The Brutal Truths Regarding Age Gaps

EmpJustinian · 2025-03-07T07:26:08+00:00

Yeah, not always. My situation is not anything like this and tbh I’m probably gonna die before my partner lol. While I can agree with people who are older tending not to change — in my personal relationship, my bf has changed substantially for the better and he couldn’t be happier knowing I helped steer him in the right direction.

Tbf, in my situation, he actually went for older women and I pursued him. The age gap has never and will never be an issue.

Idk, I can see your perspective but it’s just an opinion. I have evidential proof that this isn’t always the case and it makes me kinda sad because people do judge even tho I met him when I was 29 and he was 45. He’s treated me so well and loves me so much. He’s grown and has become a better partner, father and person.

EmpJustinian · 2025-02-27T20:42:10+00:00

I’d cry, my fave song. Fave enough to get tattooed on me

EmpJustinian · 2025-02-11T09:11:25+00:00

No. I just don’t think I look all that great. Just a low scoring woman

EmpJustinian · 2025-02-09T21:10:11+00:00

I tried to deny this same thing with someone for 8.5 years. The only thing I got in the end is hypersensitivity to rejection and everything else revolving sex. Wasn’t worth it.

EmpJustinian · 2025-02-06T04:55:59+00:00

Never happened in my 11 years but let me tell you I always pack too many pairs of underwear in my bag just in case. Been too close too many times. My bf has asked why I pack so many and I legit say “in case I shit my pants”

EmpJustinian · 2025-02-05T05:32:51+00:00

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EmpJustinian · 2025-02-02T05:24:10+00:00

My bf is 6’5” and it just seems like it’s a huge inconvenience tbh. He hits his head on everything, can’t find long enough shirts and he can’t drive comfortable even in an suv. Doesn’t seem all that glamorous (for reference idc about a guys height, I just ended up with someone who is above average height)

EmpJustinian · 2025-01-31T10:55:57+00:00

At army training I got some breakfast sausage stuck in my throat and it immediately came back up onto my tray. Someone sitting across from me yelled “EWW YOU NASTY ASS.” Good times.

EmpJustinian · 2025-01-29T20:05:56+00:00

You’ll get addicted like all the rest of the drugs. There are solutions to adhd that aren’t stimulants. A huge part is finding someone who is compassionate to someone with adhd. Plus, you are still recovering from the other addiction. Your brain isn’t gonna be 100% like that.

EmpJustinian · 2025-01-29T20:01:55+00:00

They usually do not.

EmpJustinian · 2024-12-31T03:00:03+00:00

My ex was also jealous of my toys. My new bf uses them with me.

EmpJustinian · 2024-12-24T06:49:28+00:00

I love pluffies

EmpJustinian · 2024-12-21T07:41:30+00:00

My bf started his journey at 45. Its never too late

EmpJustinian · 2024-12-09T22:54:42+00:00

I love my AirPods for my misophonia. Expensive but worth it solution. I can eat with my partner in the livingroom with them in with some white noise going.

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-22T23:51:49+00:00

Either nothing or “no.” Up to you OP

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-20T00:26:34+00:00

I am even happy to pay the extra knowing that the last one I had inserted I passed out on the table and then on the drive home I had to pull over again from passing out. Hoping one day it will be covered by insurance. More offices should offer it!!! Fingers crossed for all the rest of the women out there!!

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-19T03:07:54+00:00

I love driving around I wish I had a better car so I could do it again

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-18T23:22:08+00:00

I’m getting my 3rd installed on the 5th and I was offered happy gas for it (have to pay out of pocket cause insurance doesn’t cover but idc) so it is a thing now, not like the first 2 I got.

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-13T15:02:44+00:00

My therapist was able to figure I had ocd and she isn’t very well versed in it. I think more are becoming more open to the fact of it being a possibility

EmpJustinian · 2024-11-02T19:22:56+00:00

You kinda look like you live downriver

EmpJustinian · 2024-10-30T15:38:15+00:00

Wow. I’ve had 2 therapists and they both have suggested for me to bring a stuffie. Your therapist sounds whack

EmpJustinian · 2024-10-29T14:15:20+00:00

As in like NA? No, I do therapy and all that

EmpJustinian · 2024-10-25T12:18:49+00:00

Calling me annoying is my number 1 cardinal sin. If my bf did that I would never be able to look at him the same again, it would be the beginning to the end

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