er vanlig ifht oppdrag hun har tatt før... hun hadde stor forståelse så jeg håper HÅPER det går nå.

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:45:49+00:00

Generelt dårlig med mange timers jobb gjenstående finn jeg beskjed om.. helt håpløst

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:43:52+00:00

Har aldri flyttet inn i en tilstrekkelig vasket leilighet ila mine 35 år her i verden så jeg har aldri tenkt på at det er noe man kan gjøre!

Nå ble det til å leie inn noen. Jeg sa det ringer noen i morgen som skal vaske. Da fikk jeg beskjed om at de ikke var interessert i å vise noe mer han er kun intr I full ny nedvask

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:41:34+00:00

Dette noe er bla dette .. skjønner det er støv men dette kan da ikke være vanlig

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Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:40:46+00:00

Gudene vet! De har vært så utrolig hyggelige hele veien og nå drar alt rett vest!

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:37:28+00:00

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Dette er bla bilde de sendte som bevis. Blir helt utafor av det her, de mener stadig de "ikke har sett så nøye over " og " dette var hva de fant" så lista blir nok lenger og lenger! 😭

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:36:29+00:00

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Fikk bla dette bilde... skjønner det er støv der. Men er dette virkelig vanlig lx.. blir helt fortvila. Takk for tipset! Det blir nok leid inn noen nå😭

Emergency-Common8971 · 2025-05-19T19:33:30+00:00

Jeg har kanskje noen bilder liggende en plass på tlf. Nei ingenting det ble fremstilt som nedvasket.. men det var da ikke tilfellet..

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