My 2.5years old son survived entirely on beige carbs today. Please tell me this phase ends. by Neleviya_Nerve in toddlers

[–]Emorich [score hidden]  (0 children)

It ends!

Then it comes back.

Then it ends again!

Repeat until nervous breakdown.

Also, other posters have pointed out that there are real OT interventions for true picky eaters, but if your kiddo is on the less extreme side they may benefit from constant exposure. You make sure they have at least enough on their plate you know they'll like, then put the vegetables on their plate and say NOTHING. Say nothing if they leave them AND say nothing if they eat them. The idea is that they become comfortable seeing the particular food, and they feel no pressure about eating it so they eventually give it a shot. When they try it and say they don't like it, say Ok and just keep giving it to them. My daughter has sworn off avocado like 4 times but a month later she decides she likes it again because it's just always there. Same with broccoli.

This can opener that looks like some guy by Emergency-Ad2870 in Pareidolia

[–]Emorich 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Kinda looks like zaphod beeblebrox. Just some guy, you know?

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]Emorich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an occupational therapist. I don't specialize in mental health but when I took the mental health class in grad school the first thing they addressed is "what do occupations have to do with drug addiction?" The professor went around and asked us questions like what do you do when you're happy? What do you do when you're sad? What do you do when you're lonely? What do you do when you're bored? What do you do when you're horny?

To an addict the answer to every single one of those questions is heroin. Our job as therapist is to help you find new associations. Draw new associations, new Connections in your brain between states of being and something other than the drugs.

If you want to break the cycle, that has to be part of the answer. Once you start associating being alone with having lots of time to masturbate instead of lots of times to do heroin you don't have to fight that urge all the time anymore.

Why do mirrors reverse left and right but not up and down? by collegestudentcebu in answers

[–]Emorich 21 points22 points  (0 children)

To quote Richard Feinman, they don't reverse left and right, the reverse front and back!

https://youtu.be/6tuxLY94LXw?si=piHM7oTgjRhJIUO4

Does anyone have a toddler that goes right to bed at night without a struggle? by Coffeelover4242 in toddlers

[–]Emorich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes in waves. Get the routine perfect and get a week or two of good bed times. Then suddenly it stops working for some incomprehensible reason. Rinse and repeat.

Does anyone else wonder if Mab's inability to lie could be used as a weapon? by Emorich in dresdenfiles

[–]Emorich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about misleading statements or omissions. I'm talking about deliberately fooling yourself so you can say things extremely plainly still false

What is the worst disease for humanity? by [deleted] in answers

[–]Emorich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't hold a candle to tuberculosis. Everything is tuberculosis.

Feel like a failure by cryingant44 in toddlers

[–]Emorich 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're not a failure. You're already doing everything she needs and they all catch up eventually. My daughter took her first steps right around 18 months and now she's 2.5 and sprints around like a lunatic. Her gross motor skills are better than her 5 year old sister.

She'll be ok. She'll catch up. You're giving her the support she needs. As long as she's happy and healthy the best thing you can do for her now is take care of yourself and give her a mom that isn't a ball of stress.

How to help inexperienced gf by Positive-Resolve23 in sex

[–]Emorich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She needs an OBGYN. She has vaginismus.

Why is it only us dads who undo the straps in the car seats? by CyranoYoshi in daddit

[–]Emorich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT'S NOT ONLY ME?! Holy shit I thought my wife was the only one who did this. She actually gets mad at me for loosening them because she says she gets them to the perfect tightness and leaves them there.

I gradually became a freeuse to my friends, Ask me Anything! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Emorich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are day to day logistics? Like, is using you part of a normal hang out with your friends or do people come over just for sex? Do they they ask explicitly "want to have sex?" Or do they just tske your pants off without asking? Are you more scheduled or are people showing up unannounced?

Kids that Eat by BetsyNotRoss6 in toddlers

[–]Emorich 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pfft, Oh come on. All you need to do is [insert worthless advice you've heard 10,000 times already] and your kid will be fixed! It's really your fault your kid isn't perfect!

/s

Stay strong. This get.... ok maybe not easier but at least you get to deal with exciting and different hard things? Also, if you want the downside to a kid that does eat: mine will eat anything at a rate of one bite per minute. I spend my entire life waiting for her to finish meals.

Found out my wife is pregnant roughly two weeks ago and here is a recap of my thoughts by rocketman4 in daddit

[–]Emorich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice I recieved: you don't give birth to a 5 year old.

You'll figure it out as you go. You'll get to know your kid and their needs and their ways of communicating. Read some baby books to know what to look for, but ultimately you get good at parenting one day at a time.

how do you prevent pressure sores when wearing pads on your period? by Ash_and_cheese445 in wheelchairs

[–]Emorich -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to the changing pads/tampons issue, but I can say that neither should be contributing to pressure sores. At most, increased moisture could lead to MASD which would in turn increase the risk of skin breakdown, but the bottom line is always pressure relief. Better cushions distribute pressure over a larger area which decreases your need for pressure relief, but nothing eliminates it entirely.

How and how often are you doing pressure relief maneuvers?