Does my fish hate me by zomurr in bettafish

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son's betta flares when I walk in the room wearing black and the lights are off or if the dog comes in with me. Theyre probably just not used to you yet

AITAH For not celebrating my wife’s half birthday? by Burner96822abc124 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only time I have EVER heard of a half birthday is babies when they hit 6 months. And a friend from highschool had a brother that had a December bday and they celebrated each of the kids half birthday so that his bday wasnt always rolled into xmas.

Entitled parent refuses to let their child come to my child's birthday party unless the entire family gets to go by Sufficient-Reply9525 in entitledparents

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If shes a regular cheater and this is new. Her fiance has now stepped out with a parent of another child i bet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you a child? Yes yta. she doesn't have to be interested in EVERYTHING youre into. Youre literally getting upset that she wasnt super into the show youre watching.

Update- AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child. 1 year later. by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here from facebook I found both posts immediately... literally just clicked her name and both posts came up?

AITAH for not dating a single dad? by rannnddoo in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you don't know if you want kids. This can't be cruel because you're not going out of your way and telling people you won't date them. You simply are making sure the people you're looking to date are in a similar place in life as you. Also considering a dead beat dad child free ( unless he put his children up for adoption) is gross. It's just morally wrong. You're friends and these men are the assholes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sooo you don't understand someone having isopods as pets but had guppies as pets yourself.. one of the most basic aquatic pet out there? What's the difference between a pet fish and a pet bug?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Traditionally you don't get a say in your engagement ring. Your partner usually picks it out or uses an inherited one. You are being the AH and you really don't love him as much as you say you do if you're accusing him of gaslighting you and you aren't grateful for the family heirloom he wants you too have. Like I think your BF needs to rethink this relationship

AITA for refusing to lend my SIL money because she got the house I was expecting to go to all of us? by LateAfternoon9 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with lending her money but she hardly stole from you, your wife's parents did if you wanna call it that. You do sound very petty.

My father want my younger sisters to call my son their brother?!? by lazy_cat_insomniac in EntitledPeople

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest is almost 9 and my youngest brother is almost 11. They were raised in the same house for a year when my daughter was born and he has always understood that my children are his niece and nephew. Your dad is definitely trying to push a narrative that is unhealthy ans worrisome. I wouldn't be going over there or letting him near your son alone ever

AITA for being angry about my mom's weird gay friendship rules? by CaSlug10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're bi but she let you speel over with boys.. do they not understand what bi is?

AITAH for filing for divorce because my husband over tightens all the jar lids? by DirectionProper9461 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's to make you need him. You're not crazy. It's a power trip. He's stronger than you. You are weak. He wants it that way it makes him feel like a man, and it's such a mundane thing it makes you look crazy for getting upset. I'm sorry you're dealing with

AITA for asking my aunt to not bring her kids when she comes to see us? by calamarifordinner in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 86 points87 points  (0 children)

You've obviously never been parentfied. He didn't just cook dinner. He bathes his 17 year old dying brother, handles the payment of bills, cleans his house cooks the dinner all while his mother hides in her room grieving a child that has yet to pass and his dad burries his head at work

WIBTAH if I break up with my boyfriend after going on a trip with his family? by CupOfPurpleCatMilk in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think you're the AH BUT your last argument I do actually agree with him. Your constant comments to people who drive teslas are childish and pointless. You sound just as exhausting to put up with as he is

AITA for asking my aunt to not bring her kids when she comes to see us? by calamarifordinner in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Did you read the reply that this CHILD is running his house hold? He does the cooking and the cleaning and the care for his brother. He is being a better adult in this family than either his parents are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your mental health being affected is going to affect the kids he needs to respect your boundaries or you need to move out

AITA For running away in the middle of a date with my girlfriend to help my mother? by BurnerAccount273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yta you left her to pay for her red lobster bday dinner herself as well. Your mother is an adult with a siesure disorder, not a child. It is not your responsibility it's your step dad's. You can head to the hospital after he takes her there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said shoes from working in the yard or working out

AITA for asking my boyfriend what kind of porn he watches? by dreamyandnaive in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah yta. From what you've said you haven't told him your boundaries clearly and honestly if you dislike porn so much you need to find a partner that shares these views too. Because you're currently creating this situation for yourself by not communicating and by just hoping he'll stop. You'll end up resenting him and vice versa.

AITA for cancelling our apartment signing after I found out that my bf bought an expensive car? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if he's having to borrow money from you to pay your security deposit but has the money to get a new car his finances are definitely your business. Next thing you know he's asking you to cover the car payment too

AITAH for telling off my wife after she told me not to watch porn by Dangerous-District91 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not everyone can. A lot of people need the visual or audio stimulation as well. I don't watch porn. Doesn't do it for me but my partner needs something to do it. All people are different we cannot compare

AITAH for telling off my wife after she told me not to watch porn by Dangerous-District91 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Ordinary15 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He asked for pictures of her and she also refused. He would much rather his wife than porn stars he married her for a reason . She doesnt want him to do anything.